Love is hard, and it s even harder to love someone who loves you?????????

Of course it's hard It's possible that you love him and he doesn't love you. It's more likely that he loves you and you don't. …And love has to stand the test. Although it is difficult to love someone, you should still find someone who loves you (or someone you love).

If you're willing to do it, there's nothing hard about it.

Give up if you find it difficult!

First, keep yourself. In love, we always unconsciously change ourselves, not that it is not good not to change ourselves, but in love, we are always a little blind to change ourselves. We always suffer from gains and losses in love, always afraid that the other party does not love us enough, and always worry that we are not good enough to be worthy of the other party.

Therefore, we slowly change ourselves, and we no longer like the other person who liked us at the beginning, and we also become unaware of ourselves. Because of love, sometimes it makes people so blind and unconscious.

There is a friend who has become more and more cautious after falling in love, because her boyfriend is jealous, so she took the initiative to cut off contact with all her friends of the opposite sex, and she is tired of being with her boyfriend every day except for work. Without her own life, without her own social circle, after the hot love period, her boyfriend felt that she had no life of her own, no freshness, and it didn't take long for the two to separate. It is necessary to make certain changes for each other in love, but this change should be based on getting better and better, rather than blindly losing oneself.

Each of us needs love, and we also need to be ourselves, and how to assert ourselves in love is not an easy thing.

Second, maintain trust in a person. Both parties in love must have trust, but when your trust is betrayed again and again, it will be difficult to trust someone again. Especially when the other party regards your trust as something that hurts you again and again, and you are disappointed again and again, the protection mechanism makes you start to stop trusting him, and you will lose trust in more people around you, reducing the credibility of the other party's words.

Sadly, if trust is lost in a relationship, the relationship will soon "end".

Third, ask the other party to change. You may be constantly changing in a relationship, but it is extremely difficult when you ask the other person to change with you and become better and better. Because the change required by objective factors can never achieve the effect brought about by subjective factors.

In love, I want to give each other a better life, but I don't have the ability to do things that make me feel very difficult.

Many times I have worked hard, but the other party is still not satisfied, and still feels that I am not good enough, which makes me feel that it is very difficult.

I think it's especially difficult to communicate well with the other person. Because if you want to go to the other person's heart, you have to communicate slowly and know the other person's thoughts.

For example, I don't know how to deal with and deal with things at my lover's house, and I have a headache when I think about it, and it often affects my relationship with my lover.

In love, the most difficult time is when two people have conflicts, because if two people can't solve each other's problems as soon as possible, then it is easy to break up.

It should be that it is very difficult to maintain a relationship when you are in a different place, because you will be insecure, and you will not be able to experience it.

The hardest thing for me in love is that two people clearly love each other, but their parents don't agree to be together.