How can you be like this? How do you behave?

Make friends, you must make friends, don't make bad friends.

A man must eat a peck of salt with his friend before he knows him. Such a person is not worthy of being called a friend.

Explain that it is not your friend and don't meet in the future OK

And as before, it's right for you to help people, but you haven't met good people, you can't change your kindness because of some people, there are still more good people than bad people in society, it's better to keep your kindness. I wish you a happy life!

Don't think so much, just be yourself, if you think so much, you won't be able to live, what's the matter, it's enough to be worthy of your conscience! Don't think too much and let others influence you!

Be a standardized person.

The specific meaning is that a person comes to the world, from the sensible, there is a ruler, the ruler in the heart, the measure of others and the measure of themselves, the ruler in the body, the measure of gain and loss, this ruler is called comparison, with life as a reference, measure a measure, a person is modest and proud, frugal and extravagant, glorious and shameful, success and failure, truth, goodness and beauty and false, evil and ugly, are clear at a glance, this ruler is called norms, what can be done, what can not be done, there must be a scale. Life is very short, just the sun in the morning and the sunset in the evening and the spring and autumn of the four seasons.

A person's words and deeds, measure a measure, you can see whether it is in line with moral norms, this ruler is called proportion, to oneself, to others, to the world, should grasp the proportion. If a person's behavior is measured, it can be seen that it is not well grasped whether it is appropriate, moderate, and appropriate. The ruler of life is everywhere, the length is different, it varies from person to person, there are things in the eyes that are narrow in the three worlds, and there is nothing in the heart that is wide in bed.

Life has a ruler, society has a degree, the heart is calm, and the heart is clear.

Your current state is like a frog at the bottom of a well (forgive me for talking like your homeroom teacher), and it is not right to use a narrow sky to summarize your character! You have a good advantage of not being able to talk. You try, you listen, you see.

And don't express your thoughts, it's an ability to wait and see. There was a homeless man who walked into the temple and saw the Bodhisattva sitting on the lotus platform and everyone worshipped, and he was very envious. Tramp:

Can I swap with you?

Bodhisattva: As long as you don't open your mouth.

The homeless man sat on the lotus platform. His eyes were noisy and chaotic all day long, and there were many demanders. He didn't say anything.

One day, a rich man came. Rich man: Ask the Bodhisattva to give me virtue.

Kowtowed, got up, and his wallet fell to the ground. The homeless man was just about to open his mouth to remind, but he remembered the words of the Bodhisattva.

After the rich man left, a poor man came. Poor: Ask the Bodhisattva to give me money.

My family is seriously ill and needs money urgently. Kowtowing, getting up, he saw a wallet fall to the ground. Poor:

The Bodhisattva has truly manifested his spirit. He grabbed his wallet and left. The homeless man wants to say that it is not a manifestation, it is something that someone has lost; But he remembered the words of the Bodhisattva.

At this time, a fisherman came in. Fisherman: Ask the Bodhisattva to give me safety, and there will be no wind and waves when I go out to sea.

Kowtowed, got up, he was just about to leave, but was grabbed by the rich man who came in again. For the sake of the wallet, the two scuffled. The rich man believes that the fisherman has taken the wallet, and the fisherman feels that he has been wronged and cannot tolerate it.

The homeless man couldn't stand it anymore, and he shouted, "Stop! "I told them all the truth.

A dispute subsided.

Do you think that's right?

Bodhisattva: You'd better be a vagabond. You think you are fair, but the poor don't get the money. The rich did not cultivate good virtues, and the fisherman went out to sea to catch up with the wind and waves and died at the bottom of the sea. If you don't speak, poor.

The life of the family was saved; The rich lost a little money, but helped others accumulate virtue; And the fisherman was unable to get on the boat because of entanglement, and escaped the wind and rain, and is still alive.

The homeless man silently left the temple ......

Many things, as they should be, are as they should be. Wait for it to happen naturally, and the results will be better. But when faced with reality, who knows what the outcome of things should look like?

