Am I doing something inappropriate? What am I really doing wrong?

Updated on educate 2024-05-24
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since they are good friends, it is impossible to be unhappy about such a small matter. If you're upset, ignore you. Then it's okay not to make such friends. (Seems a bit off topic).

    Your question is, is this the right thing to do? It stands to reason that you should put aside what you are doing and give him something. (I don't think it's important to have something in my hands.)

    But something like this has already happened. Is there any remedy? Find a time to explain. Excuse me, but tell me about the situation. , you can also hit a **. Say it.

    If it's a good friend, everyone laughs it off. This is just a minor misunderstanding.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    To be honest, since he gave you the first **, it proves that he really treats you as a buddy.

    We are thinking about it from his standpoint:

    He first came to you when he needed help, mainly because in his opinion, you would definitely help him when he needed it. But if you refuse, of course he will be angry and think that you can't help me when I need help.

    Then you tell him you can help him. But at that time, he had already asked the dormitory staff to help deliver it to him.

    But in his heart, "At that time, you didn't help him at the first time." It's a sign that you're not aware enough. It's not worth it for him to treat you as a friend. ”

    So now you'd better let him know that you really couldn't leave that day, but I was afraid that he would be in a hurry, so I called him again, and he had already sent him away. Tell him, it's not good to be conscious, and if there is anything in the future, I will be the first to help you with any big things.

    If you don't know how to speak, send him a text message.

    Don't let your friendship fade for the sake of face!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Rushed to the doctor. The first thing to think of is that you believe in you.

    If you don't do it, forget it. In the future, if you can help in such a situation, you can help.

    After all, games can't be eaten. Friendship is a lifelong thing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's really not good, he thought that you were treating you as a friend when he was in a hurry, and he found a chance to explain, and remember to help if he had something in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Human. Helping is a favor, not helping is reasonable, there is nothing wrong with it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The landlord is right. The boy and the landlord's father, among others, have a serious lack of awareness of "boundaries". When you meet for the first time, the boy who doesn't treat himself as an outsider will not respect the landlord.

    In addition, the character of the introducer and the boy is not good, even if you don't get along, you also arrange people or something. If these words can reach the ears of the landlord, it is a sign of disrespect.

    Suggestion: The landlord should be glad that the negotiation was not completed, and the boy who does not know how to respect women is not worth dating.

    The landlord should also be self-confident and not easily deny himself because he is "criticized".

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're not wrong, he's not wrong, it's just that he cares too much about your behavior, too much.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Some people are like that, and they don't need to be too careful!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1. It's all good, it's okay! Upstairs upstairs, aren't you arguing with the teacher like this?

    Run for class president. Today, I am honored to be here to run for class president. I served as a class president in junior high school and have some experience, so I am confident that I can be qualified for the position of class president, and I will lead by example, correct my own shortcomings, and become a good role model for my classmates and a good helper for teachers!

    In order to be a good squad leader, I have listed the following points:

    1. Being a class leader should not only have good grades, but also lead the whole class to improve their grades.

    2. Be enthusiastic about helping your classmates around you!

    3. For those students who encounter difficulties in learning, we should teach patiently.

    4. Respect the opinions or ideas of classmates, and use democratic voting to make decisions in the class.

    5. Assist the teacher to manage the class, share the teacher's worries, and make the teacher easier!

    6. Be responsible.

    7. Everything is in the interests of the class!

    8. Listen to the good suggestions of your classmates and learn from each other's strengths!

    9. If you make a mistake, you must correct it in time, and learn a lesson to ensure that you will not make mistakes again in the future!

    I believe that I will perform well in the position of class leader! I hope you will give me a chance to play to my strengths! Make a contribution to the class!

    Thank you! It's clear you're saying the wrong thing! Saying this will make you think you are very contrived and pretending to be humble! People nowadays are more like narcissism! Especially after the 8090s, narcissism has become a fashion! Let's be narcissistic!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are too many words "I" and "myself" in this speech, which is easy to appear self-centered and not conducive to the election. Tell us more about the interests of your classmates.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The ending is not good, it should be blessed for everyone to enjoy, and I will carry it if there is difficulty.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Based on the situation you described, my opinion is as follows:

    1.Asking him to take the shuttle bus this time does show that he has changed in the way he pursues, which is more casual and soothing. But that doesn't necessarily mean that his feelings or how much he values you have changed.

    It may be that because you have become more familiar, you can choose a more relaxed and natural mode of transportation.

    2.Whether you should be angry or not is a combination of other factors. For example, whether he is still attentive in other aspects, and whether he often expresses his concern for you through the rock shack, etc., can support his true attitude.

    If it's just this time that changes and everything else remains the same, then anger may seem a bit sensitive and over-interpreted.

    3.But if this is just the beginning, and he shows a lack of interest in many ways and is no longer as proactive as he was at the beginning, then it is understandable that you will be angry and worried. Because it may mean that his feelings have changed, and his enthusiasm for you is no longer as high as it used to be.

    4.Ideally, you would be able to communicate directly with him. Express your doubts about this change and ask him to explain and clear up.

    If his explanation is too perfunctory and unconvincing, then it is necessary for you to express your emotional needs and make him clear about your bottom line and expectations. Also give yourself a clear basis for judgment.

    5.Either way, it may be too early to be angry about this change. Because the current evidence is not enough to prove that Sakura has changed radically in his feelings.

    But you need to be sensitive to the subsequent treatment and attitude, which can show his true side. If there is a change that is unacceptable to you, communication may be the best way to solve the problem.

    To sum up, my advice is: don't deliberately get angry or angry because of this change, but don't take it lightly and watch his subsequent performance closely. If it really doesn't feel right, proper communication can avoid a lot of unnecessary misunderstandings and make your feelings respected, which is a very important ability in building a relationship.

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