It s selfish to love someone, so why can t she be selfish for me?

Maybe it's almost time to end, and it could really be your wishful thinking. It may sound a bit unpleasant, but it may be true. Give it up, no one will blame you.

Let's find another one who truly belongs to her. There is a poem called "The willow cotton on the branches blows less, and there is no grass at the end of the world." You may have heard this phrase said many times, but it is true, giving up will be good for each other, and you will get a kind of relief when you give up on her.

Sometimes you may want to touch a girl with your sincerity, but you should first think about whether she is worthy of your example, and you should also think about whether there will be hope. Well, may you get out of the predicament as soon as possible and find your true love. best wishes for you !

Women become indifferent to anything, which is also a way to protect themselves, because they are very vulnerable, and they can't stand it if they care too much. It's nothing. What do you want her to care about you?

Men should be sensible and don't want to break up for trivial things. If you can't accept what she does, just talk to her and see what she thinks.

In short, it is not easy for the two to come together, and if they can be separated, they will not be separated. It would be nice to communicate more.

I don't think you can draw conclusions so early, because everyone has a different way of dealing with this thing, you should be more patient, if a man is insecure, then you should first look back and see if you give her a sense of security?

Love is two-sided, it cannot be ignored, if one of them does not attach importance to this feeling, then this relationship is not a complete relationship.

Love is based on mutual understanding and mutual trust

Forget about it without these, don't think about it, it will only be more painful

You can communicate well and see what she thinks, and she is telling her what you think.

Divide it! You're right, it's not worth it! Love is not like this!

Maybe she cares about you, but she just doesn't know how to express it!

My brother is the same as me, and I am also her who treats me coldly, and I am also very sad.

Brother, I feel the same way, I'm divided, but it's sad, I can't forget her...

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description: I think that if you like someone, you don't have to pay close attention to him, which is often not good, but on the contrary, if he doesn't care about me and doesn't care about me, that's not good. So what's going on?

Analysis: Selfish, of course, who can bear to share their men and women with others?

But there is no relationship between selfishness and carefulness, since we understand that selfishness is mutual, we should consciously maintain our own private nature, that is not to meet each other's requirements.

If a person can't maintain his own private nature, there are two reasons, one is to be forced, such as going to the market, some ****, etc., no way, that is a category of bad and unchangeable, this situation can be forgiven, but it can't be indulged, it's better to be difficult to clean up. The second is to fall by yourself, then there is no way, it means that the other half is not enough to attract him (her), then it depends on whether the problem can be solved, and if you can't just divorce, it's meaningless.

Loving oneself is not selfishness, but the foundation and root of all love. He who loves himself will not be selfish and will definitely love others. And the root of selfishness is that you don't know how to love yourself, so you will hurt others and not benefit yourself.

Loving yourself is a very simple thing, everyone should do it, and you can do it, but in fact, many people can't do it.

If we really find ourselves, we will find that self and others are not opposites, but a whole, and cannot be separated, so there is a saying that "saving others is self-control" and "helping others is helping ourselves".

Those who equate living their lives with selfishness do not understand the relationship between the self and the world.

Practitioners know how to save sentient beings, because to save sentient beings is to save themselves. A conscious person will serve others and contribute to society, because he knows that everyone in society is closely related to him and is inextricably linked.

To discover oneself and live oneself is to transcend oneself, and one will become a selfless person who achieves greater self and selflessness.

The superego is not a mystical realm, a realm of self-realization.

The most essential self of each person is the superego, which does not need to be deliberately created, it is already there and has never been lost.

The real light must have shadows, and the real people must have shortcomings. Shadows set off the light, and without shadows we can't see the light. The disadvantages set off the advantages, and without the disadvantages, the advantages are simply invisible.

The true self must be both good and bad, good and evil, not only good but not bad, or only good and no evil.

Why Acceptance? Because this is the way it is, if you want to be honest and not run away from it and not distort it, you have to accept your imperfections.

