In the face of today s hot topics, should we help the elderly when they fall, what do you think?

First, the Nanjing Peng Yu case, as well as several similar cases that occurred later, the Wan Xin case in Chongqing, the Peng Yu case in Nanjing, and the Li Kaiqiang case in Zhengzhou, did indeed play a negative role in social morality to a certain extent.

On December 15, 2010, Xiao Yusheng, a veteran cadre in Shenzhen, fell in the community, and no one stepped forward to help him, and died more than 20 minutes later. The security guard said that it was not indifference, and he was afraid of taking responsibility. Many people in the post mentioned that they were greatly affected by Peng Yu's case, and they were afraid that their kindness would not be rewarded!

The case is costing the whole of society dearly, and everyone can be a victim!

Second, there are indeed unhealthy tendencies in the current social atmosphere. "Good people are not rewarded", "bad people are rampant", speculators benefit, and those who help others "shed blood and tears". College students saved people and sacrificed themselves bravely, but they were ...... by unscrupulous corpse diggers who "demanded a price for corpses".The extremely unhealthy specimens of reality are full of estrangement and indifference between people.

The third is that "helping the needy" and righteousness and courage have become scarce commodities, and the corresponding appearance is the decline of morality, and the deep-seated reason is the rupture of social trust bonds caused by the weak rational power of citizens' contracts.

Unless I have a lot of witnesses around me, and I use my mobile phone to take a ** as evidence, otherwise I don't dare to help, in today's society, let's not be too simple.

I patted Bolong on the shoulder, "Where is your mother?" "Give me some time, even if you don't make it, wait for me, I'll have a way to convince her. ”

Now the society is too complicated, if you want me not to help, so as not to get into trouble.

It takes more than two people to help the elderly.

In fact, the current society is too chaotic, everyone has it, I think it's better to be yourself, if you want to help the elderly, you can help them, if you don't want to, just walk away.

Yes, although there may not be a corresponding reward for doing good deeds now, that heart cannot be lost.

I think we should help it, no matter what, respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue of our country.

The social climate is not good, and everyone is afraid.

It depends on the situation, some situations cannot be helped, and will cause re-injury, but you must actively give first aid**.

If you want to help, think about what you think if the old man in your family falls down and no one helps you.

To help or not to help, between our thoughts.

I think I'll be able to take it.

It should be helped, but after helping, the relationship should be straightened out in time.

If I touch it, I'll help!

1. On the one hand, it reflects the lack of integrity in today's society and the moral decline of the Chinese people. The lack of protection for those who help others and the impunity for deliberate blackmail further emboldens the arrogance of the detractors.

2. On the other hand, it also reflects the fact that "everyone is in danger" in today's society, because there is too much dependence, too much dependence, and pathological dependence in people's hearts. As a result, no one dares to be a good person, for fear of being falsely accused. Most people will think about helping the elderly when they see their first reaction when they fall, and they will never stand idly by, but whether to help or not to help may be a mental struggle in everyone, and the reason for not helping boils down to fear of getting into trouble, not daring to help, and not being able to help.

3. In fact, normal dependence is normal, but many people are too dependent, which is pathology. Children who are too dependent on the old are gnawing at the old; People believe too much in the moral standards of others, and often manifest themselves as "don't do it", so they are either deceived, sad, or deceived.

4. In short, this phenomenon is that people are frightened by the behavior of those who are immoral, and good people are not good, so they dare not be good people, which is a "moral panic" caused by the world.

1. Can the old man be helped when he falls?

I believe that for many people, the instinct is to help the elderly after they fall. It's just that under the helplessness of reality, after thinking about it, he hesitated. is not only worried about whether the old man will be okay after falling, but also worried about whether he will be falsely accused because of this.

You know, for many people, their fixed monthly salary may not be enough to support them. If you add some medical expenses to your life, it will be a very uncomfortable thing for them. But no matter what, when an old man falls, there are still many people who will come forward.

Second, the Henan guy met an old man who fell down on the road, and the textbook-style approach made netizens praise.

