I m about to graduate from junior high school, and I feel like I don t have a common language with m

Hehe! You're a bit of a bull now! Everyone is different! But there seems to be a commonality in some things! That is, if you can do what people think is right, you will be recognized by everyone! Think you're doing the right thing!

So! Don't take things too seriously!

Interact with people, your current stage is to find someone to talk to yourself! There are common hobbies! And not all the people you associate with!

Some don't share a hobby with you! But you think he's a good guy! You can also socialize!

No common language and no one else is afraid! Then surround yourself with those you think are capable! After dating for a long time, you find that they have some advantages, and you also have them!

It's invisible!

Hehe! Take it easy!

Don't take the question too seriously!

Learn from me, since there is no common language, don't communicate with him.

If it's a real friend, it will automatically find something common to talk to you about.

There are also some people who are very hypocritical, and you better not expose him, because if you provoke this kind of person, he will do everything to retaliate against you.

Slowly find a way to behave in life, will slowly get better, in other words, I have suffered from adult phobia since the second year of junior high school, that is, I think adults are so fake and hypocritical, but now I can bear it, I have gained in the process of growth, and there will be a lot of losses, and what may be lost is more precious than what I get, but there is no way, this is growth, and if you want to grow, you must know how to give up and take.

No, it's okay if you have different aspirations, you can't conspire with each other, people will disguise themselves, it's for the good of others and for your own good, you have to look at this kind of thing, look at the problem from his point of view, you will have different feelings, I hope you will integrate into the class as soon as possible.

Modern Tao Yuanming, why not"?

I've been in this situation before, but it's not the way to do it, you need to change yourself. Let yourself be self first.

Reply to letters, be good at answering and looking for similarities with others. For example, in the recent World Cup, you can pay more attention to it and have a common language with boys. Girls, you need to be humorous and generous.

Also, don't be too bad-tempered or do things that damage your image, such as throwing tantrums or swearing. Also, it's not good to be too introverted. Think of your classmates as family and treat each other with sincerity.

If they spill a pen, you can immediately hand over a tissue with understanding. During the holidays, you can ask some of your classmates to go to play or go to the library. Enrich your extracurricular life.

Read more books and learn about the outside world, so you can interject when your classmates are discussing! But don't be too pretentious, as this will turn others off. Humility is also essential!

Finally, I wish you many friends!

Maybe it's because you don't talk much.

It is recommended that you talk to your classmates around you, such as those at the same table, first.

Then become a class leader and train yourself.

You can take your classmates out and chat with you between classes.

The most important thing is not to have an inferiority complex.

Either you feel that there is a gap between yourself and others, or someone else has a gap with yourself.

Intentionally or unintentionally.

Remind yourself from time to time.

Keep a normal mind.

Look at your classmates calmly

Maybe someone else's essence is different from what you know.

It might be helpful to try to dig deeper.

There is also the need to cultivate more of your own interests.

It's easier to make friends.

I don't know if it helps.

First of all, what do you like?

Again, what do you want to talk about with your classmates? What topics do students talk about? Now there are more dao to talk about the game together, it should beFriends have nothing to do with hobbies. It's just that it smells the same. You can be a listener. ~

Very introverted kids. I don't play any sports. Don't you have a lot of friends?

Actually, as long as you put your mind to it. There will be a lot of friends. You don't have to deliberately look for anything (topic, the same thing, whatever).

That's too blunt. Even if friends don't have any topics to talk about, they won't feel anything together.

It's okay, I used to be like this, just get along more.

There is another way: that is, if you say good things in front of your classmates, your classmates will like you, and they will naturally play with you.

Take the initiative to communicate with your classmates, help them when they are in trouble, and make them have a good impression of you, so that you can make a lot of friends, but you have to observe them carefully, some of them are human-faced and beast-hearted

You can be more cheerful, chat with your classmates, play ball, and have more friends.

Why are those that belong to you gone?

There must be a reason for this. Find out the cause and solve it.

Who told you to rush back to the classroom alone and study immediately.

Did they think you were too bored to kick you away?

If not, it's just that you think too much.

Finding things to do for yourself and playing games is also one way to do it. It's really not okay, you should read a book (this book is not another book, not study) or learn something else. When you are full of yourself, even if you want to bored, you can't get bored.

They won't find you bored.

Regain your self-confidence and everything will be easy.

Maybe you will have space to study, maybe you don't like your parents to move the computer out, and you won't study if you are rebellious, but this may become a turning point in your life!

Develop a few close friends, or find someone like you, or like-minded people together, if you really want to discuss with your classmates, it doesn't matter if you add it, you ask them more what is this, that, they will definitely be happy to answer for you, cheers for the landlord.

It's a bit boring to not find a common language, but I don't think you have to force yourself to join them. Sometimes it's nice to be an observer, although it's more fun to participate on your own.

In fact, there are some things that have to be put down when it is time to put them down.

Is this all your classmates talk about...

You can develop academically, and then make a few friends and have a good chat.

Because your thinking is more mature than theirs, not everyone in the same situation thinks the same, but sometimes it's better to have a simple idea, and it's useless to think too much.

Becoming old is equal to considering things comprehensively, and will think about the good, and will also have the worst plan, maybe you are still young, and you will always have such a personality that you don't like yourself, so you don't think this is pleasing to your classmates, right?

Friend, you may not want to hear what I say, but I hope you can take a cursory look at it.

