What happens when a person doesn t love him?

Men don't love you anymore, and there are two situations. One is that he doesn't love you anymore, but he doesn't want to leave you, this kind of man will generally behave less gently than before, and he can feel a trace of coldness in his words. A lot of things that he can usually take the initiative to do will rarely do or not do at all, which seems very casual to you and life, especially for what you say without a word to listen, which makes you seem very distressed.

The other is that I don't love you anymore and don't want to be with you anymore. This kind of man's performance is more direct, ignoring and stepping on it is one aspect, and there will be more hurtful elements between words, and even more powerful will hit people. It's natural to spend a lot of time outside drinking or finding a new love.

When a person doesn't love you, you don't need to be told that you can find out. In a situation like yours, it is obvious that you can no longer attract your boyfriend as much as before, try to change yourself and see, if he really likes you, he will not treat your change as unaware.

You may go to someone else, deliberately acting ambiguous, so that you can see it, but he himself is acting as if he is not seen by you, but he himself just doesn't want to say that he broke up in person, everyone may behave differently.

When you don't love him, you will find him annoying, and you will feel uncomfortable seeing him. That means you don't love him anymore.

First, stop thinking about your feelings. Because if you really love someone, her every move will affect your heart, if he is not considering your feelings, it means that he does not love you anymore, and second, he does not show up when you need it. When a person likes you, he will be there when you need it, because he is afraid that you will be in trouble and will be hurt.

often cheats on you, often fights with you, is cold and violent with you, often quarrels with you, is particularly indifferent to you, if this person is not in love, there will be these manifestations are very obvious.

Affirmatively, the attitude is very cold, I don't want to communicate with you anymore, I often avoid you, I won't pay you anymore, at least I won't buy you a gift anymore, and I'm special to you.

1. I don't want to have close contact

If you are a couple in love, and both parties love each other, then they are very happy and happy about intimate contact, and there will never be resistance. But when a person doesn't love you, then even holding hands feels very annoying. Not to mention any other intimate contact, so if a couple is not willing to have any intimate contact in a relationship, then it can only mean that they are not in love.

2. No longer patient

When two people love each other, then the tolerance and patience for each other are very strong, for example, the other party is late, you will wait silently, and you don't think there is any big problem, but when you don't love, if the other party is late, you will lose your temper, very unhappy, and very impatient. The main reason for this is that because I don't love anymore, my patience is gone.

3. Don't plan for the future

If two people love each other, then two people will definitely work hard to plan for the future, such as when to get married, when to have a baby, and what step to achieve in their career, these things will have some plans. But when I don't love, I don't want to plan these things, because I feel that I don't necessarily need you in my life, so there is no need to plan with you, this kind of performance is actually a manifestation of unlove.

4. I won't accompany you

In the past, your partner liked to accompany you shopping, take you to the movies, or travel together, etc., but when he found that he didn't love it, these things became a very boring thing, so he was even more reluctant to accompany you, and he couldn't even do a simple meal. If you ask him out, he is likely to refuse, so when this happens, it means that the other party is no longer in love. For feelings that you don't love, you still have to find a little bit to give up, don't let go of too many experiences, there is no point.

Special indifference to the other half, feeling that the other half is very annoying in everything he does, not liking to talk to the other half, will maintain an ambiguous relationship with other members of the opposite sex, and will not return home at night for no reason, these are all manifestations of unlove.

When you don't love, you will be impatient with each other's news, and you will begin to be reluctant to care about each other, and you will not take what the other person says to heart, and you will often have disagreements with each other, and you will not be happy because of the other person's existence.

When a person doesn't love you, he won't pick up your **, won't meet you, no matter how much you call him**, he'll always be busy, won't take you to the movies, won't take you to meet his friends.

It's going to get farther and farther away from you, and you can see it physically, mentally, in many ways.

I don't want to have any physical contact with you!!

There can be many manifestations of a person not loving you, and here are some of them:

1.Apathy: Lack of enthusiasm and attention, no longer willing to communicate with you, no longer interested in your life, unwilling to listen to your opinions or suggestions.

2.Lack of trust: distrust of you, reluctance to share his thoughts, emotions, plans, or secrets with you, reluctance to tell you about himself, and even some defensiveness towards you.

3.Lack of emotional involvement: He may not be as often as noisy or texting you as he used to, will not spend time with you, will not give you gifts, and will not show emotional affection.

4.Disrespecting your opinion: He may ignore your opinion, disrespect your feelings, be reluctant to listen to your ideas, and be reluctant to share his experience or opinion with you.

5.Lack of self-confidence: He may become self-doubting and have low self-esteem, no longer willing to try new things or take on new challenges, and no longer believe in his abilities and worth.

6.No more giving affection: He may become cold and unconcerned about you, no longer show genuine care and attention to you, unwilling to buy you gifts or help you with household chores, and unwilling to give you time and energy.

7.Lack of empathy: He may be unwilling to understand your inner feelings and emotional needs, and he may not be willing to express his emotions, unwilling to share his life and experiences with you, and lack the ability to empathize.

These manifestations show that a person may no longer love you, and he can no longer care about you, respect you, trust you, and care about you. Therefore, you should reflect on yourself and see if you have already manifested yourself in the upper encounter. If there is, then you need to take steps to change the situation and make yourself fall in love with the person again.

The performance of his not loving you is as follows: First of all, he does not pay attention to your dynamics. Secondly, it is hot and cold to you. In the end, I will never shush you for warmth.

Cold and violent to you, not taking the initiative to contact, not communicating well, reluctant to spend money, these are all things.