Why is it said that the right amount of coldness can make the other person miss you?

Have you ever had this kind of life experience, that is, there is a person who confesses to you, saying that he must pursue you, and then appears in front of you every day enthusiastically, coaxes you to be happy, asks you out to play, brings you breakfast, chats with you, even if you are not faint and chatting with each other, you will also deal with the party's appointment when you are bored, and then one day suddenly the other party is no longer as enthusiastic as before, at this time will you feel a little nostalgic for the days when the other party treated you warmly.

When I was working, there was a boy who threatened to chase me, so he waited at the door of the dormitory every morning, and followed me all the way to tell jokes to make me happy. He eats with me at noon every day, waits for me to get off work every day, asks me to play on weekends, and sometimes he is afraid that I won't go, so he will ask my friends and call me to play together.

I persisted for half a year, I kept telling him that I didn't want to fall in love, I didn't want to experience a broken love again, I refused his gifts, refused the breakfast he bought, and refused him to be good to me, but one day after half a year, he suddenly stopped treating me like this, no longer waiting for me to go to the company in the morning, waiting for me to go back to the dormitory with me after work, and didn't sit with me at noon to eat, at this time I suddenly panicked, it was the kind of person who was used to the other party, and suddenly the other party didn't treat you like that, at this time you will feel unaccustomed.

So I especially hope that he can treat you like before, and then you hope that he will treat you like he used to be, and you will definitely respond to him, but you have missed the opportunity, at this time you miss him, but you can't pull your face to find each other, so you are so cold, until one of them finds the object, you find out that you really missed it, and after that you still miss each other, you still think about how good it would be if he insisted on persisting.

But for the other party, he has been holding on for too long, he is tired, so he doesn't want to do that to you anymore.

Because you are too enthusiastic, it will make the other party disgusted, but instead of cherishing you, if you are cold, it will also make the other party change about you.

Because you are too enthusiastic about the other party, the other party will think that you are too annoying, so if you say it is appropriate to calm down, the other party will think you are cute, this is the psychology of people.

Because the right amount of coldness can make the other party feel that you are not too easy to get, and he will cherish you more.

After he is not easy to get his hands on, he will feel that you are difficult to conquer. This aroused his desire for conquest. Make him impress you even more.

Because this kind of psychological hint of "wanting to catch and indulge" is the most itchy, which can also make the other party cherish you more.