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Regardless of whether you doubt him right or wrong! The first thing you have to define is whether you are wrong or not! If you think you're wrong!
You should apologize. It's a matter of principle! Secondly, you have to understand!
Suspicion requires some evidence to be established! "Conspiracy is the worst enemy of love" can be proven, and the most basic condition for friendship is trust. The ancients:
Suspects don't need to. There is no doubt about employing people. That is, this is true for subordinates, not to mention friends!!
Where there is doubt, there is truth, because truth is a shadow of doubt. A lot of things are multifaceted! Think about these things for yourself!
I won't say here whether you should apologize or not, I can only say that you are wrong and you should apologize.
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A true friend should not be suspicious, you really should apologize, she is very hurt, her good friend is suspicious of herself, you think about how you feel.
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As long as you are sincere, then sincerely go to her and apologize to her! I apologize from the bottom of my heart!
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Friends are meant to be trusted. Not for doubt. Since you think you're doing something wrong. Then go and apologize. In this way, you can protect your friendship.
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Of course there should be an apology. The damage in the heart is not so easy to heal. And the more you take that person to heart, the more you hurt.
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Don't apologize, because did he understand you? If he wants to be friends with you, he will beg you to believe it.
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Because I hurt my friend because of my suspicions, of course I should apologize.
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"I'm not wrong, why should I apologize? That's right, that's a phrase that people often say when they encounter conflict.
I remember watching a movie when I was a child, and as soon as the characters came out, the people around me began to speculate: "This is the good guy, and that is the bad guy!" Right and wrong were our basic value judgments about the world at that time, so "right or wrong" and "how it should be" became the standard for judging right and wrong between people.
There is an old saying: the wise man fights for sin, and the fool fights for reason. Especially relatives, under one roof, they have to understand each other, not fight for right and wrong there. Therefore, if there is a dispute between relatives, I am wrong to you, and if I argue, I will be angry with you; Relatives will understand each other if they are affectionate and do not argue about right and wrong.
Whether there is a mistake or not, and whether you need to admit it, it doesn't matter. A lot of apologies in this world are not because he did something wrong.
Moreover, apologizing is not as difficult as we think to "admit mistakes", and you don't even need to admit mistakes, you just need to learn one thing: to state the facts selectively. For example, a complete apology should include:
1.Regret what happened.
2.Make a clear statement of "I'm sorry".
3.Ask for forgiveness.
4.Acknowledging the other person's feelings.
5.Ask for atonement.
6.Acknowledging that we are going against each other's expectations.
Here's an example: I'm really sad (sorry for what happened) because I said something I shouldn't have said again and couldn't get your forgiveness.
Sorry (explicitly state "sorry").
Please forgive me! Ask for forgiveness.
I know you're angry and angry right now, and you feel very wronged when you say that to others, but as a good friend, I still say this about you, which makes you very disappointed and angry, and if it were me, I would definitely be very angry. Acknowledging the other person's feelings.
I want to be able to make amends for my mistakes, please give me a chance. Let's have dinner together after work, shall we? Ask for atonement.
Friends, we should understand each other and support each other, I didn't do a good job this time, but I will try to do a good job in the future, please believe me! Acknowledging that we are going against each other's expectations.
Life doesn't always go smoothly, people don't always get along with each other, and sometimes, we apologize just because we cherish the relationship more, and the first person to apologize is often the bravest.
There are two sides to people's hearts, and it depends on which side you want to win the game. You find the reason for your thoughts in yourself. In addition, the human heart is fragile, don't let it always come into contact with those violent things.
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