What should I do if my parents don t bless me to be with my boyfriend?

I'm a very listener to my parents, and I'm sure I'll listen to them for my life's events. My parents are very open-minded, and they don't usually have a very tough attitude. However, if the man's parents do not agree, I will resolutely let go of his hand.

I think that being two people together is not just a matter of the two of us, but a union of two families. If the man's parents disagree, it must be that I am not enough to meet their requirements in some way, then I respect their opinions, after all, they are the parents of the people I love. If I am tough with him, I will not be happy, even if their attitude towards me changes in the future, but the knot that used to be will remain in my heart.

I think I should talk to my parents, after all, this kind of thing can't be put off forever, it's a bit unfair to my girlfriend.

Communicate well with your parents and I'm sure they will understand you.

Find a way to let your parents know that your boyfriend is sincere and excellent

If he doesn't bless you to be together, I think you should weigh this relationship, whether the two of you are sincere? Will there be happiness at all?

If this boy is a hard-working and self-motivated person, then we can discuss with our parents, get their consent and work together with the boy, I believe that as long as we work hard, we will one day get what we want. But if the boy himself is not enterprising, we naturally have to listen to the advice of our parents and end the relationship decisively.

It is difficult to be happy in a marriage that is not blessed by the man's elders. Unless the boy has a lot of say in the family, that is to say, if your man blindly avoids the state and does not bring you to his parents and bluntly says that this life is you, and will not go on a blind date or be with someone else, then you can't marry this man. He must be responsible and have the right to make his own decisions in front of his parents.

But if he's a boy who listens to his parents, be careful. Love is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families. Finally, when it comes to life events, ask your parents and elders more.

As the saying goes, listen to the elderly, and they will know more about your relationship with your boyfriend and your family situation than we headlines.

I think we must have listened to our parents, after all, they have more life experience than us, and we may be carried away by love for a while and can't tell whether a person is good or bad. But when we know that the man's character is not good, we must listen to our parents.

Your parents don't agree with you and your boyfriend being together, this must have their considerations, every parent wants their children to live happily in the future, they don't agree with it must feel that this man can't give you happiness in the future, and you can still refer to your parents' opinions.

I think it depends on how the men and women coordinate themselves, after all, parents can only give you advice, and it is you who make the final decision, but no matter what, the road is your own choice, even if you are kneeling, you have to go on.

Young people can do anything for love, but marriage is the union of two families. A marriage that is not blessed will always have hidden dangers and crises, and once the husband and wife have conflicts, the hidden dangers will be infinitely magnified. Communicate with your parents to at least get their understanding.

I was the one when my mother disagreed with me and my husband, was kicked out of the house, lived in my brother's house for more than half a year, just because my husband's family is rural and the eldest, and later when I got married, I just went back and told my mother, if she let me go out at home, I will go back, if it is still the same, I plan to go out from my aunt's house or the same school, fortunately, my mother put a few quilts on me, and nothing else bought for me, as soon as the car came, I ran faster than a rabbit, and quickly left this house, Leaving my mother, now I live a good life, my mother still follows me, she has a pension, I still give her an allowance every month, I quit my job last year, I didn't give her any more money, I don't think I married wrong, my head is held high in front of my mother.

You and your boyfriend love each other very much, which is a very envious and sincere blessing of one thing, and I also wish you a long time on the road of love, grow old together, and finally get the fruits of marriage, and will definitely get the consent and blessing of your parents.

If his parents don't agree, I think you'll try to prove your love. You have to work hard, study hard, and strive to get a certain economic foundation, so that you can better bring happiness to your girlfriendBuy her beloved clothes and accessories, as well as a car and house that you need for life, and prove your financial strength to your parents.

At the same time, if his parents do not agree, then you should also think about whether there is a problem with yourself. If it is a character defect, we must constantly remind ourselves to pay attention to correcting our own small faults at all times, if our temper is too hot, or sometimes our personality is too awkwardThen we should also constantly reflect on ourselves, we can no longer learn to be so willful. Such people will bring meaningless quarrels, and it will also grind the feelings of both parties to be not as sweet as before.

If we get the disagreement of our parents, we should strive for it, and we should not give up, let alone say that we want to break up, which will only hurt each other needlessly, make others become very lost, and at the same time, we can't say that you are very poor and incompetent, and you can't afford to support me, which will make the other party feel that his psychology has been hit very hard. At the same time, she will no longer believe in love and blessings, and even if you tell him that she loves her very much in the future, she will no longer dare to believe you in her heart, because you have hurt her so deeply, how dare she ask for your sincerity and blessings and love?

The blessing of your parents is not so important, the important thing is whether he really loves you, is willing to be with you regardless of everything, two people get married, don't get in the way of their affairs, you can live well.

I think it will be happy, as long as two people have enough love to face all this.

Marriage is a matter of two families, and if you don't get the blessing of your parents, you won't be happy.

It will definitely not be happy, and the best marriage should still be blessed by parents.

I think it's still more difficult, after all, you still have to get along with your parents.