Why do I value love more than anything else?

Look at your description, there are many times when words like "normal" and "deformed" are used. This shows that you are a very self-judgmental person.

In fact, thinking outside the box, people don't care whether they are "normal" or not. The great philosopher Russell once said: Uneven polymorphism is the source of happiness.

We live in a colorful and blooming world, where different colors, different postures, and different species work together to create the beauty of this world.

Trees are beautiful, flowers are beautiful, and grass is equally beautiful. All three are equally important and indispensable to the world.

Therefore, the first thing you need to do is to let go of your judgment of yourself and forget about words like "normal" and "abnormal". Don't care so much about other people's evaluations and opinions, throw off your arms and go your own way, be yourself, and live for yourself.

Secondly, people in this world are very different, and there is nothing wrong with some people who are very rational in terms of feelings; Some people are infatuated like the sea, which is also good; There are also people who behave very casually in terms of emotions, which is not good, but it is also an objective existence. And what we need to do is twofold:

1. Accept the fact that you are an emotional person, and tell yourself that this is actually a very good trait;

2. Accept the objective fact that people in this world do not necessarily have the same views on feelings;

3. Let go of the past, raise your head, and look for the person who knows how to cherish his feelings, the person who will not live up to himself, and the person who is as affectionate as himself. Be steadfast in your belief that this person will definitely meet.

Chengdu Pingxin Psychological Agency.

Some people like bananas, some people like pineapples, you like love, is there anything wrong with that? Are you getting in the way? If you regard love as the first place, it is just because you lack the feeling of being loved in love, and it does not mean that you are a dedicated person.

However, you are middle-aged, or more sensible, then let it be natural to get married and have children, if you really put love first, and very dedicated people, I think, your wife must be very happy.

The so-called soft spot? Since you can't get what you love, love what you get, and that's fine.

It's a personal view of emotion, there's nothing for why... If you can, communicate with your friends and change your lifestyle...

It only shows that you are an emotional person who believes in love first, and if you find someone who is like that, that's great.

Fitting is more important than liking.

In the relationship, if you can, you must let the person next to you be loved and suitable.

If you're not so lucky and happen to meet someone like that, it's not a bad idea to choose the right one.

It's just that after you choose that kind of person, in the years to come, you don't always think about other possibilities, you have to cherish each other well, cherish your relationship, and live a better life as much as possible.

An inappropriate like, it will be difficult to bring you something, and it will only make you more and more unbearable and humble.

If you love someone, although there will be pain, you know that there will be no happiness, so of course you don't have to persevere.

Although all the likes will end up dull, but if you find someone who doesn't like it so much from the beginning, it is inevitable that you will still be a little unwilling, and you will also want to have a good love.

In this life, there are not many opportunities to love seriously, and you don't want to miss it, so it's normal.

So, while you are young and everything has not yet been decided, you should take action, but also be careful, and try your best to find someone that you like and at the same time is very suitable for you.

For him, at the beginning you will have a heartbeat and want to be with him, and as you come into contact, you will also find that although you are still different, you still agree with each other and can live in harmony.

It's ideal to fall in love with someone like that, and then you get married and think about it, it's a very good thing.

From the beginning to the end, you will be very satisfied, marrying such a person, when you have a conflict, because you like it, you will also be willing to be more considerate, because it is suitable, you Iwajin Wu will also be more able to quietly resolve the problem invisibly.

Love is a very important emotion and relationship that can inspire people's hearts and actions, and lead them to the path of happiness and contentment.

For human beings, it is possible to make all kinds of sacrifices for love. For example, some people may give up their careers and career advancement, or give up their personal preferences and hobbies in order to cater to their partners. Some may give up their families and wealth, or even sacrifice their lives for each other.

However, I believe that the sacrifice should also be measured and not excessive. If one renounces one's values and dignity for love, or sacrifices one's health and safety, then that sacrifice loses its meaning and may lead to harm and misfortune for oneself and others.

Therefore, I believe that before making sacrifices for love, we need to carefully consider our values and lifestyle, and fully communicate and negotiate with our partners to seek a balanced and harmonious lifestyle together.