Should I wait for my boyfriend to break up? Or give up...

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Not necessarily. He doesn't cherish you at all, he doesn't care about you at all! As soon as there is something else, he throws himself into the arms of others...

    Would you want such a man? Very insecure also! Don't get carried away by love.

    If you marry him, your family and your children will not be guaranteed in the future! If you want to find a marriage partner, find someone who is good to yourself and responsible... Trust me!

    That's right! He, you just give up completely! What's more, every relationship can't be let go...

    Realize for yourself

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Give it up ... It would be better to start over

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is a typical chicken rib mentality, I don't want to be with you and I don't want you to be with someone else, tell him not to harass you if he doesn't want to get back together, change your mobile phone number.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is a good saying that if you miss it, you miss it Let it go He doesn't love you alone, why are you still together Do you want your boyfriend to think about other women? I can't tolerate it, some people say that it is better to demolish a temple than to break a marriage, I just talk about my thoughts and think about it myself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are no friends between men and women, only warmth, hehe.

    According to what you said, I think your ex-boyfriend's psychology now should be that he just doesn't want others to be nice to you. I feel that he is a little selfish, I don't think he loves you, and at the same time I think women should find someone who loves themselves more than they love him, hehe, I personally understand, I am a man.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Give up, after all, he is not so sincere to you, saying that he wants to break up, knowing that someone is chasing you and jealous, a little selfish, and he doesn't think about you at all, so if you continue to contact you intermittently, you will be hurt more seriously in the end.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Give up, you're only waiting for more pain.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Hello dear, happy to answer your questions. Now that you've broken up, then you're not all the way.

    No need to listen to what your ex tells you to do anymore? The breakup should be more complete, and if there is still a broken thread, it will be a harm to each other. Now that you have broken up, you have to start a new love life.

    Forget the past to have a good future. Isn't there a saying that is good? It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes.

    After a breakup, my boyfriend asked me to wait for him what I should do.

    Hello dear, happy to answer your questions. Now that you've broken up, then you're not all the way. No need to listen to what your ex tells you to do anymore?

    The breakup should be more complete, and if there is still a broken thread, it will be a harm to each other. Now that you have broken up, you have to start a new love life. Forget the past to have a good future.

    Isn't there a saying that is good? It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes.

    Hello dear, according to the content of your chat, I think you should not wait. There's no need to wait.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After you break up with your boyfriend, if you are rash instead of thinking seriously about the decision made, you will definitely regret it, because the breakup, the decision of two people to break up needs to be thoroughly considered by yourself in a calm situation, and the two people can make the right decision.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't regret my boyfriend's breakup, after all, that person is not my crush, and he can't bear some of his problems.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After breaking up, you will also feel regretful, there are many good experiences between two people, and they are very happy together, but since they have broken up, they will not look back.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'll regret it, but it's not going to last forever. When I first broke up, I felt that my boyfriend was very good, and I regretted it a little in my heart, but after a long time, I would face the feelings of the breakup correctly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, if you really want to break up, you should break it off early, and you may not be so painful for each other, so that you can make it like this, let him be miserable, and then bring it up with me, ask me if I want to talk to him, I was surprised to ask this sentence, and broke up after the fight.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After I broke up with my boyfriend, I didn't regret it, because I felt that we were not suitable for each other, I was a person with a strong personality, yes, people with a cowardly personality were very disdainful, so I proposed to break up, and I don't regret it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Will regret it. I've been in this situation. He always quarreled with him because he had a bad temper, and then he couldn't help but say that he broke up, and within a few days, he said that he liked other girls and was chasing.

    I was so sad that I was completely disconnected for four months, and then he came back to me. At that time, I was not sensible, I didn't think too much, and I accepted him when I felt that I still liked him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since you have chosen to break up, you will not regret it, there are so many good men in the world, and there is no shortage of him. If you miss him, you may find someone better than him who knows how to cherish you more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't regret it, the decision you made, even if it's wrong, don't regret it, since you have chosen, you have to look forward, there is no need to be nostalgic for the past!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After I broke up with my boyfriend, I didn't regret it, because since we didn't love each other anymore, it was a good thing to break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No, because it was me who proposed to break up, I was already very desperate for him, and he would not have been in my heart for hundreds of millions of years.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, because all the decisions made are made by yourself, and there is no regret, I can only say that fate is nothing more!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There will be no regrets, the breakup of the two is just inappropriate for each other.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After I broke up with my boyfriend, I don't regret it. It was a more rational way to break up at the beginning, so after the breakup, well, I don't regret it, because now I'm very happy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, it is really difficult to choose when you encounter this problem, if you choose to leave him, people will say that you are realistic, but if you don't leave him, when will you live a hard life in the future.

