Would you give a gift to a teacher Is it okay to give a gift to a teacher?

Of course it will, after all, it is his own teacher, and for the New Year's holiday, no matter how much money it is, you can get your heart when you arrive. Besides, what did the teacher work so hard for? Isn't it just so that students can be admitted to the university of their choice?

Now that I'm working, I sometimes go to see my teachers and buy gifts to express my feelings.

Yes, the teachers are very hard.

I will send, this year's Teacher's Day because I am in the field, specially called ** to my best friend to ask her to send flowers to my teacher, although the flowers have been thanked for less than a week, but I think this flower will never be thanked in the teacher's mind

If conditions do not allow, you can send some blessing messages during the festival.

It depends on what kind of teacher it is, and you can send which one you like! Use mine, I just applied.

Yes, it's just graduation, and there will be a message on the holiday.

Send a good grade and good wishes to the teacher!

Yes, but it depends on what kind of teacher it is.

Yes. Respect for the teacher's will.

Yes, the teacher deserves my respect, not necessarily a holiday, I will send it, and I usually call ** and send a message.

I thought about it, but I didn't have it all this time, so I was sad.

No, but I will visit them.

When I was in school, I would give a small gift, and I graduated with a clockwork message for the holidays.

Yes, gifts can be given to teachers in different ways, in different forms, etc., but let the teacher know whose mind and name it is.

1. Don't give too expensive gifts, it will seem too utilitarian, most of them will be rejected by the teacher, and it will be a burden to yourself. The ** of the gift is not the main determining factor, and some of the gifts made by themselves are particularly touching to the teacher.

2. Remember to remove the price card and the store's bag, no matter how inexpensive the gift itself is, it is best to wrap it in wrapping paper, and sometimes the subtle places can show the heart of the giver.

In order to correct the unhealthy trend of teachers taking advantage of their positions to accept gifts and money from students and parents in violation of regulations, the following provisions are hereby made:

1. It is strictly forbidden to ask for or accept gifts, money, valuables, payment vouchers and other property from students and parents in any way.

2. It is strictly forbidden to participate in banquets arranged by students and parents that may affect the examination and evaluation.

3. It is strictly forbidden to participate in travel, fitness and leisure activities arranged and paid for by students and their parents.

4. It is strictly forbidden to allow students and their parents to pay or reimburse expenses that should be borne by teachers or their relatives.

Parents should not give "gifts" to teachers on Teacher's Day, you are "harming teachers" and yourself.

Many parents have this mentality, "What if other parents give gifts to teachers on Teacher's Day, and I don't give them to teachers, and teachers don't pay attention to my children, and their academic performance can't catch up?" Thus, unhealthy tendencies were formed.

The specific reasons why parents give gifts to teachers.

Why do some parents give gifts to teachers? There are two main reasons for giving gifts to teachers, on the one hand, parents take the initiative to give gifts to teachers, and on the other hand, teachers ask for gifts.

An important reason why parents take the initiative to give gifts to teachers is that parents lack a sense of security.

Or have a people-pleasing personality.

I am worried that my children will not be better cared for. For example, if you want teachers to arrange better seats for your children, or parents are worried about naughty children and are often interviewed by teachers and delay their work, or they are worried that their children are younger, weaker, more cowardly, and angry at school.

Some parents may have encountered similar situations in their lives, for example, because they did not give gifts to their bosses, they were not treated fairly, or because they gave gifts to their bosses, they were treated well by their leaders, etc., and their parents' life experiences led him to conclude that only by giving gifts to his boss can he be recognized and treated well by others.

The second is when the teacher asks the parents for gifts. Such a teacher may verbally imply that parents need to give gifts, such as before the holidays, or before assigning seats to students. Such teachers are generally problematic in character and unprincipled.

After the parents give gifts.

After parents give gifts, they are comfortable thinking that teachers will treat their children as they imagined, but this is actually a misunderstanding. There is a saying in China that eating other people's mouths is short, taking other people's hands is short, and teachers who accept gifts from parents will inevitably treat children well, even if children make some mistakes or encounter some troubles, teachers will not go to the depths of research, let alone communicate deeply with parents. If the child is not a good child, then the teacher is embarrassed to criticize the child, and even embarrassed to reflect the child's true situation with the parents, so that for a long time, the teacher's management of the child is superficial perfunctory, not really responsible, the child's problems not only exist and can not be solved, if the student knows that the teacher's "preferential treatment" to himself is because of the reason for giving gifts to the teacher, it will become more intensified, and even more difficult to manage.

The vast majority of teachers prefer children with good grades, especially those who excel in character and academics. If the child's grades are very poor, after the family gives gifts to the teacher, the parents and teachers can only take more care of the child, and will not put forward too high learning requirements for the child.

To send it or not?

So, I don't think parents need to give gifts to teachers. Because giving or not giving a gift doesn't change anything. Gift-giving not only increases the financial burden of parents, but more importantly, has a negative impact on children's spiritual growth, so it is recommended that parents pay attention to choosing teachers with good character when choosing schools and classes for their children.

