Why does talking about money hurt feelings? Why does it hurt to talk about money?

Because money can easily affect the relationship between two people, too much material or too stingy can lead to the failure of the relationship between two people.

Everyone's money is their own hard-earned money, and to talk about money easily with others is to disrespect the fruits of other people's labor, and no one has the right to steal the fruits of other people's labor.

Because everyone's interests are involved. Everyone is reluctant to give up their own interests, so when it comes to money, feelings are not pure.

This involves the issue that "market norms" and "social norms" are substitutionary rather than complementary. As soon as you talk about money (the brain starts to call on the market to think about problems), the friendship is gone (and the social norms go with it), and it's hard to get it back.

Because of poverty, after all, not everyone lives in a wealthy family, so try to avoid talking about money with anyone.

Because no matter how good the relationship is, you can't help but get the fact that there is no money. Nowadays, everyone needs money to survive in society, and it is very distressing to borrow money and not pay it back or you are borrowed.

Whether it is between friends, lovers, husbands and wives or even fathers and sons, once money is talked about, it is inevitable that there will be embarrassment, disputes, and resentment. Thus destroying the feelings.

You have a good relationship with him, and if he borrows money from you, you will be embarrassed not to borrow and urge him. If he doesn't pay back the money on time, you will be very entangled, and there will be cracks in your relationship.

There will be some selfishness in the relationship. The difference is how much is involved. The more mixed it is, the lower the purity of the feelings; With less inclusion, the purity is relatively high.

Because feelings cannot be replaced by money, you must know that a love is worth a thousand gold, and what you talk about with money is not called feelings, but business.

Because there are too many strange things in people who talk about money. A was a friend I used to think I could make for life (I met in junior high school), but now he is staring at my white strip quota and borrowing it from me every month. When you first asked me to borrow it, it was 3k, okay.

I asked him why, and he said that the borrowing stopped, and I didn't know about it, but I didn't ask much when I saw that he was in a hurry.

In the second month, I asked him why, he said it was not enough, and then I asked him how big the gap was, and he said that he had 10,000 and borrowed again. It's been a few months now, and I've reminded him in advance in the first few months, but it's really hard to speak, and it's been getting more and more delayed in the past two months, and every time I have to urge him on the last day.

After that, I asked him if he had told his parents, and his vague attitude was really ......I didn't think I talked about it, but his parents didn't want to give him money. Then I told him that in front of his parents, the so-called dignity and stubbornness of the child are worthless. At 4 o'clock, he told me for an hour, but when I asked again at 9 o'clock, he said that he would wait until his father scolded him first, and I had to wait until 11 o'clock in the evening.

As a result, he came back from the doctor today and asked me again, I thought he was really looking for his dad at night, so he lent money to my friend C, of course, this is also C understands that there is interest and procedures, A said that his father did not give it to him after scolding, so I borrowed it from a friend, and I only had a 4k white strip withdrawal limit to him. I don't understand the use of being in front of a group of people who have borrowed money from him, and then he still owes money to the party payer.

However, he gave me a feeling of delaying time, but it really hurts not to say it clearly, and it won't die if it is said clearly, is it embarrassing to explain it clearly to my parents? Help it and feel that you are helping to abuse, which credit card white slip has no interest? If you don't help, you feel guilty again.

Mixing money in a relationship can make feelings sour.