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Your mother's approach to education is indeed problematic. But don't be too sad, you are an adult, you can be independent, you will not always live with your parents in the future, maybe your mother is menopause, you will be considerate of her for the time being, don't take what she says too seriously, so as to avoid you and her quarrels, and will not make yourself too sad, insist on what you think is right, and don't be affected by the outside world. Everyone has done something wrong sometimes, and as a parent, you shouldn't always go through old accounts, which is not fair to you.
Maybe you should talk to your family and tell your true thoughts, and if it doesn't work, I think you should live separately from them. I'm not provoking the relationship between you and your family here, it's just that I'm just like you, I live a very depressed life every day, and I have had your thoughts, but I now use the method I said above to live well with my family, when your family scolds you, you distract your attention, think about something happy, left ear in and right ear out, don't go to your heart, let yourself live happily, everyone has the right to enjoy life, I hope you don't be too sad, live well!
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Hello. Of course, it is not right for your parents to scold you like this, but if you talk back when you scold you, it is your fault, no matter how ugly the scolding is, you have to endure it, because after all, it is your parents who give you life, since your relationship is so tense now, it is recommended that you move out and live by yourself for a period of time, so that you and your parents are calm and calm, and the family scolds you so much and cares about you. Remember, there is no knot that parents and children cannot untie, and it will get better slowly.
I also have a lot of quarrels with my family, but every time I go out for five or six days, the relationship gets better I hope you too.
Good luck
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Parents are like this, maybe different ages, different ways to express love. Learn to accept it, if she wants to scold, scold her, don't talk back, go to bed at night and think about it, you may also experience the hardships of being a parent.
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When you become a parent in the future, you will be able to experience this helplessness
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Your mother doesn't treat you as a daughter too much.
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Ah! She seems to be your mother! Since I can't communicate with her, I can only say it casually! You don't see what she says! Ignore her! Otherwise, you won't go home, leave the house for a few days to see if she will care about you and look for you!
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Summary. This situation is very normal, because mothers generally think that they have more experience and can educate their children, so they will impose their own ideas on their children, because they are right about everything.
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This situation is very normal, because mothers generally think that they have more experience, and Fu Xiang is not old enough to educate their children, so they will impose their thoughts on their children, because they are right about everything.
At this time, you can tell them, no matter who they are, there are times when they make mistakes, and what about my affairs, I must be more clear, and they don't go too far tonight, and the state fuel brigade interferes in your private return to people.
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