I really want to get a divorce but I can t do it? I wanted a divorce, but I was too tired.

It is not easy for people to come into the world. How can you leave lightly. Have you ever thought about how much damage you will bring to your parents, children, relatives and friends who have always loved you if you leave?

One cannot live only for oneself. What's more, they are all people with children! Do you know how high a mother's status is in the hearts of her children?

That's heaven and earth. Can you bear to let your child live in the dark from now on? Everyone's life is unsatisfactory, and there are hundreds of millions of people who are still alive stronger than you are disappointed.

Why can't you?

As for your husband. Try your best to keep your marriage going. Marriage is sustained by love. Don't just build on simple monetary relationships. It's really unbearable, and quitting is the best of both worlds. I'm afraid that it will hurt the child.

The old position is not for you, there is always a new position for you. You have to be good at discovering what you're good at. Pay more attention to interpersonal relationships.

For the person who framed you behind her back, you have to refute her with practical actions. Scolding will only increase the impression that others have a bad impression of you.

You have to be strong and have faith in yourself. Women are just too weak, in fact, I think the same. They don't want the family to break up. Necessarily so many years of husband and wife. One day it really left him, and the earth was going to turn.

Stupid people also have the ability to support themselves, what you have to do is to re-establish self-confidence, take care of the family well, let your husband fall in love with home, and naturally fall in love with you, so that you can find your own happiness.

Why do you think you're stupid? I'm sure you must have been a very smart woman before you got married! And don't always feel that the people around you hate you, be more confident, first of all, be optimistic about others, others will bring you happiness!

Since you are so worthless, then you are not qualified to divorce, and loving your husband well is your only way out.

Actually, you're not as bad as you say, be confident.

Do you know? A confident woman is the most beautiful.

What do you care about if you're not afraid of death?

Too tired, should be closed should have several meanings, one is tired, tired for work;

The second is tired, and the problem of marital relations is related to the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, parent-child relationship, family relationship between the two parties, and so on.

Whether or not to divorce cannot be decided impulsively, impulse is the devil. First of all, figure out what exactly you need? What are the reasons for wanting a divorce? The crux of the matter? Is there a possibility of mitigation? What changes need to be made? Can it change?

Secondly, you need to think: if you get divorced, what is the worst outcome, and can you bear it? What is the worst outcome of not getting divorced? Which is more important? Take one thing with another.

Finally, there's one more question:Do you want to remarry? If you remarry, do you have similar problems? Why?

If you think about the above questions clearly, you will know whether you need a divorce or not. If the problem is on yourself, then try to change your behavior or perception, and if the problem is on the other person, try to communicate.

If you really can't stand it, then you can go to mediate the divorce.

I'm not you, so I don't know what you've been through. Not everyone is qualified to advise you not to divorce. We didn't live like you, so we don't know what happened to you.

If the other party also wants to divorce, then you have to go to the relevant department to draft a divorce agreement. You can only get a divorce after you get the agreement. You need to bring the ID cards, household registration booklets, marriage certificates and agreements of both parties to the local civil affairs bureau to go through the divorce procedures.

If he doesn't want a divorce, then you have to find someone to mediate the divorce.

Divorce must be well thought out, so you have to think about it clearly.

I really can't get by, so let's get a divorce, the way to divorce:

1. The procedures for divorce by agreement of the civil affairs departments are convenient.

The process of drafting a divorce agreement should be very cautious, never hasty, and it is best to ask a lawyer to check it if necessary. According to Article 10 of Chapter 3 of the Marriage Registration Regulations, if a Mainland resident voluntarily divorces, both the man and the woman shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where one of the parties has a permanent residence to register the divorce. Article 11 Mainland residents who have gone through divorce registration shall present the following documents and supporting materials:

1) The person's household registration booklet and ID card;

2) The person's marriage certificate;

3) A divorce agreement signed by both parties.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the opinions reached through consultation on matters such as child support, property and debt disposition.

If both parties agree to the divorce and can reach an agreement on child support and property division, it is very convenient to go to the civil affairs department to handle the divorce by mutual agreement after the revision of the Marriage Registration Regulations came into effect on October 1, 2003.

2. Court Litigation Divorce: Convenient and cumbersome.

According to Chapter 4 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, Article 32 of Divorce Where a man or a woman requests a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

If one of the spouses insists on not leaving or agrees to the divorce but cannot reach an agreement on the maintenance of the children or the division of property, the only way to divorce is through court proceedings.

If you really have no relationship with him, you can divorce by agreement, and if the other party does not agree, you can divorce.

Legal basis] Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China.

Article 32? [Divorce Proceedings] If a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people.

The people's trial of divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.