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In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is even more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, you don't have to have someone to love, but you must cherish someone if you have one. Since you don't love, then let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and having, let go of the burden of the mood is much easier, in the moment the tears fall turn around and leave, don't let yourself hurt, why hang on a tree without sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, then, how to tie up people, twisted melons are not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem and self-love, indulge in pain, let yourself walk physically and mentally exhausted, scarred, why bother?
It's not interesting, love is two-sided, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the destined fate of life, you can't force it, you will get it only if you lose, and those who refuse to lose your luggage will never swim to the other side. Make yourself strong, have confidence and courage, live your own life, look back at the end of the sea of suffering, and find someone who truly loves you and what you love, which will comfort the wounds of your soul, make up for the shortcomings of your soul, and let you have and cherish. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will be a better relationship waiting for you.
At the very least, you will not live in sorrow, and you will find your own paradise, your own sweet, happy and happy life.
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Just try to keep an eye on the other boys.。。
If it were me, I wouldn't know what to do. I also like someone who I can't think of being together, so I want to give up, but I see him every day, not that I can give up if I want to.
If it were me, I'd try to like other boys. Although I will think that this is very heartfelt!
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If you have a way, you can leave there, and if you can't find a new target.
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Why should you give up on the person you like, since you want to give up, it means that you don't like it, since you don't like it, how can you say "give up"?
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Why give up? Hang on!
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What do you mean? You give up, or he gives up.
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True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.
True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.
Because, letting go is the ...... having everything
When you cherish it, please love it well.
When you let go, bless ...... well
No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person will not be alone!
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No matter how good things are, they will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, there will be a day when it is forgotten. No matter how much you love, there will be a day when you will go away. No matter how beautiful the dream is, there will be a day when you wake up. What should be given up will never be kept, and what should be cherished will never be let go.
Many things are always understood after experiencing them. Just like feelings, only after the pain is over, do you know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, I know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. In the process of gaining and losing, we slowly come to know ourselves.
In fact, life doesn't need such meaningless attachments, and we really don't have anything that we can't give up. Learn to give up, and life will be easier.
If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!
People who know how to take care of you!
Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple figure; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the best memories; Learn to give up so that each other can have an easier start. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go, pack up and keep going!
Let them pass away with the wind of memory, you will find another side of the sky, you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life, and feel the warmth of the sun.
Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.
Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.
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Hello, if you don't feel for him anymore, you will naturally give up, but if you still have a little bit of reluctance for him, it may take a little time, and it will take time to slowly relieve.
You can communicate with him boldly, just like a friend, so that you can open your heart and do what you want to do, and don't limit yourself by him.
Question: We have been together for 5 years, and now we are colleagues, but I find that he has no feelings for me now, and may have other people I like, so I want to let go of him, but I don't want to leave my current unit, how can I stop feeling him when I see him every day.
Hello, it depends on you, you should overcome the hurdle in your heart, the main thing is that you have to be confident in yourself, and don't have a lot of estrangement with her, if you ignore him, the more you will think in your heart, you should communicate with him normally, and do the relationship between colleagues, so that slowly you will find that you can forget him.
Question: We have an office romance, and now he is very close to another woman in the office, I didn't ignore him, he ignored me, how can I forget him.
Hello, if this is the case you are talking about, you should work hard, don't use your feelings in these places anymore, sometimes you can avoid it, don't interfere in those other things, the main thing is that you should overcome the psychological shadow in your heart, overcome your previous dependence on him.
Question: We are all in the same office, the two of them are subordinates, now I watch the two of them commute to work together, go out to run errands together, do everything together, my heart hurts, I can't avoid it, I have to face both of them every day, I'm like a neurotic sometimes out of control.
Answer: Hello, have you disowned him now? First of all, if this is the case, you should first dissociate yourself from him, and then do what you want to do, or you can find another better person than him, so that slowly you will forget about him, and you can also be angry with him.
I haven't asked a question yet, he keeps emphasizing to me that he is innocent with that woman, nothing will happen, and I haven't caught any tricks now, but my intuition tells me that there must be something wrong between them, so should I have a showdown with him now? I'm afraid I won't be able to.
Ask the teacher, can you teach me how to win back a man's heart?
Ask questions and ask the teacher for advice.
Hello, go home and ask him to think about what it was like when you were together, and you make an agreement with him, preferably to let him treat each other the same way you did when you first got better, for a month, and if it really doesn't work, separate.
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Everyone has had this experience copy.
I know I can't, but I want to like it.
You, many people are like that! However, many times it often hurts itself. After a long time, you will find that you feel ridiculous, a little silly, and even childish!