If you are not a bodhisattva, if you don't sit under the Bodhi tree, you can't see the end of the picture. So entangled, so tormented, so painful. As a result, the guidance of Huixin became the reliance in the red dust. Let's take your time and cultivate your mind.

Maybe we're all homeless in the world!

Wait and see what happens, don't want it to be chaotic. That's what people should do.

Be a low-key person, even if you are very good, don't be aggressive, you should be kind to others, help others when you can help people, do things to be high-profile, if you do a good job, after all, you will be found by the leader, and your friends will also look at you differently.

Your attitude determines my temperature.

How do you learn to be a human being? How to learn to make money?

To be scheming, to have principles, to have a sense of responsibility, to have plans and goals, to choose friends, to be honest, to be moderate, to take the start and let go, to be able to work hard, to be open-minded, to know how to give up, to be good at coping with change, to be good at seizing opportunities, low-key life. It's the perfect way to be a human being, but no one can do it all, so I advise you: live the way you like, that's the best!

People are doing it, the sky is watching, and everything is good with a clear conscience.

Be a man with a grateful heart.

1. Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and are unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very negative impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

5. Learn from each other's strengths: learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. When communicating with friends, treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised, and what you hear will be learned.

6. Be concise and concise: conciseness can make people happy, make people like, and make people easy to accept. Verbosity and cumbersomeness will confuse and annoy you, and you will miss your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you do more with less.

7. Never be arrogant: often talk about your strengths and show off your advantages in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

8. Never complain: Complaining will make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things work out.

Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasize objective reasons, complaining about this, complaining about that, will only make others despise you.

9. Don't lie and lose trust: Lying to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, so that friends and colleagues will never believe in you again, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

10. Be far-sighted: When wealth is prosperous, you should think of poverty, which is easy to do. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.

Life is short and long!

According to age, it is divided into many stages, and the most important thing is that each stage has corresponding tasks and things, which need to be done and done well, such a life is a wonderful life!

Some people don't understand this truth and do some things that should not be done at the corresponding stage, for example, some children are in school age, but they don't study well, and they enjoy and play excessively!

When they grow up and understand the truth of studying hard, maybe it's too late, and they miss that time, and they can't regret it!

In addition, no matter what stage of life you are in, you should understand the truth of happiness, if you are unhappy at every stage, such a life is also very painful and bitter!

Happiness is an ability, how to be happy? Different people, different answers.

We should behave in accordance with the principles of being a human being, and do not violate social morality.

You can lack money, but you can't lack virtue;

You can lose your word, but you can't break your word;

You can fall down, but you can't kneel;

You can ask for a name, but you can't steal it;

You can be low, but you can't be depraved;

It is possible to relax, but not to indulge;

It is possible to be vain, but not hypocritical;

It can be ordinary, but not mediocre;

It can be romantic, but it can't be profligate;

It's okay to be angry, but not angry.

It's better to play stupid than to be smart.

It is better to work hard than to be greedy for pleasure.

It is better to pretend to be poor than to flaunt wealth.

It's better to lose than to win.

It is better to suffer a loss than to take advantage of it.

It's better to be mediocre than to be famous.

It is better to be confident than to be blindly pessimistic.

I'd rather be healthy than fame and fortune.

It is better to be diligent than to be idle.

It is better to be paranoid than to give up ideals.

Be kind to others and do things steadfastly! Be humble and discreet! Don't worry about anything! To be a man and do things, you must first be worthy of yourself!

Be a decent person! When you keep the righteousness of heaven and earth, all problems will no longer be a problem!

This is the ultimate philosophical question of!

To be a person worthy of his conscience, of course, there will be things he regrets, but he will not be cheated in this matter next time.

Apologize to the person you bullied for doing good.

This question is worth pondering.

Your attitude determines my temperature.

How do you learn to be a human being? How to learn to make money?

Be a man with a sweet mouth but a ruthless heart.