I m going to marry a divorced girl with a child, what if my family doesn t agree? Urgent!!

There are still good women among divorced women, and they know how to cherish life! As long as you truly love each other. Regardless of whether the family agrees or not.

Because you have lived with her all your life, why do you care too much about what others do? You can go and get a marriage license first and then explain it to your family! In the future, the two of you will live happily, and your family will naturally understand!

It's not good to talk upstairs What does it mean to care about others, and it's his parents who are against it, how can it be someone else? I have a family downstairs, two sons, the eldest son is going to marry a divorced woman, the woman also has a child, his parents are also against it, but the son didn't listen, and he just got married, and his mother was hemiplegic, and now he can't walk, you say that being a son is filial piety? Everything is thoughtful, don't just think about your own happiness and come up with the price of sacrificing family affection, parents have sacrificed too much for us, why can't you sacrifice a little for your parents?

As long as you like it, then do the work, in fact, the family is just afraid of gossip, if you insist, others will not really interfere. The idea is yours.

If you only care about your parents and give up the woman you love, will you live your whole life like this? Parents can't accompany us all our lives, life is short, do you make yourself unhappy just for the sake of filial piety to your parents? If parents love their children, then they will not make their children unhappy for their own ideas, everything is understood and paid by both parties, and there will be harmony and gain.

There are still good women among divorced women, why can't you get married, you can just talk to your parents.

That's really hard to do. It's not good to be a stepfather.

First of all, your life will never be perfect again!

Secondly, with her, it is better not to get married!

Take your time, this matter is in a hurry, after a long time, it is good to understand each other.

Speak well, slowly form knots, and if you really can't do it, you will cut it first and then take the blame.

Your dad will beat you pp...There are many good girls, so I suggest you give up

Talk to your family so they can understand you.

People are just a drop in the ocean, and death is nothing but to make your parents sad and your loved ones sad.

Since the parents do not agree, they are afraid of losing face. Then just run away from home, go to your lover, and make their faces swollen for a while!

After all, your parents love you, and you run thousands of miles away and give them a **, which can not only appease the old man (don't let the old man come out in a hurry), but also show his determination. The old man saw that the raw rice was ripe, and it was estimated that he could only give in.

It's just that you have to negotiate with your lover and ask for her consent.

Also, young people are rebellious, you must think calmly: Is your love for her so strong because of the opposition of your parents? Assuming your parents agree from the beginning, do you love her the same way?

If you think it through, then the choice will be clear.

The vast majority of parents wouldn't agree!

We need to understand this!

The point is, what do you love about this woman!

You have to convince yourself first!

And then convince others!

It depends on how much you love her? If it's very, very... Love her, you won't think about whether she will give you a child, but you are thinking about it now, which means that your love for her is not very, very, very...

She has concerns, it's not a simple marriage like you imagine, will you do it to her daughter like your own daughter, it's not a simple thing, it's hard to be good to her daughter for a lifetime, and now there are many contradictions between biological father and daughter on education issues, not to mention that it is non-biological, biological has contradictions but there is no estrangement in blood relations, and there is estrangement in non-pro-parenting, you may not understand these, it is very difficult to provoke a father's responsibility, and it is even more difficult for a stepfather.

A woman who has been divorced and already has children will put more attention on her children, and whether she restarts a relationship or not, she may put less energy into her other half. If it is a halfway couple, the woman may not be able to give the man all the care and love, resulting in the inability to progress and the heart cannot be connected when they are together. Women often choose to live with their children and prefer to give up their property.

For them, they may not have children in the future, so children are everything to hers. If he brings a girl, there may be a chance of marriage, especially for men who need to get married, they don't really care. If you bring a boy, few men will accept it.

<>Therefore, if you choose to marry a woman with children, it means that after you marry her, the man has to take on more responsibilities and obligations, such as the energy and money that must be put into the collection and teaching process. In fact, from a man's point of view alone, the child has nothing to do with himself. He has no blood ties or emotional foundations, but he must take on the responsibility of raising his children.

Therefore, it takes a lot of courage to marry a woman with children. This is why many men refuse to take care of women when choosing a mate.

But human feelings are always wonderful, if the man and the woman are very fond of each other and are attracted to each other, even if the woman is divorced and has children, the man is enoughEnough financial strength to raise this childIf you are a child, two people can also be together very well, because in addition to trivial matters, what two people need more is a soul fit.

The cost of a child is very large, and if you choose a divorced woman with children, you will definitely raise her children with this womanThe property cost of the child in terms of education, medical care, food, clothing, housing and transportation will be borne by both parties. If the two have their own children in the future, they may have differences in the energy and cost of taking care of the children, and they will be different from them afterwardsTo solve the problem, it is better to avoid the problem in advance, so it is not recommended for men to choose such a woman.

As long as you have the strength, it should not be difficult to find a woman with children, on the contrary, it is easy to find.

Unwilling to marry. A divorced woman still has children, I definitely don't want to, I can't convince myself to accept a divorced woman with children, and I don't allow myself to accept a divorced woman with children in terms of economic conditions.

The key is to see if you really love each other. If you don't really love each other, then it becomes a mutual calculation; If you really love each other, you will definitely live more and more happily, so whether you marry or not depends on the state of being with her.

