My husband used to be very good, but I don t know why he has been playing cards in the past few year

My husband used to be very good, but in the past few years, he has always been angry. It's because of the pressure of work, too many things at home, and too much pressure to rush to yourself, so it slowly accumulates, the old one is not solved, and the new one comes again, so it is very unpleasant to arrive, and you will be angry.

I used to have a good temper, but now I have a good temper, maybe it's because of things at work, I don't have a good relationship with my colleagues, I have a lot of pressure at work, and some things are not solved and another thing appears, which leads to irritability and low mood, and whether it is menopause, menopause will also lead to low mood and tantrums.

Observe more and see if there is someone out there, or you can't keep up with his rhythm and start to dislike you, or you are too capable, he feels that he can't keep up with you, or he loses his temper with you, and you don't dare to resist, he looks down on you more and more, thinks you can't live without him, and it doesn't matter if you lose your temper casually.

Temper ** The accumulation of all kinds of work and life, problems that cannot be solved in time, and new problems will make people feel very depressed, and they have to face it for life. In particular, the pressure of work accounts for a large part, the old tasks are not completed, the new ones come again, and the relationship between colleagues and friends is not handled properly, and this situation will also occur after a long time.

If your husband always loses his temper, he must be in a bad mood, you should comfort him, persuade him, understand him, and between husband and wife, you should help each other, care for each other, and trust each other.

It may be that business is unsatisfactory or something, it is almost enough to comfort it more, be considerate of your husband to see how the situation is, or it may be caused by other reasons.

It may be that in recent years, I have felt that the pressure of life has been increasing, and the children and the elderly at home need to be taken care of, take good care of him, be more understanding, more tolerant, and share it with him.

Maybe he is still far from his dream of success. Or that I didn't achieve my goals, and I felt very discouraged. Saddened. One may be caused by family relationships. There are many reasons anyway.

People will change, and the reasons may be many, but the key is that you don't communicate enough!

Is it because he is under too much pressure to understand him more.

Due to the reason of bad mood, it is not that when you get older, you will lose your temper when you reach menopause.

It must be a work worry or something else that doesn't go your way.

Calm down and find out the reason for his change now, whether it is unsatisfactory at work or a certain psychological pressure, resolve it with the gentleness of women, see if it can be effective, if it doesn't work, it is a problem of his personality, not whether he loves or not, and it must be loving to develop from colleagues to marriage.

Is such a man still a man, he will be very good with his wife, you are used to love and love, if he always breaks up as soon as possible. But I still have to make it clear and ask him what's going on.

I didn't dare to squeak when I was angry outside, and I went home to vent to my wife. Such a man, what's the point of following him? You have to be tough, either be honest with me or just separate.

All the contradictions must first find the problem from themselves, if you are good and there is no mistake, that is, he has other ideas, communicate well.

You all know that your husband used to be very good to you, but in the past two or three years, he has become grumpy, he suspects that you are good with others, can he not be angry, if you don't, just communicate well, I hope your husband loves you well.

Are you out there? Do something indiscriminate, your husband suspects you! People are not afraid of shadows!

You and your husband. Be clear, and don't make him suspicious all the time. This way.

Take a chance. To the family, to the children. Causing bad effects.

Did you do something bad that made your husband suspect you? If you don't do anything to be sorry for him, then you should communicate with him well, and family harmony is the happiest.

The most important thing between husband and wife is trust, and if it is lacking, it can have serious consequences!

Therefore, you need to strengthen communication and communication

Do a good job of opening up and talking about it, otherwise it will be serious, anyway, the divorce will be sooner or later, the family will be broken up in the end, and you will still be gossiped about by others.

When two people are together, they must tolerate each other and trust each other.

Your husband may be suspicious due to heavy family pressure, and you can be suspicious by yourself.

It's hard to say, it could be that he suspects you about something, or it could be that he has someone outside.

Bad work or poor health or accident with parents. You should comfort her to talk to him more about the cause of his tantrums, and then solve problems with him so that he can feel the love of home.

Fang is a bad sign, you have to be more obedient.

When things don't go well, there is no place to confide.

It may be that working outside is not going well.

People's luck and mood will inevitably fluctuate with time and space. Self-cultivation, harmony is precious, communicate more, and after this while, it will be natural to be fine. I wish you all a happy life soon!

After a long time, there will naturally be a run-in period

Between husband and wife, there will always be a battle of words.

Once you start arguing and realize that it might be going on again, quickly separate yourself, and time will calm you both down. If you are afraid that the other party will think that you ignore her and disrespect her, you can start with a simple explanation, For example, we are going to quarrel endlessly like this, let's talk about it later, everyone calm down.

PS: Don't expect the other person to change, because it's hard to change someone, especially if it's been decades. Then don't think about convincing the other party theoretically when arguing, because the concept is difficult to change, then don't dwell on what the right thing should be, take a step back.

Be open-minded, don't care about the result, and let the next step be a step, and there will be a lot less disputes. ：

First of all, husband and wife quarrels or small quarrels are not developed good habits at the beginning, if they really quarrel for a lifetime, they will really have a lifetime of quarrels, and they are married --- complaining about fate!

