For friends, sometimes I m depressed.

You have lost your motivation for a while.

I feel bored, I don't have anything to do, I just want to be by myself.

You can make more friends of the opposite sex.

Make more energetic friends.

Force yourself to go out and participate in some social activities.

Let them influence your life as much as possible, and slowly you will be driven.

It's not good, it's not good for your future, and a good man has to help three people

I think you still want to make good friends in your new school, and sometimes it's a terrible thing to be alone. No matter what, at least you won't feel lonely with you. So I still suggest that you don't be affected by the environment, and you will always meet a confidant in the new environment.

So give someone a chance to get close to you.

Looks like you've shut yourself off! Although everyone has shortcomings, but if you see anyone who doesn't like it now, that's your own reason, what are you worried about? Are you afraid of making a fool of yourself?

Why don't you like anyone? Think they're all not as good as you? Are you so perfect yourself?

Don't keep staring at other people's shortcomings, if you are so picky, you will never have friends in your life, that is a very depressing thing! After all, the computer is dead, and it is better for a living person to help you, give you happiness, communicate with you, skip class with you, talk about the beauty of a certain girl, etc., these are the happiness that only friends can give you. If you want to be lonely for the rest of your life, please continue, otherwise open your heart, learn to tolerate first, and you can make friends if you learn to tolerate, and your life will be different because of friends!

It's very common.

After being separated from friends for a long time, their living environment has also changed, and the common language is naturally reduced.

In addition, everyone is growing, and there will inevitably be more ideas in their hearts.

I think you're going through this stage, maybe you're more sensitive.

In fact, if it's really a friend, it's a lifetime, the environment changes, you change again, the heart for friends doesn't change, people are growing, maybe you become silent, but they're still like that.

If you still want to be friends with them, find an opportunity to communicate with them so that there is no misunderstanding, and if they are friends with you, they will not not understand you.

People don't want to move, they don't want to talk, they don't want to pay attention to people, this is a period of time, it's normal, maybe after a while, you're not so depressed, maybe you want to take the initiative to contact them, you want to open a little, it's not a big deal, it's up to you to deal with it.

You should try to regulate yourself, it's not good to go on like this.

You have to live and don't have to worry too much.

It's normal to be away for too long.

You should be more introverted! Live your life!

When a friend tells you that he is feeling depressed, you need a guide on how to comfort and accompany him. Here are some practical suggestions:

1.Listen and understand: When your friend is feeling blue, the most important thing is to listen to their feelings.

Let them know that you care about their feelings and that you're willing to listen to them. Avoid interrupting or giving overly direct suggestions, and instead use non-verbal behavior to show your concern and support for them.

2.Show concern: Tell your friends that you care about them and are willing to help them through this difficult time. Let them know that you are here, willing to support them, and provide them with the necessary help.

3.Provide support: It is important to provide practical support.

You can ask them what kind of help they need, or you can offer some help. For example, you can invite them to the movies or other activities to help them break the blues.

4.Encourage positive thinking: When your friends feel helpless, they tend to be filled with negative thoughts.

You can encourage them to think positively and find some solutions. For example, you can ask them if there are any ways they can help change their mood, or you can offer some positive advice.

5.Give time: Sometimes, depression takes some time to overcome. You can tell your friends that you will always support them and be willing to give them enough time tremors to overcome this emotion.

6.Encourage professional help: If your friend has been feeling helpless and depressed, you can suggest that they seek professional help. This can be a counseling session or a medication**.

Finally, remember that everyone experiences emotional problems. As a friend, you can provide support and help to let your friend know that they are not alone in this problem.

Dear landlord.

Glad to analyze for you.

Your problem, I laughed at Lu Yun before, and I also encountered it.

Here's my own.

Hope it can help the landlord.

In fact, there are many things that will always be understood after experiencing it, how to protect yourself after the emotional pain, how to persist and give up in a timely manner after being stupid, and we slowly understand ourselves in the gain and loss, and there are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. In fact, life does not need such indifferent attachments, there is nothing that cannot be abandoned. Learn to give up, and life will be easier; Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple figure; Learn to give up and bury yesterday in your heart; Make good memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable, it is not easy to come over the deep and shallow love, gently pull out your hand to say goodbye, you don't have to let yourself be hurt more deeply, every gratitude is very beautiful, every companionship is very intoxicating.

Is it a pity that you can't have it, whether it is missing makes us feel more nostalgic, feelings are not the answer to the questionnaire, the hard pursuit can not make life more complete, maybe a little confused, a trace of sadness, will make this answer sheet longer, put away the mood and go, miss the flower you will harvest the rain, who said that if you like a thing, you must have, sometimes, some people in order to get what he wants, go to the extreme, maybe he got it, but in the process of chasing, What is lost is also incalculable, and the price paid is irreparable, perhaps those costs are heavy.

There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect. There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave.

There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back. Love can be a matter of a moment, or it can be a matter of a lifetime.

