Many people say that it s better to be single anymore, but it s really not in love

That's what you must have thought when you hadn't found someone you really loved, and so do I am.

In a few years, the mind may change.

No, it's just that she still cares a lot about her hurt in her heart, and she still has a knot in her heart, she is afraid of being hurt again, she is protecting herself, if you want to love her, you have to believe in her, you have to care about her, she will understand.

It's fake, male and female love is the common nature of people, this is called normal, and vice versa.

You better talk about it later, care about him as a friend first, if he doesn't reject you, it means that you still have a show.

This is the case with girls who have just fallen out of love, because she hasn't been able to accept the facts. After a while, she'll recover. Tell her what you want to say to her when the time comes.

I'm just afraid of being hurt.

There are many reasons why people nowadays have not been in love. Some of these reasons may be: the popularity of social** and the internet has made it easier for people to find someone they like, but it has also made it harder for people to build truly meaningful relationships; Increasingly busy work and study make people not have enough time and energy to find love; Still others may have become more cautious and vigilant after some painful emotional setbacks, and no longer trust and invest easily.

Of course, there are also some people who feel that they can wait until someone better to start a relationship. They may think that they haven't met the right person yet, or that Pihong people are not willing to compromise and sacrifice their standards and values easily. There is some truth to this thinking, but there is also a need to pay attention to balance.

We can't keep waiting for the perfect person and the perfect situation, because perfection doesn't exist. We need to find a partner who can grow together and support each other within the scope of what we can accept.

Although many people have good conditions in all aspects, they still choose to be single and don't want to fall in love anymore, but there are several reasons for it.

1. Accustomed to living alone.

I have become accustomed to the state of a person, and I can live a very comfortable life, free and free, and do what I want. When you go out on a trip alone, you can go to ** if you want, you don't need to consider the mood of another person, and then plan for him. You don't have to think about his favorite flavors when eating, whether it's a street stall or a high-end restaurant, you can enjoy it with relish.

Watch the movies you want to watch, read your favorite books, become the person you want to be, and then slowly become independent and complete, as if you don't need another person to enter your life.

2. I don't believe in love anymore.

Today's boys seem to prefer to flirt around, unwilling to take responsibility for anything, just saying they love you, but they won't really do anything for you. I've seen too many couples divide and unite, and I no longer have any expectations for love, no one can accompany me to the end of the day, and it seems easier to achieve loneliness. Not everyone has that good luck, if I can meet the right person, I will surrender and accept my fate first, anyway, I am destined to have nothing to do with the word love.

3. I don't want to be hurt.

Falling in love with Sun Gaoai is more like a bet, no one knows that they will be hungry and will not lose everything, they may be fearless and willing to try before, thinking that as long as they have loved with their hearts, they will not have any regrets, but now they don't think so, for themselves, not to love, it means that there will be no harm. No one can get up and walk immediately after an injury, and if I could, I hope I would always remember the pain and never hug anyone again!

Finally, I want to say that whether you are in love or not, it mainly depends on your own choice, as long as you can be happy and live happily, in fact, a person can live a wonderful life, there is no need to be in love.

I believe that for many people, they are very much looking forward to love, because love is such happiness and very sweet.

Especially when we meet someone we like so much. Then we want to be with the people we like. So we see a lot of people who are very.

They will take the initiative to care for each other and love each other, because they hope that through their own care and love, they can make themselves able to be together with their liking, and they will also be able to have a happier and better love.

But we see that there are some people now, even some older youth. They also don't fall in love, and they don't even want to get married, so I wonder why many people choose to be single and not in a relationship now.

First of all, because there are a lot of people, especially some young people, who don't work very well. We all know that if we don't work very well, then it is very difficult to have love, so we see a lot of young people who have failed, they are very hard-working, because they continue to study hard and work hard through their own continuous work, only in this way can they be better. Only in this way can they have a beautiful love.

Of course, we see that for more people, the reason why they don't get married is because there are a lot of girls now, and they are all very realistic. Especially in love, they are even more so. They will demand a lot of high demands from boys.

They always demand good jobs and good families from boys. When two people get along together, they also require boys to be able to constantly care for and take care of girls, if boys can't do this. Then girls absolutely don't want to be with boys.

