Do you feel lonely or enjoy being alone?

To be honest, living alone, sometimes I feel more lonely, and sometimes I still feel more enjoyable. Because sometimes when I am anxious and upset, I have no one to comfort me, and I carry everything by myself, but sometimes I feel that I live alone, unrestrained, and it is quite good.

Most of my generation are only children, and sometimes there is no choice. We are all autistic people. When I was a kid, I tried interviewing myself in the mirror and pretending to be a famous person.

Or sometimes talk to yourself. Throughout the process of growing up, it must be lonely and lonely for a person. Other classmates are all in groups, and if you are alone, others will think you are a freak and will exclude you.

In this case, it can only be enjoyable? But when I became an adult, especially when I entered the society, I experienced a lot of deceitful and intriguing plots, so I thought that it was better to come alone. After all, the only person in this world who can do the best for you is yourself.

Our generation is too selfish, and the older we get, the more lonely we become. When I'm older, I still enjoy being alone. But it is inevitable that sometimes I want to go out for a walk, and I can't find even one of the hundreds of people in the address book on my mobile phone.

This kind of sorrow can only be experienced by our generation.

I feel lonely when I'm alone, maybe it's because I'm old, I want to find a man to accompany me, and I hope I can find someone to spend the rest of my life with, and I hope this person will appear sooner.

Every stage of life is a different experience. At the beginning, when I was still in college, I was used to being with my classmates, and I could hardly stand being alone, and I felt that it was difficult to spend time alone, and no matter what I did, I had to have someone with me to do it, go to self-study, go to class, go shopping, ......Before the holiday, when I saw off my last classmate and was alone in the dormitory, I actually felt panicked. Later, after graduating, stepping into the complex world of society, I had to adapt to a person, I complained to my friends more than once, and there was no one to talk to, she always persuaded me that it was good to be alone, you can do what you want, read the books you want to read, ......In this way, with the change of time, I suddenly became accustomed to a person's time.

When you are alone, you can enjoy it, you can do all kinds of things you want to do, you can improve your work skills, you can read some favorite books, or you can go to a movie alone. These are all a treat.

When I was alone in the unit, I thought it was enjoyable. When you are alone at home, you are also happy. When hiking alone, I was a little lonely and even had suicidal thoughts.

I don't know how other people are, anyway, when I'm alone, I feel lonely and enjoyed, and sometimes both seem to exist, I can't say it, I can't tell it. Overall, though, there's more to enjoyment than loneliness. This has a lot to do with the fact that I have always been used to being alone for too many times since I was a child.

It may be difficult for a person to be alone at first, but when you get used to it, you will learn to find fun from the middle area of solitude, and even take the initiative to choose to stay alone, not to say that you are not social, but to say that you can arrange yourself when you are alone, and I personally think it is also a kind of realm.

When I'm not in love, I feel lonely when I see other couples, and I look forward to this day, and I also want someone to accompany me to watch movies, travel, and eat meat and drink together.

I enjoy this kind of time alone, ** as soon as I let go, I immediately feel that the years are quiet. I like to listen to **, Xunqu, Matouqin, Erhu and so on.

Being alone is sometimes a kind of enjoyment, without anyone's control, without anyone's noise, maybe this is a yearning;

I still like to be alone, go to ** if you want to, do whatever you want, don't worry about anyone, don't worry about anyone, how happy you are like this.

Feelings of loneliness and enjoyment are not innate, they change with each stage of our lives.

It changes with the environment we live in, the things we experience, and the character we form.

When you are young, you are playing outside in groups of three or five friends, and you yourself can't hide at home to recuperate or do your homework, which is a kind of loneliness.

That's because of the loneliness of not having a playmate, that's because of the loneliness of not being able to fit into the group.

The formation of a person's character and his experiences are closely related to his family.

Some developed a cheerful personality with his upbringing and the influence of his family; Some developed a dull character with his upbringing and the influence of his family.

Cheerful people like people who live in groups, they are used to this kind of life, and once they are alone, they feel very lonely.

The dull personality is usually used to being alone, and when I am used to being alone, I feel that this kind of life is just a kind of enjoyment. It's good to be alone.

The family environment is also closely related to character formation.

We grow up in an environment where the family is harmonious and united, and the parents love each other, and there is always laughter and laughter in the family.

In such an environment, he will also feel lonely when he is alone in the future.

If a person is in a family environment where there is constant scolding and noisy at home all day long, then he will also feel that it is a pleasure when he is alone.

Therefore, whether a person is lonely or enjoying when he is alone has a great relationship with his mood and environment at that time.

There are many situations in life, whether it is loneliness or enjoyment, this feeling will accompany us like a shadow for a lifetime.

When we are in the sun and our hearts are fragrant, solitude is also enjoyment.

When we are in the dark, under the street lamps where no one is around, loneliness can arise.

No matter where we are, we know how to adjust our hearts, we know how to adjust our feelings, and loneliness and enjoyment can be automatically switched.

People who work in other places can feel unfit and lonely when they are far away from their relatives and friends, away from familiar cities. It is recommended that you make more local friends. After work, you can go out to the movies, eat, and play together.

When leisure activities are abundant, there is no time to feel lonely. If you don't have a girlfriend, you can also find a girlfriend locally, but only if it's for the purpose of getting married. Lovers' love can also make you feel the warmth of home.

You'll also be able to further your knowledge and learn.

In short, a fulfilling life will not make you feel lonely.

Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe, it will be a little better and understand the happiness of self-sufficiency.

The biggest knot in people's hearts is that they only see the fault of others, and identify themselves as victims, but the unfortunate poor people can't see through them, and the victims are often self-harmful, using the existence of others to harm themselves, and thinking about living a bad relationship, I don't know what to do. Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more?

A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice. It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self.

When you are still you and I am still me, you know how to respect and love each other, and we walk together for a period of care, which is the gift of fate, and it is too late to thank you.

When there is no fear of loneliness, there is no need to divide one person and two people, women and men, tenderness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate.

The human energy is such that when you internalize the feelings and emotions that have gone bad and let yourself bear and bear it alone, sooner or later you will break down.

Theoretically, people are bound to be lonely, and no one can live for you, but emotionally, if you can't find a point to rely on, you will easily collapse if you are helpless. When the energy is exhausted, the strongest man in the world will fall.

When we are tired, our energy falls to the bottom, our emotions are traumatic, we encourage negative imagination, and everything suddenly becomes gray and meaningless. You have to remind yourself that this feeling is just an inertial cycle of cranial nerve tendencies to negative reactions, not a reflection of life, don't identify with it. [of the waves].

When the energy declines, don't hold on to it, people are lonely animals, but don't cling to loneliness. Find an emotional point to rely on, such as a lover, such as a pet, such as yourself, like God, put it in your heart, love him, and then smile at yourself and say thank you. Don't care whether this reliance point is real or not, people are people, and you have to rely on emotional pillars stronger than yourself to live!

Don't mind relying on it, don't care about saving face or anything, people are originally group animals, and there is no reason and need to be lonely and clinging. Grasp a point of reliance that allows you to be centered, calm yourself, and then surpass yourself, if you can improve, you can realize the meaning of life!