Because the influence of a teacher's conduct on children is crucial, even for a lifetime, we often say that students are especially like class teachers, which is not unreasonable.

Of course, I also hope that teachers can improve their moral cultivation and professional cultivation, refuse to accept gifts, treat students equally, and have love for students. Teachers can only constantly enhance their self-cultivation.

Every year as soon as school starts, the holidays are approaching, or before the exam, 90% of parents must have such a puzzle: "Should we give their children greetings to teachers, whether to let teachers more."'Take care'Under their own children? There may even be parents who are anxious: "Do you want to give a gift to the teacher?" ”

The head of the regiment happened to see a questionnaire survey conducted by Chongqing Youth Daily today, specifically discussing whether parents should give gifts to teachers. For this problem, although parents do not know how much the substantive role of gift-giving is, the general view is that "at least there is no harm" ......

Should I give a gift to the teacher?

More than half of the parents said they had "sent".

This topic, which was not a problem at all, is now a big problem. Recently, a parent had a discussion on this issue in his community. Some parents complained: "The child is still in kindergarten, and the gifts given by parents to teachers are two or three thousand a year." ”

Unexpectedly, a complaint resonated with the neighbors, and many parents said that they could only follow the trend helplessly, some swore that they would not send it, and some said that it depended on the situation, "A little caution can still be expressed." ”

It seems that "whether to give gifts to teachers" is indeed a topic that parents can't avoid today.

Chongqing Youth Daily once conducted an online questionnaire survey on this issue, and from the more than 1,000 survey samples of Shi Shusui, we can actually get a glimpse of most parents' views on this issue.

According to the survey results, the respondents said that their families had given gifts to their children's teachers, and the phenomenon of parents giving gifts to teachers was very common, and there were very few families around them who did not give gifts to teachers.

In the survey, the respondents chose stored value consumption cards such as shopping cards for gifts to teachers, while the respondents chose more traditional tobacco and alcohol products, and some even chose to give cash red envelopes directly ......

Does Gifting a Teacher Really Work?

Although the majority of parents in this survey believe that they have given gifts to teachers, another phenomenon that makes people laugh and cry is that the respondents admit that they don't know if it has played a role, but at least it will not hurt.

The reason why I gave gifts to teachers was because of my respect for the old teacher, but when I grew up, I understood a truth, gifts are exquisite, and the results of Jie's expression are different. Let's take a look at what you need to know about gifting a teacher.

After the arrival of the school season in September, many parents are also "worried", because it is about to be "Teacher's Day". In order to affirm the contribution of teachers to the cause of education, the Teachers' Travel and Observation Festival also came into being. In this festival, it is natural to celebrate the festival for the teacher.

In fact, it is not difficult to find a solution to such a problem, and the parents of a class raise money to buy a small gift for the teacher, which can not only make the teacher feel happy, but will not leave any student behind. In addition, teachers actually hope that they can reduce the burden of their work more than these gifts.

I've also struggled with the question of whether to give a gift to a teacher or not. A friend suggested that they give gifts to teachers every year, which is really useful. I also talked to my husband, do I want to send or charge some phone bills?

His opinion is resolutely not sent. He thinks that teachers don't teach children equally. Why do we need to nurture this bad atmosphere?

Because I know that reality also has real problems, I don't want to go here. But after the child was in private school, he really didn't send anything to the teacher. The tuition of the private school itself is also expensive, and the teacher also takes good care of every child in the class, so there is no need to send it, right?

On Teacher's Day, a parent picked a very beautiful pot of flowers with his child and brought it to school. At that time, I was particularly moved, this is of great significance, and I can't help but accept it. After that, also out of gratitude, I often ordered cakes from her house.

Some parents will send a watermelon in the summer and a fried chestnut with sugar in the winter. The food to be eaten is shared with the children in class. At the same time, let the children learn to share and be grateful, and more importantly, thank the aunt for her gifts.

After I went to work in the township, some grandfathers and grandmothers said that it was not easy for me to leave home to work and cook, so I had to send some vegetables that I had grown. In the past few years, I am also very grateful and grateful for their simple and sincere support. No other gifts and red envelopes will be accepted.

Sometimes it is necessary to give the child a make-up lesson separately, and the parents have to give it. I clearly told him that our make-up classes are all free and will not be accepted. Once, a parent quietly charged me with a phone bill, and returned a red envelope to him from WeChat.

Later, he bought a gift for his child. There is also a parent who has just returned from out of town this year. After signing up for the child, I scanned the code and transferred 300 yuan to me, and I explained it many times and returned it without receiving it.

I had no choice but to reduce 300 yuan from the tuition fee in the fall, which was equivalent to paying her back. It is not easy for everyone to make money, and when they meet their children, parents are fate. Regardless of whether you give a gift or not, you should treat everyone equally and do your best to guide you.