I don t know how to choose between emotional problems. Ask your friends to help with the advice.

First of all, you should determine your feelings, and you should not consider so many objective factors, you must know that the final determination of whether you can be together, whether you can get married, is your relationship has the final say, if your relationship is not good, even if you are willing to go to their house, you can't get married, right? If you have a good relationship, whether you go to live with her or not will not affect your relationship. You are still young, the future is still very long, I suggest you work hard for your career first, if a man has a career, there will be a family, and without a career, there will be nothing!

This society is so realistic and cruel! Good luck!

It's up to you, if you really love her and are willing to give up your principles, then you go with her! If you don't feel like you love to that extent or you really can't give up your principles, tell her. If she loves you, she will accommodate you, and if she is not willing to back down, she will give up!

Introductory? I haven't been in a deep relationship for a while, so much thought?!

How long can you last a marriage without feelings, and how long do you want to last?!

Solve this problem and mention those, don't put the cart before the horse, brother!

Hehe, brother, will your family agree? I don't need to think about it at all!

Well, I didn't mean to teach you to be bad and flowery, I mean: we men are all standing and peeing masters below (hehe, it's a bit cheesy to say, no wonder). Work hard to find a job.

In this society, capable men will be favored and liked by women, otherwise, even if you go to his house, in the future, hehe, I don't need to say it.

Of course, maybe this girl's family is very good to you, and if you treat you as your own son, it is not unavoidable, and there is a flexibility in everything, hehehe.

Have fun, buddy. Top you.

What is the relationship between loving someone and self-esteem?

Or do you not love her as much as you think?

I summarize:

1.Your desired object is responsible, responsible, mature and steady; He can't take responsibility and is not mature and stable enough, so he is suitable for you, and a sense of responsibility is a must, and whether he can take responsibility and be mature and stable is honed according to personal ability and social practice.

2.You have to be with him not to talk about the object, but to marry and live, so you can't be independent; There are two kinds of pursuit of comfort and lack of progress: first, I don't realize that life is at a loss, and second, I don't have enough life experience and no sense of urgency and pressure in life.

3.There is a gap between the ideal and the reality, first of all, we must understand one thing, do you really care about him, and you are very concerned about his every move? Do you have great hopes and expectations for him?

Do you think he can do it (in terms of survivability)? If one of these three questions has a negative or vague answer, then it's over.

This is a guy who is too far from the standard of your ideal lifelong partner. If you marry him, you will suffer for the rest of your life!

Not to mention whether you can transform him? Is he willing to be transformed? Even if he asks you to transform, wait until you succeed in transforming him. Your precious youth is over! (As the saying goes, old habits are hard to change, and it's even harder to change a person's personality!) ）

I suggest you and him end up decisively! Next, find a like-minded person (who doesn't require you to make a hard change). This one will be in the same place as your heart, and you will be in the same place. Struggle with you to achieve a grand plan! How nice would that be?

Marriage is a major event that will affect whether you can be happy in your life. Be cautious and not hasty (marry for the sake of getting married). If there is no suitable one, he will take the initiative to give up, and when he meets his favorite, he will lose no time in chasing bravely. That's the smart choice!

I sincerely wish you a happy life!

Then whether he can lay out a blueprint for the future for you, and hard work to struggle is the key.

In the face of marriage, the values, goals, and ideals of the two people should be the same, so that they will work together to create the future.

The sage Confucius said, "Like-minded people are like-minded, but they don't seek each other if they are different, and the same is true for marriage."

If you want to marry someone, don't expect him to change anything for the better, if you can not be bad, you should be content, think twice.

If the heart doesn't hurt, it doesn't hurt, it's better to go with the flow, it's his own he will never run... Trying to understand each other, the most important thing is to learn to tolerate... If he loves you, I believe that a man who loves that woman will definitely work hard, and this is what his lover gives him.

If he is not willing to work hard for you and is not motivated, it can be understood that he doesn't love you very much anymore, otherwise how can he not consider you... He can't even protect his own woman, so he can't be considered a good man. I hope you are happy.

You're doing it right, one of the ideals, at least appreciative,

Such a person is not suitable for marriage at all, and a man who only knows how to pursue comfort and is not very motivated is unreliable.