It's up to you, and if you like her, whether he's divorced or has children, you're going to accept him to marry her unconditionally.

I don't want to marry because my personal financial situation is not very good. It is very difficult to marry a wife with a child. That's why I'm reluctant to marry a divorced woman with children.

A divorced woman with children, as long as this woman is what I like, and her character is positive, her three views are correct, and she respects her parents, and then we really like it, I will be very willing to marry her.

If I'm still very young, I don't want to, because now is the time when I need to work hard to make money, it takes a lot of time and money to raise children, and I can't guarantee that I won't be biased when I have my own children in the future.

If you fall in love, you can't care about anything else.

First affirm your love and courage, first of all, you really love each other, and secondly, let your family slowly see your happiness process, each other must have a very firm belief and stable emotional intelligence, be able to do whatever happens, do not deny or kidnap each other's love, trust love is the foundation of everything, to have inclusive understanding and problem-solving skills, and deeply understand each other's grievances, which is very important as long as two people are happy for a long time, there is no family that really can't accept it.

If your family still can't understand what you're thinking, try to convince your parents by doing the following:

1. If we want to convince our parents, we can be more "courteous" to our parents

You can think that this is a slap on the back of your parents, the key depends on whether you are "courteous" or not, and you must speak beautifully, and your parents can listen to it well. You can also praise your parents for saying more good things, and you must say enough good things, and your parents are embarrassed to say anything against them.

2. Come up with a detailed and feasible plan so that parents know that you have thought it through.

Let your parents see your mature side. As long as you are well-reasoned and logical when you speak, your parents will generally give your opinion seriously.

3. Ask a third party to persuade your elderly parents.

Asking a third party who has a good relationship with your parents or a third-party authority that everyone recognizes to persuade you can sometimes do well. You can even use the ABC persuasion method.

4. Show your parents that you are resolute.

Say that you have made up your mind, and if you really don't agree with me, there is no way for me, so you should not have given birth to my child. However, I still hope that you can understand me and support me, in that case, I will thank you, and my parents will naturally have nothing to say. When parents see that their children have made up their minds, they may no longer object.

In short, we must be in line with the principle of respecting and honoring our parents, and try our best to communicate with our parents in a consultative tone, rather than giving up our desire to get married and satisfying our parents' disagreeing ideas.

Show your family that you love this woman very much, because this woman makes you happy, if you miss it, it may be difficult to meet the next person you like, your family wants you to be happy, let your family see your sincerity, and slowly agree.

Show your determination. You need to make sure that your family understands that you have made a decision that you have thought about and that you have already planned for the rest of your life, and that they will support you.

You can tell your family that your conditions are not very good, and you really love each other, and it is difficult to find someone who is true to you now, these are some reasons that can convince your family.

The best way to persuade is to prove it with deeds. If you really like this woman, you will definitely not mind what happened to her before, and you will not mind this child, after a long time, the family will be able to understand your mind.

You have to make clear your feelings for her, and the other party's kindness to you, so that your family believes that you are happy together and can support each other in life.

You need to tell them that you are serious and that marrying her is not on the spur of the moment. Also reassure them about your plans for your future life.

You need to sincerely tell your parents that you identify with her, that you don't dislike her past, that you don't dislike her failed marriage, and that you really want to join hands with her for the rest of your life.

If you really love her, then prove it to your parents with actions that she is really good to you, that your parents love you, and if they see that she is really good to you, even if they have children, they will accept it.

You have to let your family discover each other's strengths, find each other good, and then show your attitude, you like each other very much, and you want to be with each other.

Patiently communicate with her family, do ideological work, and let her family see her strengths. And explain your feelings for her, and firmly tell your family that you are determined to marry her, and I think your family will agree when they see your firmness.

Hey, judging from the question you asked, I think it's definitely true that you like her, but you also care about what others will think of you, so you need others to give you a positive answer and give you the courage to marry her.

Actually, if you want me to say, if you want to marry yourself, you can marry it, why ask other people's opinions, after all, others don't live with her for a lifetime, how can you expect them to give you an accurate answer? Besides, the eyes of the outside world are so important, who are they, why do you care about what they think, think, and say? Anyway, you close the door and you won't hear what they say.

Then there is the person you like, but he is divorced, and then he has a child very unfortunately, and you are not ruined by other people's marriages when you are with her, why should you cower and think so much? You only have such a life, if you can't be casual and follow what you like, what's the point? Really, with your character, if I were the woman who was divorced with a baby, I really wouldn't dare to risk being with you.

To tell the truth, you said it yourself, there was a failed marriage in the first place, and then after meeting you, you are a big man, and you can't pay attention to it, do you dare to change you? If you agree today, and tomorrow you leave someone because of gossip, how can that work? So, buddy, be decisive, show your manly spirit, if you are sure that you like her, then it doesn't matter if there is a blade in front of her, or a sea of fire, just rush forward boldly; If you can't accept her divorce and take her son with you, then stay away from others, don't cause trouble to others!

In short, my attitude is to make you brave and decisive, don't be mother-in-law, be careful that she becomes someone else's family in the end! Well, there is another sentence to you at the end, some people are just late for you to meet, but fortunately, you finally met, the previous ones let him go, and please cherish each other in the future.