How can I forget my husband s past? What should my husband do if he finds out about my past?

Updated on society 2024-04-14
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let your husband change his mobile phone number! You don't need to remember your husband's past, as long as your husband loves you now, it's enough to have this, don't care too much about the past, just think about how to make your family profitable in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What to do if you are not a husband The important thing is how you think about yourself How to face it Whether you are ready Marriage needs to be cared for and understood by each other Marriage also needs to be tolerant of each other Think more about yourself I believe that you will grasp your own happiness Bless you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm a college student, my husband is a secondary school student, and he has been in prison for half a year, but I have never insulted him in terms of talking and doing things, he used to have a girlfriend, and he was still deadly tall, a head taller than me, not that I was short, but she was too tall, one meter seventy-nine. I also call ** from time to time, and I say that I am bored or something, I never put her in my eyes, I know, my husband only has me in his heart, because he used to speak in local dialects in his dreams, and now he speaks Mandarin in his dreams, haha.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Can't forget? It's hard to forget.

    Yes, you are right, what about a big generation gap in five years and a small generation gap in three years? So you have **, but it depends on how your husband thinks, if you think about it, you won't give up on you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Give both of you a little room to breathe! Love is like flying a kite! If the bolt is too tight, there will be regrets!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's your husband who loses someone's family, and the two of them are just short of a marriage certificate, and the others are no different from husband and wife, it's your husband who has changed his mind and has taken a fancy to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're rotten and glad you had a question, and you want to know.

    How can you forget the past love between your husband and his ex-wife? You're miserable.

    First of all, this is a fact that objectively exists, so it is impossible to disappear or change.

    All you have to do is stop paying attention to him.

    At the same time, it is a good idea to ask your husband to stop contacting him as well.

    So that when he doesn't appear in your life, you can think that he doesn't exist.

    Time is the best approach.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello! Your question is actually very simple, because you love his present and unmissed, not the past, because there is no participation in his life in the past, so you shouldn't care, as long as he is not sorry for you now and in the future, then you should cherish him better, and you should not return to find yourself uncomfortable, so why bother.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When facing the husband's thoughts about his ex-wife, he needs to be sure of his husband's heart for himself, if the other party still can't forget his ex-wife, he will leave decisively at this time, so that he will make himself happier.

    In a marriage, the husband's thoughts on his ex-wife will definitely bring bad emotions to himself, and the woman is a sensitive and stingy person, so she should seriously think about the marriage of two people at this time. Since the other party is vacillating between two women, who are already married to him but are still in contact with his ex-wife, there is no need for such a marriage to continue, otherwise it will only make him sad. The other party has never forgotten his ex-wife, indicating that no matter how hard he tries, he can't replace the other party's position in his mind, and it is better to leave early in the face of such an attitude.

    The fact that the husband still has contact with his ex-wife shows that he has not let go of his feelings for her, and his loss to him is a transition and comfort, so he doesn't want such feelings to avoid himself from continuing to be hurt. Since the other party does not put all his heart on himself in a marriage, his appearance is just to make up for the other party's emotional shortcomings, and decisively leaving the other party is the best choice, otherwise he will only let himself not get the other party's true heart in this marriage, and the husband will not love himself.

    Women don't take marriage as their everything, some people experience more things that are good for themselves, maybe they will leave each other to meet a person who is more worthy of their love. No one stipulates that once you are with the other party, you must stick to the end, a marriage must go to the end, since the other party does not put all their minds on themselves, such a marriage is very difficult to manage, and learning to give up will be empty or let yourself be reborn.

    In marriage, you should maintain absolute sanity, don't let yourself become a shadow of others, and don't deceive yourself knowing the facts. Since the husband can't forget his ex-wife, at this time, he will fulfill the other party's freedom and let the other party go, and he can also start a new life, and no longer call the army to become anyone's substitute.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Some people say that the older you get, the more you believe in fate.

