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It's too one-sided, it's definitely too one-sided. Sometimes it's not that women dislike men for having no money, it's just that they are useless, it doesn't matter if they don't have money, it's good to have self-confidence, just toss around. Busy all day long, there is hard work, who will not love you, don't just take money as a standard, and don't think that you have no money is no ability, at the end of the sentence, you go, I can't give you happiness or something like that, make excuses for my incompetence, and then say that people left you because they didn't have money, think about it, stupid to home.
As a man, go and flutter, there will always be someone who will fall in love with you.
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Money is very important, but it also divides what kind of women you meet. Don't simply take a standard to measure. There are many different kinds of ideas, and there are many exceptions.
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Most of them are like this, if you want a wife, go get moneyThe few people downstairs who stand and talk without backache are all women, don't mix with this blindness, no matter how upright a man is, no matter how much he loves his wife, no matter how confident he is, and then he can toss, if he is a beggar, can you want him? Don't talk about it, women just love money.
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I don't understand your logic, a man who is upright and loves his wife definitely has someone to want! It's just that how many such people are there?
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What kind of theory is this, it's not right.
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Some people say that a man marrying a leftover woman is equivalent to picking up a bargain, is this true? I think marrying a leftover girl is indeed equivalent to picking up a bargain, these girls are actually not unable to marry, but they have not met the right person, because they are very good, and they want to find a talent that suits them and decide to get married, if they marry a leftover girl, then they are picking up cheap, of course, this is just my personal opinion. The seventh census has come out, and the number of men is more than the number of women, out of nearly 40 million, which means that it will not be easy for men to find a wife in the future, if they marry a leftover woman, it is their own blessing, because women at this time are very mature and sensible, understand their lover's life very well, and have been waiting for this person to appear.
One. Most of the leftover women are some excellent women, waiting for the appearance of the person they like.
In my view of love, if I haven't met the person who makes me very excited and is very good to me, then I don't want to be a person for a lifetime, and I don't want to make myself feel sorry because of a casual decision before, so many leftover women are waiting for the person who suits them. Maybe it's not that they don't have love, but they are waiting for that person to appear. <>
Two. Such women are very mature and understand each other very well.
If you get such a girl, then it is the luck of your life, in that girl is especially able to understand the life of her lover, because she has experienced a lot of things, and has seen many things very thoroughly, if you decide to be with you, it is all because of love, so don't let the person who loves you chill, meet a person who loves you and loves him very much, just cherish it. There are still many people who can't find a partner, so it's a lucky thing to be able to find a partner, not to mention finding an excellent object, taking their feelings seriously, and taking responsibility for their feelings. <>
The above is just a personal opinion, do you agree with this statement?
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Of course it's true, the leftover women now are generally very independent, and they have their own ideas and careers, after the man marries them, there are a lot of trivial things in life, and life will be particularly smooth.
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Of course not. It mainly depends on what the reasons for the leftover women are, some of them are too demanding, and some of them are not enough in some aspects.
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I don't think it's true, it's just that many men are lucky and selfish, thinking that the requirements for leftover women will be very low, so it is equivalent to picking up cheap.
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This is indeed true, because there are many older leftover women, who are very good in their own right.
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Men want to find women who look up to them, women want to find men who are better than themselves, and they look at it, but later they find that they have families, they are not married, they are honest, and they can't look down on themIt's not that no one dares to marry, it's that there is no suitable person
1. Rationally look at the current workplace pressure, women also have to have a long-term career, but work requires a lot of time and energy to achieve results, so many outstanding women have no time to fall in love for their careers, and when they come back to their senses, they are almost 30+.
At this time, the economic conditions are good, but the age is really old, watching my girlfriends and friends gradually form a family, I am also starting to be anxious, to the point that falling in love and getting married is a lifelong thingIt must be that there is rather lack than abuse, and the standard cannot be loweredSlowly it was left.
Second, lower expectations Every woman is looking forward to finding Prince Charming, but the reality is that there are so many Prince Charming, and they may not necessarily meet it.
If you start from a realistic point of view, you can moderately lower your own requirements, for example, male students do not meet the academic standards, have no experience of studying abroad, come from rural areas, and have no car or house, which are not worth mentioning in the face of mutual affectionA better life can be created together, there is no need to be overly entangled in the advance arrangement of parents, and to accept the support of parents, it is necessary to accept the planning of parentsAt that time, it is likely that they will have to fight for a second child, which is a headache for many professional women.
Therefore, plan your own things well, lower your expectations appropriately, and maybe you will meet unexpectedly with marriage and love.
3. Take the initiative to attack modern society, women have received a good education, and they have more choices about things, and the same is true for love and marriage, and women face their own loveYou must also learn to take the initiative, after all, life is a sea of seas, and many things pass by for a lifetime. The ancients also said that "women chase men in the veil", women take the initiative and boldly pursue love, which is also a beautiful thing, which not only fulfills themselves, but also achieves others, which is also the trend of the times.
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I think the biggest possibility is that since they are left, they must be a little different from ordinary people's values in some respect, since she has a car, a house and money, then her requirements for men will be higher, so there will be many boys who can't meet this requirement, so no one dares to marry.
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It is said that older leftover women have cars, houses and money, but no one dares to marry, first of all, because they themselves are very independent and assertive, and they are not willing to live in the future.
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Because they're too demanding. Older leftover women also have a status and money, but they also have high requirements for the other half. But for men, they must like beautiful and young, and it doesn't matter if they have money or not.
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A large part of the reason why the older leftover women are left is that their vision is too high, and no one can look down on them, so they are left, especially the older leftover women who have cars and houses, and they are even stronger and difficult to get along with, so no one dares to marry.