So sometimes we have to learn to give up, when we know that we can't, we should choose to give up, long pain is better than short pain, give up to give yourself a glass of cold water, extinguish the fire in your heart, run wild in the rain, sing and chant drunk, it's not impossible,! In order to be able to get happiness in the future, the so-called strong twisted melon is not sweet, don't ignore the whole garden because of the withering of a flower, open your hands, you will get more beauty!
Meteors are beautiful, but do you know that any star has its beautiful side, but you haven't found it, as long as you use your heart to find it, a lot of beauty is no worse than your current one! Well, that's it, people sometimes need to calm down and think with their hearts, only people who know how to give up will be happy people, I hope you get your own happiness! ~
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In fact, it is easy for some people to forget the person they like, but it is very difficult for some people, and they can't even forget it for a lifetime.
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It's okay to stay away from the place where the two of you are often together, so that you don't have to look at things and think about people.
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If you want to give up liking someone, you have to do it without listening or thinking. From then on, I no longer inquire about any situation about that person, and I no longer imagine the beauty of that person. It's very difficult to ignore someone, and it's even more difficult to win someone you've liked.
People's hearts are flesh and blood, and the people they once liked, even if they are not together in the end, want to leave a good image for each other.
If you want to give up liking a person, you have to try to forget everything about that person, even if it is difficult to forget a person, if you are determined to give up your liking for that person, then you have to make something substantial, you can't just say give up, but you are still thinking about that person in your heart. If that's the case, I guess I won't be able to forget that person for a long time.
Try not to have any more intersections in life, originally decided to give up, I was afraid that I would not be able to persevere, and I would collapse as soon as I saw that person, so try not to meet, it is better to miss each other, and put the most sincere beauty in my heart.
A best friend of mine, when I was in college, I liked someone for three years, that person had a partner, but she just couldn't let go of her liking for him, every time she said she wanted to give up, as long as she saw him, it was all over. I have made up my mind many times to say that I want to give up, but I have persisted for three years, and she has lived a painful and happy life for three years, obviously a person who cannot be touched, but she has always liked it without changing her heart, and in the end she is sad about herself. So if you decide to give up your liking for that person, you must stick to it, otherwise you will hurt yourself in the end.
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Now I will give you a suggestion, whether you have confessed or not, now go and confess again. And confess sincerely in person, vent all the feelings you have liked him for so long, tell him that you like him and want to be with him, regardless of any reason, it doesn't matter if he has a partner or not, you just need to do it. He promised that it was the best ending, and he refused, then you will give up very completely, and you will not let yourself have illusions about him again, now you just lack a reason to give up, You still feel that there is a chance in your heart, since you are not reconciled, you will have the courage to do it once, and now it is the worst ending, even if you are rejected, you are still the way you are now, there is no loss, what are you still worried about.
Emotional things are not a person's, you must be consensual, you are so unwilling to let go is not a way, it will only make yourself live in his shadow more and more painful, and now you need a desperate ending to make you give up completely. You just do it boldly according to my advice, no one will laugh at you, you are a brave man, at least you are brave on the road of love, you are an example for us to learn, many feelings like you do this, rather than deceiving yourself, it is better to give yourself a true image.
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How you can give up liking a person depends on how much you like that person. Sometimes, love is deep, even if you can't get it, you will never be able to let go of your love for someone. But since it's a liking, it's the kind of serious liking, and sometimes you have to give up.
There is a lyric that says, "There is a kind of love called letting go, giving up for love for eternity". Sometimes, giving up is not another sign of liking.
Of course, I still hope that all feelings will be responded, all love can go to the end, all people who love each other will not give up easily, and all people can be happy.
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If you like it, why give it up? Be brave and stay the course. It's a shame to give up, it's all over.
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All things are impermanent, all leaks are suffering, look at the point.
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What you haven't thought about, how can you implement it!
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The old does not go, the new does not come.
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You don't need to give up, just let go.
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How many infatuated people have been stumped by the word "love"? It's so hard to love someone, I brewed a cup of bitter wine of love with my own hands, and in the end I choked with my own tears and swallowed it, love has become a ...... hurtBut in this process, we will gradually realize the true meaning of "love", think about it, we are deeply in love with that person, as long as he (she) is happy, what else do we care? Or got?
Or lost? It's not important anymore Let's pray for the one we love, go on freely, and bless him (her) ...... with a sincere smileBecause our "letting go" does not mean "giving up"; Because we are still holding on to this true love, loving him (her) in another way, and at the same time you are free, the other person is also happy, isn't that good? Life is short for decades, bitterness and happiness are a lifetime, be kind to yourself, maybe in old age, we look back at the past, all these passing clouds are just a flick of the fingers of the small ......Good luck.
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