    Some people are born with a golden key, stretching out their hands from small clothes, opening their mouths with food, and earning 100 million with any small goal. Therefore, some people naturally believe that everyone is born to live so comfortably and crookedly.

    Some people are born to work hard, running around, tired and tired, and in the end they may not even be able to guarantee three meals a day, let alone improve the quality of life.

    My Mr. Zhang goes out early and returns late every day, wearing stars and moons, working from 8 to 12, and sometimes he can't get off work at 12 o'clock. He had already gone to work before I got up in the morning, and he hadn't come home in the evening, and we were all asleep. So, I really can't remember what he looked like.

    Despite this, the family is barely making ends meet at most, and his current task is to lead the whole family out of the predicament of struggling to make ends meet (well, to put it a little exaggerated), pay off the loan, and as for Ben Xiaokang and the like, it will be a matter of later and future.

    Sometimes I feel that life is really not easy, I don't understand why the gap between people is so big, and occasionally I can't help but sigh that it is really much more comfortable to have a rich husband.

    However, I have never regretted marrying Mr. Zhang, and I can understand his difficulties. Although sometimes I can't help but smack a few times (I have to reflect on it), I can't wait for him to come home so virtuously at night. But at least I'll leave him a lamp, a door...

    Life is not fair, but many times life will always get better if you want to.

    Therefore, I want to say to my family, Mr. Zhang, although I can't understand your hard work, but at least understand. Working together, although we are not sure whether the dream life can be 100% realized, at least we can get infinitely close to the hollowing reform.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Change your husband, and you will find that not only do you mind his past, but he also minds your past, and most importantly, your future is minding each other. There is no such thing as perfection. Perfect only in fairy tales.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm also obsessed with the past, so I haven't looked for the next one.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I used to have two boyfriends, one of whom was a married man. I was ignorant at the time, and now I regret it, so I hid this paragraph from my husband before I got married. We were happily married, but the day before yesterday he peeked at my diary locked in a drawer and found out all about it.

    He said he felt cheated and was very angry. No matter how I explained, he didn't believe that I was wholeheartedly devoted to him now, and he even suspected that the baby was not his. Now he wants to divorce me, but I really love him, can I never go back if I miss it once?

    Wutong: Talk to him seriously, and if he still has that attitude, then quickly take the child out and divorce. Even if you live on the spot for the sake of the child in the future, the child and you are not happy, and it is very scary when a man is stingy.

    Think carefully, don't delay it too long, it is actually a tragedy that an unblessed child is born into the world.

    Treating others with sincerity is the way for husband and wife to get along, and I hope you can communicate sincerely and bring trust into your marriage again.

    Yoyo: It's not that you can't turn back if you make a mistake. If you want to go back, you have to do better than before. You can imagine that your husband must be angry when he knows that you have cheated on him so much.

    Your mistake is that since you have hidden everything from your husband, you should not keep a diary so that your husband can still know your past.

    Of course, your husband is very angry now, he thinks that you cheated on him, although this matter is what you did wrong, but it does not mean that you have no right to have a happy life, as long as you face it bravely and fight hard, everything will be fine.

    You must have feelings for you to get married, right? When he is gone, let's talk to him properly, maybe things will turn around? After all, you are wholeheartedly devoted to him, and he can definitely feel ......

    In case it doesn't work, you have to face it bravely, start all over again, and you must be cautious about your child's affairs, and don't make decisions in anger.

    I sincerely bless you, bless the baby in your belly, and hope you are happy.

    Meihong: What you have to do is to face the mistakes you made correctly, to make your lover accept you, and tell him that you hid it from him in the past just because you didn't want to hurt him, these are just your past, and you love him only now. Communicate with him sincerely, if he truly loves you, even if he has a small pimple in his heart, he will not divorce you easily.

    Qingqing: Actually, I think your husband cares about you very much, otherwise he wouldn't have acted like this. The last thing any man can tolerate is for his beloved to deceive himself.

    Sometimes love is strong, but sometimes it's ...... like glassWe have to take care of it. Let's talk about it again. (Quping finishing).

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