A young man from Henan encountered an old man who fell down on the road, and his textbook-style approach made netizens praise. The old man accidentally fell in the middle of the road while crossing the road. When he met the old man who fell, he first took a picture with his mobile phone to leave evidence, and then helped the old man up.

The dialogue in ** is like this: "I help you", "Thank you well"; "I haven't touched you", "I haven't touched you". Although it is only a few short sentences, we can see from it that this young man has a kind heart and a flexible mind.

I have to say that this can be said to be a textbook approach has made many netizens praise it.

3. Will you help an elderly person when he falls?

Will you help an elderly man when he falls? When I asked myself this sentence, it was also an unknown answer. On the street, if there is no one and an elderly person falls, will they really go to help him up?

For many, this is an unknown answer. Our hearts are all kind, but we still have seven emotions and six desires. If you sacrifice yourself on the premise of helping someone, and the other party has no sense of gratitude, you think it will be reluctant for many people.

On the Internet, I always hear the phrase, "I don't have a mine at home". It is difficult to accept one thing, that is, there is a certain relationship between lifting the elderly who has fallen and the assets of the family. In life, there is no such thing as an easy word in the adult world.

We need to run for life, we need to run for the next generation, we need to run for the previous generation. It can be said that each generation needs to work hard for three generations. In such a life, it is not easy for everyone.

Can the old man be helped when he falls? I believe that if we really encounter an old man who has fallen, there will always be someone of us who will come forward. Just like this young man from Henan, when he fell down the old man, he used his own methods to protect himself and help the old man.

Although life is difficult, kindness is not valuable.

The reaction is deeper.

The problem is that the social self-insurance system is incomplete.

Bai good. Not everyone is born so indifferent, the reason why this phenomenon occurs is because the elderly have nothing to rely on, many elderly people lose their ability to work, and there is no medical security and life security, and the elderly can not afford the high medical costs and the phenomenon of touching porcelain and slandering people occurs, resulting in many people dare not help

1. On the one hand, it reflects the moral decline of today's society.

2. On the other hand, it also reflects the fact that "everyone is in danger" in today's society, because there is too much dependence, too much dependence, and pathological dependence in the hearts of Hui people. As a result, no one dares to be a good person, for fear of being falsely accused3, in fact, normal dependence is normal, but many people are too dependent, which is pathology. Children who are too dependent on the old are gnawing at the old; People believe too much in the moral standards of others, and often manifest themselves as "don't do it", so they are either deceived, sad, or deceived.

4. In short, this phenomenon is that people are frightened by the behavior of those who are immoral, and good people are not good, so they dare not be good people, which is a "moral panic" caused by the world.

Indifferent. At the same time, it reflects the imperfection of the rule of law.

China has indeed entered the aging stage.

You see, the gangsters of the year are all old

When an elderly person falls, I will not hesitate to help him up.

If nothing else, we also have an old day, that's all.

If not, he is real, and we are betting with our lives. If she helps, she is really injured, we saved her, we don't want anything in return, if we beat a rake, it's nothing, at least we have peace of mind. If it's blackmail, then we believe in the law, the law is fair, and we can prove ourselves no matter what.

Or take your phone to record it and protect yourself.

But no matter what, we should go to the rescue. I like a sentence from Peking University a few years ago, the one that has been on the hot search, if you encounter an old man who falls down and is brave enough to help, Peking University will sue you. Although it looks quite fun, although not everyone of us is from Peking University, we should all support it, because we have the country and laws to support it.

If you don't go to help. What about our social climate? How can we let it go, it is better to change and face it bravely!

Traditional virtues, I believe that many people have the experience of helping grandma cross the road when they were in elementary school, of course, they gradually become less and less when they grow up, and now the image of the elderly in the hearts of young people is getting worse and worse.

The earliest case that made the elderly group become scoundrels overnight was the case that occurred in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province on November 20, 2006, when 64-year-old Xu Moulan chased the third bus, and 26-year-old Peng just got off the second bus, and then Peng helped Xu Moulan, and the two sides were endless. Coincidentally, in 2013, Wu went out on a motorcycle, and the old man Zhou walked in the middle of the road, and suddenly Zhou fell, and Wu, who originally bypassed Zhou and drove to the front, went back to help him up, and Zhou asked for 200,000 yuan, and later Wu committed suicide, and Zhou admitted that he fell. In this way, during that time, everyone shy away from the old people who were trembling on the road, and even some old people had to shout "I don't pay for money" after falling, so someone dared to help, so there was a skit on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala in 2014 - "Can you help or not?"

