Don t worry about your mother in law taking care of your children? Mother in law and mother with a b

What do the current parents-in-law and mother-in-law say about them Say that they are young and selfish Don't understand their hatred You say that they are less than 60 Even a child can't do something I do in my family The old woman is annoyed to death every day except for eating and can't do personnel I really feel for her in vain You let your mother take it and then give more money to bring it to the age of 3 and send it to kindergarten.

Hehe. You're okay, I quit my job to stay at home with the kids for six years. Otherwise, let him raise your mother and son, and go out to work when he is older, but he will spend more money on the children.

If you don't bear with it, after all, it's his grandson, and he won't go hungry or lose it with him, so he can rest assured that he will ask a nanny.

It's because you love your son deeply, and your mother-in-law has raised your husband so much, how can you say that you won't take children. Pampering is not a child, it will only cultivate the cowardice of the child.

Every grandparent loves their grandchildren, but the way they show it is different, and there is a time, you can empathize with it, for example, if they can take care of my husband so well, they will definitely be able to make my children live well.

Recently, I found out that the baby was brought to the mother-in-law, and I am really getting more and more at ease!

Like thousands of mothers in the world, they were not at ease at the beginning, and even some did not want to bring them to their mothers-in-law, and they always felt that they would separate the feelings of trembling between themselves and the baby, and the elderly would not understand the baby's crying intentions in time.

But it is really only after tasting this "sweetness" that you will find that giving the baby to your mother-in-law is simply a matter of benefiting others and yourself! All right!!!

When the baby was ten months old, I started to look for a job, and it went well, and it took a little more than a week for me to start working.

It can be regarded as an unintentional willow in the shade, I studied science and engineering I actually worked in the hospital, and when I received the notice to work, I called my mother **, I said to work in the hospital, I heard my dad yell, "Work in the hospital!" I'm sweeping the floor."

Before getting ready to go to work, I was worried, and I wanted to make money from work and wanted to take care of the baby by myself.

When I was looking for a job, I felt guilty and felt like I had abandoned my baby.

When I started to work, I was anxious and worried about my mother-in-law taking the baby.

When I went to work for a month, I was smiling, and my mother-in-law was not bad.

When I went to work for two months, I was overjoyed, and my mother-in-law took me better than me.

When I went to work for three months, I was satisfied, someone had a baby, and I could earn money at the same time.

Mother-in-law is not obligated to help you with the child; Of course, you are not obliged to follow her orders and be a housewife.

I always believe that a woman must have the ability to be financially independent at all times, which is the confidence that you can talk to your husband and in-laws on an equal footing.

If your mother-in-law is not willing to help you with the children and has no other helper, then you have two options.

One is to find a job close to home and use your salary to hire a babysitter on the day shift. Even if you're paid as much as the nanny, let yourself out. Only in this way will you not be out of touch with the world, and you will not give your in-laws the opportunity to point their nose and say that their son is raising you.

And, typically, very few jobs are eight hours at full capacity, and going to work is easier than with children.

However, the nanny is a stranger after all, for the safety of the child, you can install monitoring equipment at home, and you can also take time to see how well she takes care of the child when she goes to work.

If you can't find a suitable job or want to be with your child when he is three years old, you can stay at home. But I suggest that while you are taking care of your children, while your children are sleeping or playing by themselves, do some freelance work that can be carried out at home, such as self-employment, or micro-business, or carry out some knowledge reserves, such as certification or learning to write, so that children can return to the workplace smoothly after kindergarten. Although this is a little harder, at least it will not make yourself a pure "housewife".

The world is changing fast. After a few years, whether it is employment prospects or the relationship between husband and wife, it is an unpredictable variable, so you must have the ability to protect yourself and your children.

There is one thing that a woman has to remember at all times, you are "yourself" first, and then "mom" and "wife".

There is a good saying, even if you are a brother, you have to settle accounts clearly, no matter how good the relationship of a family is, once the interests are involved, then it is easy to have all kinds of contradictions. Many people will think that since everyone is a family, then don't care too much about money, because if you care too much, you will feel that you are an outsider, which is not good.

But what does it mean to be a family? Some people say that it is a family with parents and brothers, and some people say that after a woman gets married, her in-laws' family, her mother's family and her new home are also a big family.

As the saying goes, a family doesn't talk about two families, but if you can't achieve a bowl of water, then it will easily affect the marriage and make it difficult for the marriage to continue.

In real life, as long as many couples are about money, they will be clearly divided between the Chu River and the Han world. If husband and wife are overly concerned about the gains and losses of interests, it is most likely to hurt the feelings between husband and wife.

It has been 6 years since he and Jin Han were married, and some time ago they had just given birth to their second child in confinement, which was originally a happy thing, but the husband and wife were very unhappy because of financial problems.

In fact, in my simple heart, I think that I am married, my mother-in-law's family, and my mother's family are all a family, and I must have a bowl of water for the parents of both parties, otherwise there will be many unnecessary contradictions. But since Shan Shan got married, her husband's various behaviors have always made Shan feel that he has never taken his parents to heart.

When she gave birth to her first child, her mother-in-law knew that she was pregnant, and she was very happy and volunteered to come and take care of her after giving birth. But later, after learning that she gave birth to a daughter, her mother-in-law's attitude changed 180 degrees, and she didn't even want to stay to take care of the simple mother and daughter.

At that time, I simply saw my mother-in-law's attitude, and I didn't expect her to stay and take care of her confinement. But what I didn't expect was that when the husband gave his mother-in-law 10,000 yuan, he asked his mother-in-law to stay and take care of the simple confinement, and the mother-in-law took the money without hesitation. Although he stayed, he didn't take much care of the simplicity, and these grievances have always accumulated in the simplicity of his heart.