How to improve the attractiveness of a woman after marriage

After getting married, I saved the extra money to eat with friends, and I didn't dare to buy the things I usually wanted to buy after I got married, after all, there are old and young, and if you still spend money like before, it will directly affect the normal life of the family.

There are two main reasons why a woman becomes thrifty, women have a natural sense of responsibility for the family, and are more willing to pay for the family than men, and most women have the spirit of dedication, dedication to their feelings, and automatically put their needs to the back.

In fact, there is a subconscious reason, hoping to let men see their dedication to the family through thrift, and subconsciously shape the image of their good wife and mother to please men. There are a bunch of such women around me, no matter how sensitive their economic situation is, they are generally not too happy to buy things for themselves, but they don't blink their eyes when they buy things for their husbands and sons.

Let's talk about men, they are also good to their wives, they buy things for their wives, and many times they will hide the real **, because if they let their wives know that it is very expensive, most men will hear a bunch of complaints from their wives. So sometimes I just buy cheap ones.

After getting married, keep accounts.

No matter at any time, I think bookkeeping is a very important project, after forming a small family, whether the consumption concept of two people is the same, what are their respective consumption items, as the person who manages the financial power must be aware of it, so what kind of channels can it be achieved?

That is, of course, bookkeeping, through bookkeeping, to understand the consumption habits and consumption items of two people, and then to run-in, to form a unified view of consumption, this is the most important thing.

Remember to plan your money wisely! Not only must you know the family's assets well, but also learn to plan your money reasonably, what actions you need to take after getting the money, what the money is used for, what channels are used, and you must have a reasonable plan, not to live with money, let alone to consume as you like.

I know several women like this, they are all mothers of two children around 35 years old, they are also considered characters in the workplace, work and family are not wrong, they grasp the eldest child to learn to manage the children's food and clothing, and they are rigorous in their work, and their qualifications and titles are not left behind, etc., I found that they all have such characteristics:

1.Energetic, quick and active, they all have consistent physical activity.

2.Do things in a planned way, and all plans are planned in your mind.

3.The daily schedule will be very regular and very self-disciplined.

4.The character is decisive and quick to do things, and the execution is particularly strong. Just do it, do it, never procrastinate.

5.Don't worry about it, don't be informal, understand it in your heart, grasp the big and not the small, have a cheerful personality, love to laugh and talk.

6.There is a strong family support backing, such as the elderly, the nanny, and the husband.

Married women must work hard to improve themselves, no matter in which aspect, the cognition is very good! Secondly, taking care of children for two years is out of touch with society, and being so focused on only taking a baby is also a traditional woman. Bringing a baby is a technical job, bitter and tiring but happy. Here's a few suggestions for the questioner:

1.When cultivating the habit of regular life in children, they should also arrange it well, go to bed early and get up early.

3.Rationally take the baby, don't carry it on your back at any time, you also need to learn.

4.Learn to do things in a coordinated way, such as preparing breakfast for the next day before going to bed, picking and washing vegetables to complete ...... in a certain time gapGenerally, housework experts will actually use the overall planning method.

5.Waking up two hours earlier than your child is not the best time to learn, so choose the content or skills or academic qualifications to learn, and sit in the study with books and study seriously. It is also necessary to have a plan and complete a part of the content on a continuous basis every day.

6.Also dress well when you are at home with your children.

7.Get rid of bad habits, such as eating or resting irregularly, procrastinating on things, and so on.

8.When tidying up the room or cooking, you can choose to follow the drama without being too brainy. Don't dedicate the whole block of time to sitting and chasing dramas.

9.There are many ways to learn, reading and listening to books, and learning to use fragmented time in the Internet era.

10.A mobile phone is a good tool, but use it well, don't be swallowed up by the large amount of information on your phone, and don't indulge in swiping the screen and swiping Tik Tok.

11.Don't forget to communicate and contact with relatives and friends, and often find opportunities to meet and make contact.

12.Always pay attention to the work you are good at, and learn to prepare for the return to work at any time.

13.Get family support, find someone you are interested in or good at to strengthen your studies, and give your child to your family on weekends to go out with friends or learn something.

Remember, only by constantly learning and consciously arranging your life will you maintain strong energy, thinking and strong adaptability. In this case, it doesn't matter if you are married or not, if you are at home or not, if you are not working! Continuous learning and self-improvement is also the best role model for children!

Only if you are good, everything will be good!

Keep it fresh. After getting married, you can also create romance in a timely manner, and life is not just about firewood, rice, oil, and salt, but also to maintain spiritual communication and be a spiritual family.

After marriage, a woman must not be lazy with herself, she must show her charm as she did before marriage, be financially independent, and dress herself in appearance every day.

You can focus on dressing up yourself, and improve your thinking, so that your knowledge is richer, which may be more attractive.

You can also let yourself get some internal improvement, pay attention to the delicacy of your appearance, make yourself versatile, and you can enhance your charm.

First of all, we should not give up our skincare, and secondly, we should also go to the gym from time to time, and we should also go to the beauty treatment.

Many women will have a concern after getting married: "Will he see all my bad and stop loving me?" Will he change his mind after I become a yellow-faced woman?

Wait, in fact, if he can marry you, it means that he must really love you, otherwise why would he marry you home? We women must know how to manage ourselves after marriage, so as to maintain the freshness of love. So let's take a look at where we can start.

The first is: don't complain. People say that complaining is a common problem for many girls, especially after having a baby after marriage, the husband will always have some things that are not satisfactory, so he wants to vent his complaints, so he becomes a verbose aunt.

In fact, I believe that most girls don't like to complain, but how did they unconsciously become such people? So no matter what happens to us or what happens, we should not always complain about it, but we should think about how to solve it, and women should seek more help from their husbands, and don't be reckless in everything, so that your husband will have a more "needed" feeling.

If sometimes you can't do it alone, you can ask for help from your husband and children together, sometimes the feeling of sharing housework together as a family is actually quite good, not only can you get closer to each other's hearts, but this is also a very good way to teach your children, what do you think?

The third point is to learn to be a "cheeky" woman, in every love, often in the end, the relationship pays more is almost a woman, life will inevitably encounter some misunderstandings that lead to their own injury, he will inevitably say some bad things when quarrelling, or do something that makes you feel unhappy, but after unraveling, you know that this is just a misunderstanding.

So at this time, most women will have a pimple in their hearts, in fact, they are already lovers, no one is perfect, we as women do not want to hold grudges, at this time we must be a "cheeky" woman, if it is really unbearable, you can let him wash the dishes for a week or kneel on the washboard or the like, in order to alleviate the inner dissatisfaction, the unhappiness must be vented at that time, do not pile up in the heart, so that you can make yourself happy, so that life becomes a little fun.

In fact, if a married woman wants to become attractive, she does not necessarily dress up every day like when she was young, dressing herself up with cosmetics and all kinds of beautiful and bright clothes, but should pay more attention to improving her heart, and find how to get along with her husband and children in the most correct and comfortable way, these little things in life can make herself more attractive.

How's it going, have you learned?

Don't pay attention to your own image, because appearance is also the first impression of others judging us, we must maintain a neat image, it is best to learn to wear light makeup, so that it will be more attractive.

First, we should pay attention to maintaining nutrition, second, we should pay attention to sleep, third, we should often go to some beauty and skin care institutions for maintenance, so that we can maintain a bright state, and fourth, we should often buy beautiful clothes for ourselves and dress ourselves up fashionably.

After marriage, you must not lose your interests and hobbies, you must have your own career, keep in touch with your friends, you can learn yoga, and exercise regularly, so that you can be as attractive as you were before marriage.