    You have to spend money everywhere in life, for example, if you get married, then you definitely need bride price money and wedding banquet money, and you have to pay for this money yourself. Even if you get married, it will cost you a lot of money to have children in the future, milk powder, diapers, and education expenses, which are not small amounts. So both of you are required to have a good financial foundation, if not, then your life will be very difficult, and have you ever heard of "poor couples mourn", you may have all kinds of quarrels because of lack of money.

    Although some people don't have any money themselves, at least their families don't have to ask him for household expenses every month, so he can be a little more relaxed. But if you don't have much money and have to send money home every month to support your family, then you will have a lot of pressure to be with him. I can't take care of my own life anymore, and I have to squeeze out a little money and send it back to his family.

    Of course, this does not mean that he should not send it back to his family, after all, it is the duty of every child to honor his parents, just say that you will be very tired.

    Everyone wants to marry a handsome and rich husband, so that they don't have to suffer so much, and they can be their own rich wife with peace of mind. But how many people can find such a husband? If you really like your boyfriend, and your boyfriend is also working harder, then you can still marry him, as long as the two of you work harder and earn more money in the future, the current hard work is only temporary, and you must believe that a good life is in your own hands.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. Good morning, my dear! It doesn't mean the end.

    Your boyfriend said that he would come to you when you feel better, and there was a chance. There are two possibilities, one is that when you are in good shape, I will come to you and talk to us about what we will do in the future? The second is to pronounce the verdict at that time.

    When my boyfriend who hasn't broken up says, I'll come to you when I'm in better shape, doesn't it mean it's over.

    Good morning, my dear! It doesn't mean the end. Your boyfriend said that he would come to you when you feel better, and there was a chance. There are two possibilities, one is that when you are in good shape, I will come to you and talk to us about what we will do in the future? The second is to pronounce the verdict at that time.

    Analysis: He didn't immediately propose to break up, which means that he still has you in his heart, and he now feels that your emotions are unstable, even if you talk about it, you are not rational, and he is afraid of acting irrationally under impulse. He has left room for each other, so you can adjust your mindset and think clearly about your problems and how to solve them.

    But we didn't quarrel, but because of his personal reasons, he was in a bad mood, and then he snubbed me, telling me that if he could understand, he would understand, and if he couldn't understand, he would come to me when he was in a better state, so I didn't understand what the mentality was.

    He may be a little indifferent now, he is in a bad mood, so his emotions are more impulsive, and the words he says are more hurtful.

    He is actually afraid that you will hurt you by contacting him now, and hopes that you will ignore him, let him recover himself, and wait for him to get better before looking for you.

    But I feel confused, so it's better to just tell me about the joy of the end.

    can understand your feelings, but the feelings are not so easy to break off, he may also like you, but he can't control his temper.

    Wait a few days, and then give yourself a chance.

    He didn't lose his temper with me then, he just told me this when chatting on WeChat, and he did learn through his friends that he had encountered something recently, but he didn't want to tell me and ignored me.

    He feels that telling you will only worry you, and it will not solve it, he feels that he is a man, and it is his responsibility. Ignoring you may actually be annoying for him, worried that the anger will come to you.

    Give each other a little trust, trust that he can solve it, give him a little space, he doesn't want to say it so don't ask, um. I didn't continue to ask, but I wondered if I was tired of my occasional behavior. Or did he really just want to end it and deliberately told me that.

    Sorry, just busy! I think you are a little worried too much, and the gains and losses of your relationship are actually your own problems.

    Why can't you be more confident in yourself? In fact, the less confident you are, the more you will only fall into a dead loop, making yourself uneasy and doubtful, which is what we call scaring yourself.

    Maybe yes, I don't like to wait for two things, or just end it

    understands you, and likes to make it clear in your relationship. If you're really struggling, then wait and ask for clarification when he's not going well.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Test you while hoping you can wait for him.

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