Personal thoughts about feelings and oneself, about feelings

If you want to change yourself, you must first understand that women must first learn to love themselves! Otherwise, what should you ask for the love of others?

Every woman will go through such a process, and it is right to learn to improve her temperament. For example, reading a book, such as drinking tea, making coffee. Or, the occasional tasting of wine These, in the eyes of those men, are actually synonymous with "charm"!

Get through it, learn wisely, and you'll change. Of course, the temperament is different! If you are still trapped in the previous model, then you will not be able to change for the rest of your life, and you will not be able to grasp the man you love!

Remember, never let the man you care about actually feel like "it's got to be!" "Mystery – sometimes it's really attractive to men!

A friend told me that she broke up with her boyfriend who had been in love for 5 years, and she was also very depressed and troubled at first, thinking that the 5-year relationship was not something that was not there, and then a person told her, 5 years and the next 50 years? Which point do you think is longer, if you think this person is not good, you will score, after all, it can't last longer than the days in the future, right?

I thought maybe I could help you solve your doubts! It's just that in so many comments, it is estimated that it is difficult for you to make a sober choice! If you are interested, you can leave me a message, even if it is to try your luck!

mm, didn't you ask him why he did that to you? You work so hard all day and still look at his face, think about such a man, do you think he is worthy of your love? Even if you get married, will you believe that he is the good husband in your life?

If it's not suitable, you have to find the next target. It's hard to feel after a breakup, but time will slowly make you forget. mm let it go.

It's just my own opinion, and the final decision is up to you, wishing mm happiness. All wishes come true!

First of all, you can find out if he is particularly busy with work, and if so, understand and care about him. Otherwise, you should think about his thoughts, and you can find a time for you to talk about it and find out the cause of the problem. So that you can have a positive judgment on sexuality.

You still need to care more about yourself now, women have to make themselves beautiful, temperamental, and confident, I think yoga is a good choice. Either way, it's not wrong to love yourself a little more.

Men are fickle animals, in fact, three years is enough time for him to hate you, if you really can't give up, don't marry someone you don't love. Under normal circumstances, it is enough to understand a person for half a year, and the rest depends on the child to maintain it!

To be honest, I think your life is already very good, I sit in front of the computer every day, I don't do exercise when I have time, I think your life is already very regular, I don't know why, I read what you wrote, what yoga, jogging, are all what I want but don't have, and you are full of melancholy in the text, I think, first of all, you have to be confident, optimistic, and you can find a quiet place to meet him, talk, ask him what is not going well at work, try to help her solve problems, Maybe it's because he also has a lot of problems at work, since he will get married, it's not that he has no feelings for you, maybe he is also troubled by some things in life, believe in yourself, you are already very good, really, I may be incoherent, but, I wish you happiness.

You said that he was also very busy, maybe he was unhappy at work, after all, life is very stressful right now. He is impatient with you or something because he is upset, you want to change your temperament, you can take a method, you want too much, take some time, take the initiative to care about him, his indifferent response, you can be positive, if you love him, want to be with him for a long time, the relationship needs to be maintained, the human heart is also made of meat, one day he will be moved, or talk to him, just don't keep stiff, this can't solve the problem.

Have a good talk with him, don't have too many secrets between lovers, tell him what you think, and he will understand you.

In addition to jogging every day, practice yoga. It's tiring to work, and you have to work overtime... Your words have already shown that the time is tight enough, and choosing one of yoga and dancing is almost the same. There are many ways to change your temperament, such as reading books. "Full of poetry and books".

Looking at your description of your boyfriend, does he really love you? Ask yourself.

It's quite contradictory, it's really not easy to give up on your three-year relationship, and when you're disappointed in his performance, you can appropriately divert your attention to him, and the relationship needs two people to run together, and one person will be very hard.

Feelings are a thing I can't tell, why bother to listen to other people's opinions, people are your object, and they are not someone else's.

If you like it, just look at each other's strengths and give each other more personal space.

I used to struggle with it, but then I figured it out.

