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There was a time in my life when I thought I remembered correctly, and then I went on my own, without meeting my friends, and in the end I took the wrong path, and then I had to follow them again.
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I have encountered these things in my life, when our company wanted to promote cadres, I found some relationships and paths, but I didn't expect it to backfire, and I didn't get promoted.
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It should be that I want to be greedy for a small bargain, but I didn't expect to be cheated out of money, I feel very sad.
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I always feel that I am the best at work, and I don't care about the things I encounter at work, which leads to mistakes in my work.
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Life needs great wisdom, not small cleverness. Those who play clever will eventually be tricked by clever tricks. People with great wisdom are clumsy, simple, sincere and simple, believe in a harvest of hard work, believe in down-to-earth, and come naturally.
And people who play clever often seem to be more flexible than us, left and right, and exquisite. They often speak tricks, take shortcuts, tell lies, do empty things, and are keen to pull relationships and go through the back door. Their mantra is that they can't do great things without telling lies.
They pay attention to self-promotion, and a score of one is said to be three points, a three-point score is said to be seven points, and a score of seven points is heavenly. They encounter difficulties and contradictions, and when they encounter merits and achievements, they desperately grab them.
What is the harm of clever thoughts and actions? In "Dream of Red Mansions", Cao Xueqin used Wang Xifeng's life experience to reveal the profound truth that being smart is mistaken by being smart. People who play clever tricks always think about taking the shortcut to the end of the south, give up perseverance and perseverance, always do clever work, give up hard work and sharpen themselves in complex and difficult work, it is often difficult to carry things, and they cannot achieve great things.
Clever people often love to take advantage of small advantages, blinded by the control of the small profits in front of them, like a frog sitting in a well and watching the sky, unable to see the better, more and more wonderful scenery in the journey of life, nostalgic for the small flowers and grass beside the road, and miss the rainbow on the horizon and the grandeur of the mountains! A clever person seems to be extremely elf, but it is precisely because he is calculating and too flexible that he often gives people the impression and feeling that he is flashy, difficult to reassure, and difficult to trust.
I have written so much about the performance and difference between the great wisdom of life and the cleverness, in fact, I want to expose the skin of the clevers and show their original form. I remember an ancient man with life experience who wrote: I hope that my children and grandchildren will be foolish and reckless, and they will be free from illness and disaster.
You see, we ordinary people are willing to be deaf and quick to react. And this is just human nature, it is the way of man. The wisdom of life for the old man sees that to deal with the ups and downs of life, to protect himself in the cruel real life of self-protection and victory, to obtain the benefits of reality, to get the benefits of life, not to rely on cleverness, but to rely on insight and understanding of human nature, but in accordance with the principles of heaven, in accordance with the ancient wisdom of the law of nature, there is a big pattern, a big vision, a big mind, a big pursuit, to have a great heart in life, to be a person with great wisdom.
The agency was too clever and mistook Qingqing's life. People are not as good as heaven. The way of heaven is great to simple, sincere to simple, clumsy, invisible, loud and sound, on the big stage of life, there can be no falsehood and sloppiness, and there is no room for scheming and self-cleverness.
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What you can think of can be thought of by others, and there is no difference between people.
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Thinking you are clever is delayed or harmed by your cleverness. Cleverness is an innate thing, which always makes people feel the brilliance of smart people, but often this superficial light cannot make smart people successful, so we often see that many people who are considered smart often achieve nothing. There is no doubt that everyone wants to be smart, and smart people want to be smarter, and no one wants to be a fool.
Smart people seem to be doing things well, left and right. They can always do more with less effort and time than the average person. So smart people are often very confident and proud, although they can't be seen on the surface, but they are like this in their bones.
It's not a bad thing to be smart, but it's a curse to think you're smart and always think you're great.
Another manifestation of being smart and being mistaken by being smart is that you love to be clever. It's not worth stealing chickens and rice.
Source: Song Su Shi's "Xi'er": "Everyone raises a son and wants to be smart, but I have been mistaken by being smart all my life." ”
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