My boyfriend said that I have been in less contact recently, what should I do

You didn't give him what he needed. If you are sure that you want to get married, pay more attention to his daily life and diet. He has been busy all day, and he has something in his heart, how can he have the heart to accompany you to the movie? You don't have requirements for him, care more, even if he is busy, he thinks that you give him a warm sense of belonging, and he will consider marrying you.

Men of this age have a clear purpose, especially this kind of work is quite stressful, and they are directly put on the table to talk....He is tired of love romance and needs a gentle and considerate sense of life.

Think about whether you want to settle down with him? Adjust the way the date is written according to his needs. Catch it first, and sooner or later he'll have to change for you.

Hehe, I have to sing when I'm tired, and I personally feel that singing is more strenuous than watching movies.

Your friend is 32 years old, not too young, I want you to accompany him, hehe, no** This is a very strong exercise.

After dating for more than a month, do you think you have decided that you will be him in this life?

If he is busy with a business, then give him space to be busy, and then with occasional care, you should see if he wants to indulge?

If you don't see each other at first sight, you have to be with each other in this life, and you can divide it......Maybe it's because of your conservatism that he doesn't fit into, or maybe it's because of his needs that you don't want to give ...... yetThere are differences between the "thinking", "principles", "purpose" and "orientation" of men and women......Some scholars have said that a woman needs a man to meet all her needs in her life, and a man needs many women to meet his one need ......

Life and marriage are really about fate, what should be yours is yours, how is it, it should not be your ......None of your ......

Hehe......I'm talking too much......

I think you're not easy to get started, so I want to change my target.

1.You give him a **;

2.Have a good talk;

3.Be considerate of each other.

Summary. You tell your boyfriend not to contact you in the future, and your boyfriend says that less contact means that he will not cut off contact with you in the future, he is reluctant, he still hopes that you can maintain a certain contact, and he doesn't want to part ways with you like this.

I told my boyfriend not to contact me in the future What does my boyfriend mean by less contact.

You said to your boyfriend not to contact you in the future, and your boyfriend said that less contact means that Duan Huimin will not cut off contact with you in the future, he is reluctant, Shicha still hopes that you can maintain a certain amount of contact, and he doesn't want to part ways with you like this.

I don't know what kind of contradiction you have?

In the ambiguous period, he is naïve and conceited, and it is estimated that he will not contact me again.

Are you currently in an ambiguous period and have never been sure about your relationship?

Be. Then you're arguing, aren't you? Why do you quarrel?

We are colleagues who think for work reasons.

He hung up as I spoke.

I find it annoying. That's why you quarrel because of a disagreement at work, right?

I didn't make any noise, I was angry and sent that sentence.

You don't think he respects you enough, so you get angry and tell him not to contact him in the future, right?

You have a crush on him, and it's not worth it for you to make such a fuss because of your work.

Summary. My boyfriend said that less contact means that he will not cut off contact with you in the future, he is reluctant, he still hopes that you can maintain a certain contact, and he doesn't want to part ways with you like this.

I told my boyfriend not to contact me in the future What does my boyfriend mean by less contact.

My boyfriend said that less contact means that he will not cut off contact with you in the future, he is reluctant, he still hopes that you can maintain a certain contact, and he doesn't want to part ways with you like this.

Personally, I think this can tell you clearly, so this boy has begun to treat you coldly! That is to say, he must not like you, then he must want to be with you slowly, and it is okay to be cold and cold, so I think everyone has their own personality and their own self-knowledge, right? If the other party is like this, then I must also think that you should be teased, don't pay attention to him anymore!

Summary. When the guy says this, it means that the other party doesn't want the two of you to continue.

The boy said, try to contact as little as possible.

When the guy says this, it means that the other party doesn't want the two of you to continue.

Actually, you know, but you are unwilling and reluctant in your heart, right?

Because I met him first, I chatted with him for more than half a year! I haven't met, and the family is in a hurry, and I have another boyfriend in my hometown.

So, it's you who is at fault, right?

Because I still like him, I can't let go of Na's Sheqi Jiyan and want to break up with my current boyfriend and give him a stay, and he now agrees, saying that it is impossible for me to give him him.

You also feel guilty about him.

I apologized to him, but he didn't accept it, and I said did you delete me? Or blocking? He said angry grandson pants, he said that you Piket wanted me to block you if I burned and blacked you out? It turned out to be nothing.

You've been with other men, so what kind of person do you want to get along with that man now?

I said that as long as he was willing to give me a chance, I would deal with other friends of the opposite sex and give him a good stay, but he didn't agree or accept it!

I haven't met him in the first place, and I don't have anything else to say! Don't all those who don't get married have the right to choose?

You're like this, and he can't trust it.