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Having a car, money and a house is a manifestation of a woman's ability, men prefer to protect women, like women who are attached to themselves, women have the ability, they will have ideas, their thoughts are more independent, and they are not easy to control.
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Because women generally look for a partner with better conditions than themselves, and there are not many successful men at this age. As a woman, having a house, a car and money will make a man feel inferior and depressed after marriage.
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Because modern people feel that older leftover women are older and not suitable for marriage, no one dares to marry.
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How many older leftover women have a car and a house? Most of them are just older.
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Although some women do not have high requirements for men, their own conditions are very high, or their own conditions are very poor, which discourages men, so it is also very normal.
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In fact, I think it's because the pressure is relatively high now, and it's difficult to meet someone you like, so many people have become leftover men and women.
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Because the boys they are looking for do not meet their requirements, they feel that marriage should not be compromised, and they must find the right person, the right person.
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It may be because these people's social circles are not big enough to meet the right person for them, or it may be that they have no idea of getting married.
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In fact, I think it's because women are more independent nowadays, so many men are discouraged and feel particularly inferior, which leads to these women not being able to get married.
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The main reason is that these girls themselves are very good, and the conditions are also very good, so others will be particularly inferior.
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It is easy to understand that the so-called requirements are not high, but they themselves think that they are not high, but in fact they may not.
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It's like looking for a job, I feel that a salary of 10,000 or 20,000 yuan a month is not high, but I can't find it.
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Not a tall hammer! Not to mention anything else, the double standard is serious.
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Age is worthless.
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It's not high, not as high as Mount Everest!
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Someone in a foreign country has calculated that the probability of an older leftover woman marrying out is ...... lower than that of her own **** explosion
Prerequisites: 1. In terms of economic strength, many girls are good enough, and their interpersonal circle is high-quality, and it is not difficult to find a rich and handsome person;
Second, from the outside, girls nowadays pay great attention to maintenance, and they can't see their actual age from outside Zenheng, so it's not difficult to find a rich and handsome;
Third, from the perspective of both internal and external, it is not difficult to find a rich and handsome person who is good-looking and talented.
To sum up, as long as you bring your own light, you will shine all the time, regardless of age.
It only represents personal views and is not used as a reference.
Girl, how did you become an older leftover girl, don't you have a C number in your heart?
Is Gao Fushuai blind?
People can obviously find someone younger than you, more beautiful than you, more anti-aging, and longer shelf life, why find you a fast old pearl yellow, and soon become a middle-aged aunt?
If you don't change your mind, and you still want to find a rich and handsome, it won't be a problem for older leftover women, and it is estimated that you will be lonely and old.
Or, just find someone to marry later.
While you can still catch the tail of youth, Tang Qi, find a similar one and get married!
According to what you said, it's estimated to be about 30. At such an embarrassing age, it is still possible to find a rich and handsome man in his fifties and sixties.
As for whether handsome or not is handsome, it depends on how you define it, when you were young, you were more handsome, and now you are older, you must still be attractive.
Just like 31-year-old Wendi Deng married 69-year-old world newspaper tycoon Murdoch. The key is that you have to have Wendi Deng's wrist.
Not to mention being rich and handsome, it's good to be able to get married, otherwise it will be called an older leftover girl??
As long as you are patient, sister, your heart Prince Charming will come to you.
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Because this kind of woman doesn't care about her family very much, she always wants to break through in the workplace.
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Because such leftover women are very picky, and they are also very demanding, there will be a lot of pressure for men to get along with them.
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Because many men are still in the era of machismo in feudal society, they want to sit back and enjoy their own achievements, have someone to support, and they also have to feel high.
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Because these girls generally have higher requirements, many men do not dare to go because of their strong self-esteem.
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No, because the leftover women here are basically very far-sighted, not people who live at home, and they have no patience to deal with family life due to their long-term picking, so men generally do not marry such older leftover women.
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Men will marry delicate and poor women, because there is nothing wrong with girls living delicately, and delicacy shows that the girl's heart is positive, or many men will like this kind of girl.
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No. Because such girls are particularly vain. There will not be a good married life, and there will be a lot of contradictions.
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No. Because the requirements for men to reach a certain age are also very high, and not everyone marries.
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If you can't marry, you can accept a poor woman, but you can't be delicate and poor, and you'd rather be hungry than buy a famous brand, isn't it a bit sick.
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Have you found such a social situation, that is, many boys are reluctant to marry older leftover women, even if the woman's family is very rich, and she doesn't like it if she has a car or a house, such good conditions, people who have not experienced it will definitely have questions, why they don't want to marry, in fact, there is a reason.
The first point, and the most important point, is that the older leftover women are too picky, the so-called is already so old, it is almost impossible to find a suitable one, why do you still do this? Moreover, the older leftover women put their cold faces on the hot bench, slap you and give you a sweet date to eat, which is equivalent to spare tire-style fishing, and it is estimated that it will be difficult for the boys to meet their bizarre requirements. Of course I'm talking about the majority, and the minority is still friendly.
The second point is that the requirements they expect are too high, older leftover women will choose some high-quality men to get along, and there are higher standards for garages, bride price, family background conditions, etc., which may be due to too material, and the age is high, so many boys will feel that they can't control it, after all, the money of the rich people is not blowing in the wind, they just want to live a good life with you, you are so intrigued, no one wants to live it.
Because of these reasons, the older leftover women are gradually left, and I think that the introduction of peers is more experienced than the older generation. It's easy to understand how you communicate with your peers when it comes to objects. In many cases, the elders are really different from us, this kind of thing should be sincere, purposeful and more communicative, communication is the best way to solve problems.
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