You should be a very strong, very confident and motivated girl, you have a lot of personality and you hate trivial things, but you have a fatal flaw--- you are overconfident. To put it mildly is arrogance, and to be ugly is conceited. From your question, you can see that you will not adapt to the society in the future, the workplace and school are the same, everyone has it, and vulgar people grab a lot of it, but if you want to be like this in the workplace, your future will inevitably be a little bleak.

You are a perfectionist, in fact, you yourself do not think that the requirements of friends will be too high, but to be honest, you will look at the people around you by the standard of treating yourself because of your own excellence, because of your arrogance, your eyes will not look at others, therefore, when you look down at others, you will feel that they are boring and do not want to forge ahead.

We are now five of us working together in Japan, 22-year-old peers, at the beginning, because of social experience, life, and Japanese language differences, I looked down on the four of them, I felt that they were very ignorant and too naïve, and they were reckless in doing things, so when communicating with the Japanese, in order to avoid the embarrassment of faux pas, [Japan is a country of etiquette, this should be known] I will take the initiative to help deal with the communication problems, and they have been with them for a long time, they also have a sense of dependence on me, and the relationship has slowly become harmonious, I also found a lot of good things about them, some people talk very recklessly, but every time he buys something, he buys five people, he treats us as family; Some people are so bad at Japanese that they can't even understand after work, but he is very polite and personal, and he often says, 'Don't let the Japanese think of us as uneducated barbarians, we have to fight for ourselves.'

Now I know that the person you don't like doesn't exist at all, it's just that you don't know him. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and what you see is only the shortcomings of others, try to find the advantages in the people you hate, and you can do whatever you want to take care of yourself when you get used to it, not to mention that you can't find it. When you find a good thing about someone else, you will feel that that person is not so annoying; Find two advantages,You will feel that the person is not bad.,It's a good person.。。。

You say that you will be very sincere to your friends, so are there many people who take the initiative to contact you and make friends with you? Personal estimate is "none". This shows that your sincerity is not full, let go of your arrogance, melt into it, try to find shortcomings in your own body, any shortcomings can be done, correct a shortcoming, your charm will increase...

There will be more people who like you.

Your question is too proud, it's really personal, but nowadays, what is most needed is for people to adapt to society, and society will not change a little bit to adapt to you...

How so?

I think you're asking too much of them. I think friendship is also a kind of exchange, if you think other people are selfish, maybe other people feel the same way about you. Moreover, in a group, it is not easy for everyone to accept different people in general.

Nothing strange about it.

Your personality and demands for humanity inherently make it difficult for you to make friends. You yourself said that you are different from what they are interested in, you think their lives are not good and unmotivated, but they will also think that your life is too boring and meaningless.

It's all the same, sometimes, you can see different things when you look at the problem from a different angle.

You tell me?

I think you should analyze and analyze why this situation has occurred, don't you have a reason for it? Anyone who finds problems from himself, don't always complain, there is no one to be sorry in this world, and there is no so-called fairness or unfairness.

Let go of yourself first.

When you get along with others with peace and calmness, friendly and sincere, and you open your heart, I don't believe that there are still people who sincerely reject you.

You are an extrovert, bold, informal, uninhibited, not unpleasant, even if you say it. You can't change other people's personalities and habits, so you have to adapt to the people around you, and when you go out into society, you know that the people you meet in school can be met everywhere in society.

Now you might as well study and analyze how many kinds of people there are in the world, which is also the person you meet when you enter the society, and it will be of great help to your future life.

I'm a boy, I'm also in junior college, and I'm about the same as you in school... But then I didn't think I needed to pay attention to it, now I'm in school, not at work, and it doesn't have much impact if I don't get along well with my classmates, so I won't interact with each other in the future.

I. I feel like I'm not far from you, can I talk to you?

When I was in college, I was in a similar situation to you, and the people in the dorm basically didn't talk. I went to the library every day to read books, and I got a 560 in English level 4....

Go your own way and let others say go.

1. Try to find a common language.

2. You can chat together to increase your relationship.

3. You can send some things appropriately.

Friendship must be a negative for one party to be successful.

You can try to play some of the same things, and classmates will slowly become friends, become confidants, say everything they want, and say whatever they want.

I'm like you, I can only laugh along, otherwise I will seem unsociable, and people will easily have a nasty psychological ...... for youAlthough this is very hypocritical, you can only hide your truest self in your deepest heart.

It shows that you are very introverted! Me too, but if you look closely, there will be a common language! Good luck!

If you're really special, or if you're thinking better than others in some way, you're a genius, and it's normal to feel stupid around you, and if you're nothing special, you're just emotional, that's your problem.

You are too proud of yourself, you think you are invincible, you look down on them psychologically, so you don't have a common language.

Adjust the mentality, generally this situation is due to its own reasons, and the mentality is very important.

Friend, if you feel like all your classmates around you feel like this, then maybe something is wrong with you! You need to reflect on yourself with optimism!

Maybe I've been worrying too much lately!

Then you're a real fool.

Since they are classmates, they are all peers. If you are passively accepting communication, then look at the topics that those people talk about, talk about what you like, know well, and are interested in understanding, and you will be in the same stream!

If you want to reach out to someone on your own, you should pay more attention to their preferences and learn more about their preferences. Let's talk about it! Strong ability, will guide the other direction to move closer to themselves; If the ability is average, everyone can find common ground; The ability is almost there, so you have to accompany each other all the time.

In short, learn more about the needs of others.