First of all, if you want to stop the quarrel, people have to have faith and chant Buddha! Chanting! Eliminate karma! I'm worried that you won't believe it!

Buddhism's compassion can tolerate immeasurable qi and endure immeasurable grievances!

It's in your own state of mind! What do you say?

In fact, there is no need to change, it is precisely because of this that your relationship will be stable, it is normal for two couples to quarrel in life, since you have recognized this problem, wait for the next time you fight about the same, you take the initiative to withdraw and hide aside, so that it may be better.

You can choose to travel, relax, and be patient with your troubles.

When you want to quarrel, drink water, don't swallow, if you don't speak, you won't be able to fight.

If you keep some of your favorite animals at home, then you won't be in the mood to worry about your husband.

Patience and thinking more about the good of the other person may be due to menopause.

Every time before you lose your temper, take a deep breath and think about whether it's worth it.

Read more books, exercise, plant flowers, and fish.

Usually, the two of them do more outdoor activities and participate in something.

I used to be the same as you, (Male 61), but I haven't been the same since I got sick

Happiness will not be waiting for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them; When someone who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he [she] loves you; When you meet someone, he [she] puts away his [her] stubborn temper for you, and because he [she] loves you; When he turns your interest into his [her] interest, or because he [she] loves you 、、、 likes someone, there is no reason to pay without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love; In fact, there are some such people around us, but (you, me, him) haven't found out yet, the people who know you best will always be by your side to protect you, and don't let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many words of love for you, but they will do many things that love you. If you find such a person around you, please cherish it、、、 please remember, the stars that can't be picked up, the ones that are always the brightest, the little fish that slip away, the ones that are always the most beautiful, the movies you miss, the ones that are always the best, and the lost lover who always understands you best; In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, once they miss it, they won't come back、、、 if you fall in love, don't give up easily, it's awkward, you may regret it for a while, but you give up, it may make you regret it for a lifetime; The life that has experienced love is beautiful, and the love that can't stand the test is not profound, and the love that makes life rich and tested is the most perfect 、、、.

I think in your subconscious, is to take your husband as your own dependence, when you have something or temper always want to vent, and you can't vent to others, then your husband has naturally become your punching bag, which is of course related to your personal temper and experience

Maybe you used to be like this in front of your family, that's one of my speculations)

Sometimes the reason why you get angry is unknown to anyone!

If you lose your temper at your husband like this, it will make him feel inexplicable, thinking that he has done a bad job or what?

It doesn't matter if it's been a long time, then what will your husband's psychology think?

He won't understand that this is a kind of coquettishness that you have towards him, and you yourself are not fully aware that you are coquettish on him, and it is your trust in him that will cause you to lose your temper with him

I hope he will come to appease you!

Over time, the two of you will be like two tin cans that hit each other, and you don't know what the other canister contains

But it keeps hitting the ping pong sound!

It's not good for either of you!

So you don't keep losing your temper with your husband, a person's patience is limited, when you are angry outside, think about why you are angry

I think you're small!

And when you are angry with your husband, you can talk to him, no matter what, don't always hold some things in your heart, you are happy to say it, your husband also knows the reason for your temper, and you can help you, otherwise you can't get it at that time and don't know why!

Tell you oh, when he was playing the game. He won't have time to play with you and exchange feelings with you. At this time, the game is your "third party", who occupies your husband's entire brain! Let him play the game in moderation and don't forget your presence!

Have a good talk with your husband and communicate. If you don't understand it, you can make a three-chapter covenant or something. For example, limit the time spent online.

Don't lose your temper with him, even if you take him out of the way when you encounter something that doesn't work hard, he will get tired of it after a long time. Find an appropriate time to have a good talk with your husband, and don't ignore that there is still a little you in your life for the sake of playing every day

It's you who treat him as your own private property, so you can do whatever you want, and you can be relieved and feel better when you scold him. There is a bit of a problem psychologically, and you have to learn to respect him.

According to you, I have come sick too. I'm in the same situation as you, it can be said that it's more serious than you, you're because you saw your husband playing games, I was playing **, I said it again and he didn't hear me and I was angry, the same, I also love him, he is also very good to me, I attribute the reason to the fact that the weather is too hot, people are easy to be irritable, and the temper naturally comes up, I usually lose my temper, and I will send him a text message to apologize later, and explain the reason, I don't know why I am angry with him, and then it's OK to be coquettish.

The seven-year itch, aesthetic fatigue or menopause has arrived.

Be able to tell.

It means that you have realized that something is wrong.

Now the choice to say the DAO shows that the problem is close to white heat.

If you know what the problem is, why listen to what others have to say.

Can't you just talk to your husband?

There are many things that can be solved by both husband and wife, so why do we need to be outrageous.

Your husband likes to play games, which shows that he is a thoughtful and fighting spirit, but he lacks a little courage to work hard, and on the whole, he should be a reasonable person, and it is difficult to find him to sit down and feel calm that this matter is a very complicated and troublesome matter? +

I don't love him enough to tolerate him. I'm also facing this issue now. I want to get angry for some reason. It feels like a lot of dissatisfaction with him, if you really love someone, you won't have so much dissatisfaction!