My boyfriend wants to break up with me because he wants to study hard, what should I do

Updated on educate 2024-05-27
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Well, that's obviously an excuse.

    It's just a good thing to say to find a reason, at least you don't have to be so embarrassed by each other, and you don't have to hurt each other so much.

    I think it's better to divide it.,After all, people are saying that they're going to be divided.,You won't still be pestered.,So even the last dignity is gone.,Let the other party be proud.,Maybe later he will tell you directly that you're annoying or something.,And then go on and only return to everyone is not good.,At least leave a good impression on him.,Let him himself how good you are.,Losing you is his loss.,It's not good for you to leave him.,Come on.,Our days are still long.,There's no need to hang on a tree that doesn't belong to you,

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How old are you this year? If you are under the age of 18, please focus on studying.

    I agree, but he may be an excuse, and he will make excuses again in the future. It's better to divide it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It shows that he doesn't really love you, so let's break it up early. Don't delay your youth for this kind of man.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Score is divided, he thinks how important his studies are. Yours is not the same. It's his excuse!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then break up! That's just an excuse, why didn't you think of learning in the first place?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's just his excuse, just divide it! Find a better one for him to see!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This reason is so cheesy, it's obvious that he doesn't want to be nice with you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Very bad excuses, obviously finding a reason to break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Are you really in love?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It doesn't have to be this far.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How old are you this year? If you are under the age of 18, please focus on studying.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My boyfriend broke up for fear of delaying my studies, which was a well-intentioned consideration, but it also made people feel helpless. He may want you to concentrate on your studies, but you can't let that stop you from giving up on love. To save the relationship, you must first communicate.

    Instead of guessing what he thinks, talk to him directly. Listen to his concerns and express your feelings to him. It is only through communication that we can better understand each other's thoughts and needs.

    Secondly, you can consider adjusting your time management to make it right between study and love. Make a reasonable schedule and keep your studies and appointments organized. When dating, you can study with your boyfriend or do some light activities to relieve the stress of studying.

    In this way, you will not delay your studies, but you will also be able to maintain a good relationship.

    After the most regretful stool, you can also prove your determination through actions. It is not only necessary to maintain academic performance, but also to actively participate in some extracurricular activities to show your versatility and charm. At the same time, you can also do something special for your boyfriend, such as preparing a big dinner or giving him a thoughtful gift.

    These small gestures can make him feel that you value and invest in the relationship.

    In conclusion, it takes effort and patience to save a relationship. As long as you understand each other and respect each other's ideas and needs, I believe that this relationship will definitely get better and better.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Is he afraid of delaying you? Did you fail after dating him? If you fail the course, it is possible that this gentleman is afraid that you will be distracted, but if you do not fail the course, and the grades are not up and down, then it is the man's excuse that he doesn't want to continue with you.

    And there is a big difference between people who work in society and people in school, maybe he likes you very much at first, but after dating for a long time, he finds that you are different from what he imagined, so he has a hesitant heart, so he seems cold for a while, and finally after thinking about it clearly, he understands what he wants, so he proposes to break up, but he may not want to break your heart or anything, and put forward this innocuous reason.

    It is also possible that in the workplace he found a more suitable woman.

    But that doesn't mean you're bad, it just means you're not suitable.

    Maybe you are very good, then missing you is his loss.

    But personally, I think that if he really likes you, he won't propose to break up, but urge you not to be distracted, he will wait for you and something.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love doesn't say the depth of giving, my girlfriend is also going to college, I have to wait for her for a few years, I always encourage her to study hard. If you really love someone, you won't break up, no matter what the reason is, it's fake, and with the person you love, no matter how hard and tired you are, you are happy. Since you have chosen to break up, let it pass, any questions and answers are useless, it does not belong to you, don't press yourself psychologically, let go of your heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hard. If he is a good man, it may be for your sake, or it may just be an excuse for him, if you don't want to lose this relationship, you can tell him clearly, I will work hard to study, but you and I don't want to miss it, if he still insists on letting go, it means that he really wants to get out of this relationship. If you can't be clear about your feelings, you have to communicate to be smooth.

    It is impossible for a lover to break up and be friends, not to mention that you are in a different place, it is even more impossible, friends in addition to growing up together since childhood, or people around you, otherwise they were friends together, and if they are separated, they will forget each other, as long as they have less contact, they will not become friends, and lovers will not be willing to contact each other when they break up, which will affect making friends in the future. For example, if you are talking about a boyfriend one day, you want to tell your current boyfriend that this friend is my former boyfriend, what do you think he will think? Few people will believe that they are friends with their lovers after the breakup, and others may only believe that you still have ideas.

    I want my lover to be a friend, I guess I want to give up this person, feelings are the most helpless thing, from strange to familiar, and then from familiar to strange, bad development is to finally become a hater.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's talk about the future later. At this stage, it is still important to focus on academics, after all, love, marriage, childbirth, and old age. This is not the end of the matter, is there only one pattern in life?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If two people truly love each other, nothing is an obstacle. But if the relationship is weak, or gone, everything is a stumbling block to the relationship.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    ...Divide it, divide it, I don't believe it at all, I'm afraid of delaying you, and I say that I am so great, he is really good at pretending.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Fake, most likely he doesn't want you anymore, and then found such a reason! Don't wait for him!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Break up because you're afraid of delaying your studies? Hehe, it's fake. It's just his excuse.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Is this a postponement method, the result is definitely scored, and the university is still studying?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your boyfriend is so good to you, and that should be a good thing! How many women want to achieve your present, and even pursue it all your life, but you feel too good to be suitable for you, I wonder if this is the so-called extreme of things? If you have to have an answer, I think it is, you are afraid that your boyfriend will be too good to you, but you can't repay him in the same way as opening your limbs, you will feel very guilty in your heart, or you will do something sorry for him, and the better he treats you, the more guilty you will feel.

    I guess that's the only answer, and if there's a better one, please give me some advice.

    Girl, you can meet such a good man, it is a blessing from the previous life, I still think you should cherish it more, there are many good men, but not necessarily every time. Adjust your mentality, communicate and understand more with your boyfriend, and be a happy woman who depends on others, isn't it a long-cherished wish of your life?

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