Because of love, I leave in vain, and because of love, I give up. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love? A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely.

It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

If my own.

Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

Looking forward to your !!

Then socialize with more people! First of all, you must be good to others, and others will be good to you, and sit with you as friends.

Everyone is unhappy at times, for example, girls will be depressed during their menstrual period, and boys will be irritable after quarreling with their brothers. Some trivial things in life can also affect people's mood. Your friend has been in a bad mood and seems very depressed, it must be because there is something bothering him in his heart, and he hasn't thought about it for a while.

Many times we are afraid to touch the bad emotions of our friends and dare not ask him what is going on, so that they can calm themselves. But often the more they think about it, the more complicated it becomes, and when they start to drill into the horns, they can't think about it even more. If your friend has been depressed for a long time, don't wait until he is alone in his own little world.

So you have to take the initiative to ask him to tell you about his troubles, and then you face the difficulties together. I believe that there is no problem that cannot be solved, but everyone understands the truth, but it takes a certain amount of time to accept the reality. Your friend will always figure it out for himself, you just need to guide him slowly.

Maybe he was reluctant to say it at first, but the pain can be shared, and the happiness can be shared. Let him know that there is much to be happy about, and don't turn a blind eye to the pleasures of life because of the slightest annoyance.

I hope your friend can get out of the depression as soon as possible.

She's the best friend I've been with since college, and we've been roommates together for four years. She was in a bad mood a few days ago because of some relationship with her boyfriend. She and her boyfriend are in a long-distance relationship.

Now we've just graduated, but her boyfriend is still in his senior year of college, they used to be high school classmates, but she repeats her studies for a year.

One of them is now in Hefei and the other is in Shenyang, the distance is relatively far, and they can only meet during winter and summer vacations, and she is an insecure person, so the long-distance relationship is very painful for her. She is also often in a very depressed state, and as a good friend, I can only do my best to enlighten her.

So I think if a good friend is depressed, and you know the cause of depression, but you can't solve it, then let's not always talk about it, we can talk about it, we can also distract her, so that she can get out of the depression faster.

If it's a girl, take her to a place with better scenery to take a leisurely walk, at this time it's easy to express your feelings and talk about your heart.

I think I can enlighten her well at this time, and I can accompany her and chat with her more.

If you're down, find out why you feel so low. There is no such thing in the world as a result for no reason, and there will be no result for no reason. Therefore, only when we know the reason can we improve our mentality.

One thing we can't do when we're feeling down is to leave ourselves alone. It is difficult for a person's mood to change fundamentally because of their own reasons.

Unless you're a good thinker (not to mention an introspective person who sometimes thinks at a fork in the road).

Therefore, at this time, you can't just try to change your emotional state by yourself. On the contrary, friends at this time are very important.

After calming himself down, you can ask him about things, if he doesn't say it, don't force it, sometimes a person needs to calm down by himself. Time has passed, and it will naturally be fine. Don't worry, if you're a friend, you won't get angry because of your little jokes.

Emotions are there when you're in a bad mood! Communicate with each other a lot, slowly ask what happened, and find out what made him so irritable ......I believe that friendship will move each other, and what is needed is patient enlightenment!

Can't find a place to vent. Take him out for a break. It's OK to vent (ps: provided that the source of his anger is not you).

Invite him to drink milk tea, then make small talk, and then gradually get into the topic when he relaxes, and ask him what happened. Then open to his emotions.

If you want to comfort him, you can break the bill and go to a place that has always been cheap and affordable, brother, no matter where it is, the main thing is to drink, and then try to ask him and let him say it You will feel better. The second way is to beat the teacher.,But it's definitely not going to work.,You can find some nails or something to break the teacher's car or something.,Students, don't fight hard with adults.。。

It's normal, just find a place to high.

Don't say anything, just be by his side

It's good for you to comfort him, when he was a student, he had the experience of being called to talk, and it was no big deal.

Go swimming, then take a bath and sauna, then take a hard nap for the day and get up for a hot pot...

Let calm down first, calm down, and be enlightened.

Ignore him and let him be quiet.

It may be menstrual irregularities. Stay up all night on the fire

You should be dissatisfied with the status quo, but you suffer from no solution, or no solution, and at the same time, you yourself don't like to confide in others this feeling, so simply stuffy yourself, so in the eyes of outsiders, your dullness and dissatisfaction will naturally manifest as "melancholy" in their mouths.

I can't say whether this is good or bad, individuals have their own way of living, and other people's evaluations are actually meaningless, I want to say that under the premise that you feel comfortable, turn this uneasy mood for the status quo into expectations for the future - you must know that in fact, there is only a thin line between the two, but the emotional performance is a pessimism and an optimism.

Understand that sighing and sighing will not actually help to change the situation, and at the same time, you should not expect your friends to understand you, let alone confide in them about your depression, because if you are not close enough, it will become a weakness in your social circle.

Friends, to be honest, it's just to eat and have fun together, be happy when you're with friends, and don't bring the emotions in your life into it.