And have you ever thought about whether the relationship between you that comes out of chatting is reliable? You should be in a different place, right?

Maybe, right? It's my fault in the first place, no matter how much I apologize, he just won't forgive me! But he told me that day that he was going back to his hometown to talk about the stool, and I didn't know if there would be a meeting and chat when the time came. If I have the chance, I will definitely try for it.

A long-distance relationship is not very reliable, and the chance of success is very small.

1. He knows that you are angry, but he thinks the most reasonable way is to be reasonable.

This is the inertia of thinking that is commonly used in our land.

I used to be, and it was serious, it took many years for me to have an epiphany.

I suffered a lot of losses and studied a lot of psychology courses.

Your boyfriend is like this, it's really annoying, everyone is so angry, and he doesn't coax people to make trouble, he's really a straight man, it's unbearable, it's so annoying.

If he really loves you and is just used to reasoning, it's okay to tell him and then guide him and teach him how to do it.

Because most of his original family, his parents usually use reason to deal with problems.

and his life experience, all of which he encountered that could be solved with reason, or he didn't find anything wrong with this.

But that doesn't prove that this is all right, it's very different.

Because you don't have any other detailed description, I don't know if you are students, or if you have been working, how long you have been working, what occupation, your family situation with him, basic personal experience, or not much experience, etc., I don't know, so I can only say as much as I can.

Because between lovers, the first thing to communicate is emotions and emotions, which is obviously that he can't pay attention to your emotions, that Huai bend and definitely be angry.

But now that you have learned, he can't know your emotions and ask him, so he still can't realize it, so I repeat again, if you also love him and want the relationship to go on better, use the clearest language or words to tell him.

For example, I am angry now, because of what I am angry about, what do I need him to do, is to come and comfort me, if he can't comfort, what can I do, if not, I can push my land to him, let him see.

If he loves you too, he will do it.

If you are not willing to change, this is not called change, it is called growth, and if he is not willing to grow, he just doesn't love you.

2. It's just that you think that he knows that you are angry, but in fact he does not know that you are angry.

This seems to be a bit winding, because it is like this, your way of expression, such as the error of the state of the bulging, the difference in life experience between you and him, the level of his receptivity, and so on, will produce errors in the transmission and acceptance of information between you. That's why communication, intimacy needs to be communicated. No matter how happy "Family with Children" is, there are many such conflicts.

3. He knows that you are angry and knows that he can care about your emotions, but he still deliberately reasoned with you.

This is deliberately foolishness, even if you want to be reasonable, you have to calm your emotions first, and then have the opportunity to be reasonable. It's not called reasoning, it's about communicating with you. Once again, I emphasize the importance of communication, as the name suggests, let's take a look at what is said in the text

Communication": Communication, there is a chasm, only need to be dredged. The ditch, on the left is water, which means that you need to pay "three waters":

saliva, sweat, and even tears to "communicate"; The right side is still "hook", the heart knot is still there, and the knot is unsolved.

You have such a good relationship, saying that no one believes him without you in his heart. Maybe this is the so-called low tide of feelings, and the two of you will become colder and colder. Or maybe it's because the two of you are not from the same place, and you can't see each other all day after the holidays, so there is less contact, and you feel lighter.

The worst possible is that he leaves you and falls in love with someone else. But no matter what the reason, if you can afford it, you must be able to let it go, and if you accept the preparation that he loves you, you must be prepared that he does not love you. Let's both be quiet.

Maybe it'll be nice to go back to school. Bless you!

He has you in his heart, but you and him are too calm to cause him to take everything for granted, and he has a tendency to be confused by the game, or there is a third person between you, but you don't know it, and the most likely one is that you have cooled down from the hot love period After cooling down, you are busy with each other, rarely contact, rarely eat together or something, but most of this happens when one party is working, and the hot love has cooled down, which is a simulated married life, and will not send messages every day, which may be more common and normal! And the worst thing is that he doesn't feel anything about you anymore.

How clingy you are to him. This is my first boyfriend dumped me and told me that I was too cold to him and had no taste of love.

So if you don't want to lose this relationship, spend more time with him.

Support you. Kiss.

Well, I'm in a similar situation to you. I've figured out that if he has you in his heart, no matter how busy he is, he will find a way to contact you, even if he has a minute to go to the toilet, he has 60 seconds to fight you. So think for yourself and let go when it's time to let go!

My former boyfriend said the same thing about me. Later, we broke up, but it wasn't because he was cold to me, it was because his parents didn't like me. It's like this after a long relationship.

The game can be confusing, but you should find out first, does your family know about you, maybe he's worried about your family finding out something......

Ahh This is incomprehensible, depending on your boyfriend's reaction, maybe in a few days.