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What you are missing right now is the purpose of life that you have set for yourself in your heart. Only through self-effort can we feel the existence of self-worth.
The superior conditions at home cannot solve your inner confusion, and everyone will have a time when they stand at the crossroads of life and don't know where to go. Don't be too nervous now, let alone feel useless, the superior conditions of the family can help you create many conditions and provide many opportunities to learn other things. Now you can further improve your quality by learning more knowledge or skills.
In the process of improving yourself, it is necessary to determine a relatively simple goal as soon as possible, which must be completed. Then step by step, the challenge is increased to complete the process of realizing self-worth.
Self-confidence needs to be built, and complaining will not solve any problems.
As I said, you can start by establishing small goals, which are not necessarily ambitious, such as changing your attitude towards things, strengthening self-control and restraint, and always complaining that you have achieved nothing so far, so what's the use. Take the first step first, don't rush.
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Do you have something you want to do, it's not that others think you should do something, but what you want to do in your heart, if you have it, do it, when you are young, you should do what you say, don't stand in place Mother-in-law, you have to live like a man. I hate that kind of being saying I should do this, I should do that, what I should have done before, don't you think it's stupid? Melancholy, as if the end of the world was coming, hesitating, always unable to move forward because of his timidity.
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First of all, you can come here to ask this kind of question, you are a self-motivated person, you will not give up the struggle because your family conditions are good, and another one, you have to tell you that your life path must be your own ideas, you can't let other people's ideas control your life, you can learn a technology, at least in the future, you will not have a good family conditions, you can also eat technology, I hope your future is bright.
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No matter what your family conditions are, you can't always rely on the house, and you also said that you don't want to stay at home, then come out, don't be afraid of hardship or anything, you have to go through something to grow up and mature...The key is that you have to endure the loneliness of struggle, don't leave yourself a way back, don't want to retreat...
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Let's finish school. I think it's still more important to know a technology.
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What kind of work do you have when your family is rich! Think about how to do business at home! People should strive for things, not work for others.
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There are many people who spend their lives doing things they don't like, so it is recommended that you observe your strengths. If you have the conditions, write articles or something, it's good to be a writer! But remember, don't rely on the family to eat, it's the man who lives the way he is!
The family's assets are not necessarily earned by yourself, as long as you have a dream, you are not afraid of reality!
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Life is long and short! How can we say that we have taken the perfect path of life?
In this regard, I am also deeply touched, there was a happy vision, there was also melancholy and confusion, there was a strong desire for knowledge, and there was also low-key decadence, in a word: life is short but diverse!
I remember Qu Yuan said: The road is long, I will go up and down and seek! I think that's what everyone thinks about as well.
Yes, just like a famous saying I believe in: the ice will not stop the water, and the dead wood will meet again! But there are many times when I still feel that the direction of life is so shaky, but one of the things I believe is to find the direction that suits you or you like according to the actual situation, and then continue to work hard to develop towards it, and one day the effort will pay off.
After a long night, I had no intention of sleeping, and suddenly remembered the words of the Supreme Treasure in "Journey to the West", one night is a long life? How can I live my life well? How can I be my best self?
Maybe we have all started to have our own great ambitions, how we want to be, but when we really leave school and start to step into society, we find that everything has changed, and our edges and corners have been smoothed out by the flowing society.
But we don't lose our goals, we have to believe that opportunities are reserved for those who are ready, we must believe that we are born to be useful, and we should not be discouraged if we fail for a while, and strive to use our abilities to realize the imminent value of life. At the same time, life is short, and we must make the most of each day.
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If you have the conditions, you should go to Canada, the college is meaningless in China, of course, if your parents can help you get the job done, that's another matter, to be honest, you can go to Canada is quite lucky, there are many junior college students, college promotion and unsuccessful, can only go to night college, or do blue-collar work, now college students and the previous secondary school students are almost the same, it is difficult to find a good job, don't blame your parents, now Chinese society is the case, either rely on relationships, or rely on money, After all, you don't have as much life experience as your parents, although you don't have to listen to what you say, but it will help you to listen to their opinions.
People will have times of confusion in their lives, and how to get out of confusion quickly is the key. It's like a ship in the ocean, the navigation system has a problem, it can't move on, and it has to be repaired before it can continue to start anew.
In fact, people's perseverance is very tenacious, as long as he has the belief to live, then it is okay. We are very serious about living, and we have seen many examples on TV of replacing life with our feet without our arms.
You should go and explain it to him. Say you love him very much. Let's go buy your sister or girlfriend's favorite things for him.。。 No matter how expensive it is. Cast points.