In fact, seeing what you have written so much, you still love him very much, two people together whether they are married or in love are to communicate with each other, in order to know each other's inner world, what they are thinking, and what they desire to get, in fact, men also need women to care about and understand, men are more stressful than women, so there will be mood swings, if you only stand in a personal perspective to think about the problem is very extreme, you have been together for so long, you have feelings, As others say, don't be too compassionate and enthusiastic about men, that's just for individual people, if you're not satisfied with your boyfriend, you won't be together for so long! Your sense of exercise is very good, but don't overwork, find a time, make an appointment with a place where you often date, calm down and chat, and wish you a day to get rid of this distress as soon as possible!

What I like to say the most is: there are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't have to force it. It's that you can't escape, it's not that you can't grab it. Good luck!

Talk to him openly and honestly, and sometimes it's because of a long period of not communicating with each other, and the distance between the two people is getting farther and farther apart......

A woman shouldn't be obedient to a man all the time, and everything is variable until you get married. If he's ruthless, I don't think you need to be too arrogant about him, and it's good for you all to take the chance. You should continue to connect your yoga dance or something.

Cultivating your own temperament will help you develop later. As a successful woman, you can't rely too much on men. Maybe you're going to be sad at first, but trust that time can change everything, and you can live a better life.

Women must first know how to love themselves. If he is cold to you, it means that the relationship has deteriorated, and stop hurting each other.

Feelings are mutual, not a one-person thing, what is the use of you making too many changes but he doesn't care? Let's have a good talk with him, heart-to-heart communication, after all, we have been together for three years, I believe that your relationship can stand the test, I wish you happiness!!

Does he love you? Why would you want to change yourself for him? Feelings are still equal for a long time.

If you want marriage instead of love, then so be it

If you don't meet often, there will always be problems in your relationship, communicate more, don't have too many secrets between each other, it's almost the same, you can't just work your own, feelings are not something that can be established by one person, see what he really thinks!!

As long as you have perseverance and insist on caring for him, one day he will be moved.

Sometimes the separation for a short time is for a longer time!

When you see it, you do it, why not... The Zen language of the Guiyuan poem.

It may be that you are too careful, men, sometimes there are times when you are in a bad mood, you have to understand each other, but women should not be centered on men, you have to have your career, have your own friends, and even your own life.

Relationships need two people to manage together, find a time to talk to him and say what is in your heart.

You have to be decisive in dealing with feelings, if you are cold. Just give up.

Try a different kind of life, and you may meet another man.

The emotions between people are actually really subtle, and the same is true for couples, after all, each other's previous growth and circumstance and living environment are different, and many of the concepts formed may not be the same. After living together, it is easy for you to misunderstand me and I misunderstand you, and when one day each other is tired of explaining, the feelings may be a lot weaker.

Boys always feel that they need time, space and even money, while girls think that being able to know everything about boys at all times is the basis for trust and getting along with each other. I wonder if there is a non-contradiction? I haven't met it for the time being, boys will start to actively move closer to girls, girls always prefer simplicity, and slowly develop love; And boys have been changed by girls, so there is a bottom line that girls can't accept - privacy.

I wonder if there is a basically transparent feeling?

I think the purest thing is that there is really nothing else except the feelings of parents for their children, and the so-called family affection that love has become will always have some purpose. I wonder if there is a very long-lasting love that has no purpose and no purpose?

And call it if you don't care, it's okay, so be it.

You just treat the other party as a kind of spiritual dependence, and there must be feelings, but I just don't know if you love him, so as long as you like it, prevent yourself from doing what you want to do

Don't deliberately think about the real and the fake, the fake will slowly hate it. Choose to leave by yourself. Really, you're done. There will always be a fear of losing. Will be afraid to leave. So don't think that far ahead and cherish the present. Just be happy.

Feelings can't be forced, but if you like each other, then please be cautious about feelings. If you do it, then you benefit from it; If you don't treat it properly, then you will be hurt by it. So I hope you're serious!