The true self is imperfect, and the so-called perfection is just wishful thinking on the part of our minds, which does not exist at all.

To be free is to be your true self, not to disguise or disguise, so that you will not control others, but will make others free.

And those who control others just can't be real, can't be free, so they can't help themselves and have to control others.

If you can't see your own evil, you will project your subconscious evil onto others, so you will see that others are all bad people, and your heart will be very unhappy.

Good people don't necessarily live well, they are often lonely and unliked, and that's the reason.

When you think you are good, you will project the mediocrity of your heart onto others, so you will see mediocrity all around you.

In fact, everyone has the ordinary and the extraordinary in their hearts, and they are all a unity of contradictions.

Real people must be complex, three-dimensional, and indefinable. We often don't see the reality of ourselves and others, we can only see part of it.

Summary. Hello dear, it's a pleasure to serve you Loving yourself is not the same as being selfish. First of all, love is a positive term, while selfishness is a derogatory term.

There is a qualitative difference between these two words, to love yourself is to know how to protect yourself, take care of yourself, not to let yourself be hurt, to care about yourself, to make yourself better, to dress yourself beautifully, to make yourself refreshed, to make your life more wonderful. Selfishness is relative to others, is formed by comparison with others, if others share things with you, but you never do anything for others, this is called selfishness, always want other people's things, but you don't know how to share, blindly take care of your own interests, only for your own sake. Love is different, he is not greedy for the interests of others, he will also love others when he loves himself, he will think about others, but selfishness is the opposite.

Hello dear, it's a pleasure to serve you Loving yourself is not the same as being selfish. First of all, love is a positive term, while selfishness is a derogatory term. There is a qualitative difference between these two words, to love oneself is to know how to protect oneself, to take care of oneself according to one's behavior, not to let oneself be hurt, to care about oneself very much, to make one's life better, to dress oneself beautifully, to make one's life more beautiful.

Selfishness is relative to others, is formed by comparison with others, if others share things with you, but you never do anything for others, this is called selfishness, always close your mind to other people's things, but you don't know how to share, blindly take care of your own interests, only for your own sake. Love is different, he is not greedy for the interests of others, he will also love others when he loves himself, he will think about others, but selfishness is the opposite.

The biggest difference between self-love and selfishness is who to love? Self-loving people love themselves as well as others. Selfish people love only to fight pure hail themselves.

Some people worry that they will become selfish when they begin to love themselves. Some people who have always been accustomed to giving for others, once they turn to love themselves, they will also be a little worried about whether they are starting to sell different pants from the past. In fact, these are the veils of the outer base sails.

True self-love is definitely not selfishness, true self-love is very beautiful. It will improve one's lifestyle, make everything better and better, and it will also make the people around it happy. And the people around the selfish person will suffer and eventually slowly move away.

Selfishness is the fact that many people judge a person from a relative point of view, of course, because this person has committed what society generally considers to be "selfish". Love can be selfish or selfless. When we are selfish, we can have situations like this: First, we love ourselves more than others, and others say that we are selfish, so we will say that it is wrong to love ourselves?

2. Love others more than some, and the unloved party will think you are selfish, because you only love people you know, or people you have a relationship with.

3. When you love anything, you fall into your own subjective stubbornness, which is also doing things according to your own will, which is also considered to be selfish.

Love is selfless, only in the following cases, that is, there is no contrast, love nature, love everyone. However, this is rare, if not a single person, that can do it. Only when love is exchanged for such deeds as life, such deeds are passed down through the ages, then this kind of love is accepted by people and praised as selfless feelings.

Since it is difficult to have selflessness in love, then love selfishly. When you love someone, love hard. If you love your parents, you love them fiercely, and if you love the people you like, you can love them fiercely.

It's good if you don't bring too many ulterior motives. Why think so much about selfishness or selflessness? Even if you think it's selfless?

What about selfishness? The most important thing is to do what you want. Do not violate your conscience, do not violate morality.