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First of all, I want to praise your husband, he is very determined! Let's talk about you, how can you have a cold war with your husband at this time? He must have his difficulties in hiding from you, he thinks that this woman and you are friends, and he is afraid that everyone will be embarrassed after telling you, and he will solve it by himself if he can solve it!
Finally say you"Friend", that kind of woman stay away from him, shameless! After going through this kind of thing, can you still be good sisters in the future?
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Guy, how can your husband tell you in this case, hurry up and talk to your husband, such a good man, others are still waiting. Hehe, that woman, there is nothing to forgive or not forgive, your husband has more ways than you to let your husband call the shots.
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Even if you forgive her now. If she comes to your house to play again, your feelings will be different. You will also feel afraid that she will pose a threat to you, and that she will pester your husband.
I suggest that here, you should do your husband's job, even if you refuse for a long time, your husband will reject him, so that your husband will reject her clearly. Cut off contact with her, you are friends with her, you are between the two of them, squeezing around, in fact, the main right is not with you, if your husband quarrels with you one day. Will he run to her, and you don't want to do anything to your husband, let him deal with it.
If you mind what your sisters think of you, then you continue to keep in touch with her, because everything your husband has done to her, she may feel that you instructed your husband to do it, or it may just be because your husband loves you, and it depends on what she thinks. And she begs you for forgiveness, is she afraid of losing your friendship with her, or is she afraid of losing the opportunity to meet your husband? If it's the former you can try to forgive, and the latter, then you say, tell her to ask your husband to go.
You said that if your husband wants to run after you. I have no choice but to go by myself, on the other hand, she chases your husband, to put it bluntly, it is an act of destroying other people's families, and poor people must have something to hate.
Don't give anything out of pity for someone.
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It is inevitable that such things will happen in life, and I see that your husband has not done anything to be sorry for you, which proves that your relationship is still very deep, worthy of forgiveness, and should be rewarded. As for what your good sister said, it can be seen that it is clearly an excuse, knowing that you are husband and wife and still stirring up trouble in the middle, do you think you can pity or sympathize with such a person? Doubtful!
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I advise you not to be friends with people like that ... There's no need to have a cold war with your husband for someone like that...
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If it was I, I would never forgive her, and if you didn't find out, you would have figured it out for yourself.
Your husband's words, didn't he accept that there was a need for a cold war? He didn't talk to the woman first, he was completely passive and innocent.
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