So we see for a lot of guys. It is precisely because they do not meet the requirements and conditions of girls that even if they want to be with girls, they cannot achieve it. So we see that there are a lot of boys now who just don't fall in love, don't get married, and are always single.

But in fact, they also know that love is happy, and it is very beautiful.

So we hope that these young people themselves will be more active and hardworking. Because only when they are watching their own hands can they be more active and hardworking, so that they can be more excellent. And when they are excellent, this will allow them to better find a suitable person.

In the end, they can get along better with each other. Only in this way can they really say goodbye to singleness, and finally let them have their own happiness and beautiful love.

You don't have to think about what the other person thinks, and you won't be too tired to live. ”

In such a cloudy excuse, many young people choose to treat love and feelings with Buddha Yunyu.

Of course, such an idea may come from being accustomed to being alone, or more appropriately for a single veteran.

And then there are those who have just come out of a tiring relationship.

Thinking about it this way, it might not be bad to be single.

But who can really endure loneliness? The process of finding our partner is not just to meet our own physiological needs, right?

For a short period of time, maybe being single is pretty good.

But after a long time, few people can endure the life of being single. Do whatever you want, do what, no one cares and no one cares, very free, now two people together feel that what to do is very cumbersome, I am a person who doesn't like trouble, I guess I live a good life, but when I am alone, I often want to have someone to accompany me, it may be that I want too much, I want to be free without a sense of security, there is no freedom with a sense of security, fish and bear paws can not have both, each has its own benefits. Feelings are a matter of two people, and one person cannot take the initiative.

If you take the initiative for a long time, you will get tired. When you really let go, you suddenly feel that he is not so important, and there are a lot of fun things that no one restricts you, and at that moment you feel that it is good to be single.

Some people choose to be single and not fall in love and get married, that's their own choice, after all, the people who choose to be single and not fall in love and not get married are not the most dissipated, because they generally choose to love He Huai to marry at a certain age, and those who do not choose to get married should have other reasons to attract friends, not the reason why they really don't want to get married.

Everyone has their own ideas, and people who would rather be single may see through the relationship between the sexes.

Times have changed, and one person is good.

Recently, I can always hear single friends around me say that "being single for a while, being single for a while, always being single". Compared with those married friends, they seem to live more freely and freely. They can start traveling anytime, anywhere; If you are not satisfied with your current job, you can resign if you resign; You can play games all night long, you can't hear those nagging and so on.

There are many joys of being single, let's take myself as an example, after being single for so many years, I enjoy the time alone very much, I can arrange freely, choose certain time periods to do certain things, or cultivate my own interests and hobbies to improve myself; Or give yourself a vacation, go on a trip, and have a good look at the world; Or spend more time with your family and talk to them about your parents.

I can do whatever I want to do without thinking about anything else.

Compared with love, being single can also save me money, and I believe that many friends have the same feeling, that is, the cost of love is really big. Because cultivating a relationship with the other person is really a thing that takes time, energy and money. For example, I usually eat and watch movies.

Then it's the birthday, the festival of love, buy some small gifts. It costs money to create a little romance and surprise once in a while.

As a single person, it's very simple, one person eats enough for the whole family and is not hungry, without these love expenses, plus some other ways to save money, I can save some money every month and make my life more secure.

The biggest advantage of being single for me is that I can really take control of my own life without having to accommodate other people's habits and avoid all kinds of conflicts. Some people say that the loneliness of a brother is freedom, and the loneliness of two people together is not even freedom. That's why I'd rather be alone than be let down in the midst of gains and losses.

There are many joys of being single, but I believe that everyone has their own answer to why they are single. Whether you are voluntarily single or forced to be single for some reason, since you are living in the present, then enjoy your current life, as for emotional matters, why not go with the flow and give everything to the envy of God and time.

Single people actually want to fall in love; Men are not married and single, most of them are not strong enough, ninety percent of the stool, no one marries him, most of the women who are not married are too picky, they are unwilling to find someone to marry, in fact, a lot of them are suitable for marriage, Wu Rough Bridge They only have the general manager, the bank president, the chairman, so single, and there is a possibility that it is influenced by the West, unmarried, that kind of person does not need to study him, after all, it is a minority of people!