The old man fell and could not be helped" has become a common confusion for more than a billion people, but after the "Civil Code" came into effect this year, a positive answer was actually given - help! Because now there is the "Civil Code" to support everyone.

1. Article 183 of the Civil Code stipulates that if a person suffers damage due to the protection of the civil rights and interests of others, the infringer shall bear civil liability, and the beneficiary may give appropriate compensation. Where there is no infringer, the infringer has escaped, or is unable to bear civil liability, and the victim requests compensation, the beneficiary shall give appropriate compensation.

How to understand this article? This means that if you see someone fall and go to help the other person, so you are damaged, then everything is paid by the person who fell down, and the person who fell down and was helped can be compensated appropriately, and if the person who fell down escapes, then you can let the person you helped up to compensate.

2. Article 184 of the Civil Code stipulates that the rescuer shall not bear civil liability if the aided person suffers damage as a result of voluntarily carrying out emergency assistance. What do you mean by this?

The meaning is that when you voluntarily help him, if the other party has any new damage, then it has nothing to do with you at all, you don't have to be liable for civil liability, no matter how he howls, you can walk away from the bridge by yourself. These two articles are laws made from the perspective of those who help others, which upholds the rights of those who act bravely and righteously, and makes people feel more at ease and bold to do good deeds, but there are still no precise provisions on how to pursue the old man after he fell and was picked up and then extorted money.

From Zheng Zhi's moral point of view, it is true that he should not hesitate to step forward to help, which is the fine traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. However, most of the elderly suffer from chronic diseases such as cardiovascular and cerebrovascular and orthopedic degenerative diseases, and some are even accompanied by Alzheimer's disease. Therefore, only by understanding the corresponding knowledge and having certain first-aid knowledge can we make the most reasonable choice in an emergency and help the elderly to the greatest extent.

Accidental falls in older adults. In order to prevent secondary injury, it is recommended not to rush to stand up on your own. Others should not be in a hurry to move or lift the elderly up, but should judge whether the elderly are conscious or not, and then deal with the injury appropriately.

From the perspective of emergency first aid, if you encounter an elderly person who has fallen, judge his state of consciousness first. If he is unconscious, comatose or even accompanied by vomiting and other symptoms, he should lie flat on his back with his head turned to one side to keep his airway open. Then unbutton your shirt and call for help quickly, dialing 120 quickly.

Pay attention to keep warm in winter, and pay attention to isolation on the hot ground in summer. "Because of the lack of clarity in shouting socks, it may be a stroke, cerebral hemorrhage, or cerebral infarction, and if you move blindly, the bleeding may be further aggravated. If the cause of syncope is unknown, quickly lifting him up may make the brain damage worse.

If the elderly person is conscious, he can ask carefully about the special pain and discomfort. If you have a lot of pain in your leg or lower back, you may have a broken bone. When you break a bone, remember not to move it easily, take good care of it, and use first aid**.

At this time, moving may cause the fracture to be misaligned and cause secondary injury, so waiting for 120 is a good solution.

Hello, the old man falls, he should be envious and should go over to help, respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. The ancients said: Self-cultivation governs the country and equalizes the world!

If a person doesn't even have the most basic moral cultivation, how can he be peaceful in the world? The old and the old. Everyone has a twilight of life, if you are old and fall outside, do you want someone to come to the rescue?

Therefore, if we compare our hearts with our hearts, this society will become better and better, and the nation will have hope. Don't think that the people you meet in this world are all ill-intentioned and indifferent people because of those negative reports on the news, and you should believe that there are still many good people in this world. What you do is a good thing, and God has its own justice.

We also have a ruler in our hearts, and we don't have to worry about being misunderstood by others, as long as we are worthy of our conscience and conscience.