What does it feel like to have money when you don t have it?

Among our vast mortals, this crowd can be seen everywhere, and it is commonly known as a sentence, slapping a swollen face and becoming fat. This kind of person has no mentality, and he is not necessarily a bad person, his heart is not necessarily bad, he loves face.

In my opinion, having money is similar to decorating and maintaining. It is easy for a person to pretend to be cultivated for one day, but it is difficult to pretend to be cultivated for a lifetime, but if he can do it, he is a truly cultivated person.

It's a "last resort" mentality. Therefore, people who are financially constrained are unwilling to lose face in front of many people whose living conditions are better than their own, and grit their teeth and stick to do things that they don't want to do or that are difficult to do. In fact, there is really no need to support it so much, especially young people whose families are not wealthy and are supported by their parents, stay away from those snobs, and spend their energy on studying hard and struggling, so that their inner strength will be stronger, and their lives will get better and better.

No matter how realistic society is, it is always the lazy and incompetent who starve to death. There is nothing wrong with being poor, but if the poor are hypocritical, and the poor are as vulnerable as paper tigers, then it is wrong.

Some people have low self-esteem because they are poor, they are afraid of being looked down upon, and the more inferior they are, the more they want to pretend. So they won't let people know about his family status easily, and they will even hide the truth about the family. For example, in order to find a partner with better conditions, they do not hesitate to harm the reputation of their relatives.

There was once a man who was admitted to a provincial key university from a poor mountainous area, and then found a good job in the provincial capital, and later met a rich daughter, who lied that his parents were dead in order to make the woman's family look good. Although he successfully married his wife, he was tormented in pain every day, and he lived a miserable life.

People like this should be people who want to save face, with strong self-esteem, and often lack something, the more afraid people will know, they are very sensitive in their hearts, and it can be said that such people are also very inferior in their hearts.

I've seen people who don't have money and pretend to be rich, they are all very flamboyant, pretending, thinking that if they have money, they will do anything, but in fact, they definitely don't have money in their own hands.

Slapping a swollen face and becoming fat, there are also people who say that they will die to save face and suffer crimes. It's both pitiful and pathetic. Pity is that the external conditions are not good, and the sad thing is that self-confidence is not given by others.

This kind of person just wants to save face, suffer sin, slap a swollen face and become fat, can only be said to be very pitiful. This kind of person lives a very selfless life, a choice for people who cannot escape the prejudices of the world, and lives a very tired, very hard, and very miserable life.

First of all, let's talk about the poor people who love to pretend to be rich, mainly because of the following aspects: First, they have a good face. The poorer you are, the more you are afraid that others will not like you, look down on you, and marginalize yourself, the more you have to put on the appearance of a rich person, so that people don't despise yourself, and the second is that you have backbone.

Some people are also very poor, but the poor are on the outside, the wealth is in the spirit, the poor are so strong that they have the backbone and spirit, and they don't want to be looked down upon, obviously, it is not the same thing as loving face. The third is to emphasize righteousness. He is very poor, but he never treats others badly, and he is very righteous.

When others are in trouble, they will do their best to help. Fourth, there is morale. Don't let poverty bother you all day long, but constantly cheer yourself up, boost your morale, and slowly, you will really become rich.

Let's look at the rich people who love to pretend to be poor. The reasons include: First, I am afraid of revealing my wealth.

I always feel that there will be trouble after revealing wealth, which will lead to some unexpected trouble. Therefore, if you can not show your wealth, you will not show your wealth. Second, they are afraid of borrowing money.

Some rich people do encounter some relatives and friends who come to borrow money or something at every turn, and after borrowing money, they never mention repaying it. Therefore, it is very troublesome, it is better to let yourself not be "rich". The third is a low-key person.

Some people are low-key by nature, no matter how rich they are, they don't show off, but regard themselves as ordinary people and people without money.

Because those who have money are afraid that others will worry about their money, and those who have no money are afraid of being looked down upon by others!

Money is a very strange thing, the more money you have, the more money comes, and the more you don't have money, the more away from you.

The more money people have, the more they have to pretend to be rich, which will have unexpected effects.

Everyone has a tendency, that is, they are willing to associate with powerful people. This is actually a natural attribute of animals.

In the past, an old man said that a ragged man named Hanako would attack him when he went to anyone's door, so Hanako was equipped with a dog-beating stick.

And a person in a suit and leather shoes, the dog generally does not take the initiative to attack him, which is probably the legendary dog eyes look at people and look down on people's idiom**.

In life, no one will check how much you have deposited, but only look at what you look like. Whether the fiber is beautiful.

I remember that in a show, a female singer told her own story.

She had disappeared for a few years. The reason is to "enjoy the blessings"!

She married a "rich man", but this rich man went in because of the East Window incident, and she had to come out to sing again.

It turned out that this "rich man" was pretending, and he deceived everyone, including her. This man has nothing, wears suits and leather shoes all day, and goes in and out of the rich man's clubhouse. Everyone thought he was a rich man, and many people were willing to cooperate with him and even lend him money, but he borrowed money and used it directly for consumption, and did not use it in the right place.

Even the mansion worth 20 million that they lived in was bought with borrowed money. The mansion was later confiscated to offset the debt.

The female singer needed to participate in the repayment because she had several arrears to sign, so she had to come out and sing again.

Of course, we do not approve of this man's deception. But we can see that he is not bad for money. If you have the right investment method, becoming a real rich person is something that can be achieved by rubbing your hands. It's a pity that this man is only half right.

It can be seen that if you pretend to be rich, the money will naturally be found.

A person who is not short of love, love is coming, and a person who is not short of money, money is automatically sent to the door. The more money you have, the more confident you have to be. Make a show even if you don't have the money. Someday, you will become rich without realizing it.

Around us, there is no shortage of such people, very rich, but not ostentatious, very low-key; There will also be such people who have no money, but pretend to be rich and are very flamboyant. Isn't it too hypocritical for a person who has no money but wants to pretend to be rich? Let's talk about this topic together!

1. There are some people who have no money, but it is too hypocritical to pretend to be rich.

There are some people who often have no money, but they are afraid that if they don't have money, others will look down on them, so they will put on a show and pretend that they are rich. Often this vanity makes him lose more money, which is called death to save face. For example, when you go to a restaurant to eat, you can have an AA system, but you have to treat yourself, others are deadlocked, and after you pay the money, others will think that he is very generous, but in fact, he is already poor in private, such a person is too hypocritical, and he is sad in the end.

Second, some people are there to meet their own needs, such as the need for making friends.

There is a situation where if you are poor, others will not want to associate with you, because others think that with you, they may give a lot and not suffer for themselves, so many people will stay away from the poor. Nowadays, there are a lot of people who think this way, so there are some poor people who pretend to be rich in order to be able to make friends.

3. Poverty is not terrible, you must have ambition.

In fact, many rich people are not born rich, and many people get it through their own efforts. Poverty is not terrible, what is terrible is that the poor have no ambition, some people are poor and completely give up on themselves, do not work hard, do not strive to obtain wealth, such poor people, others will always look down on them. As long as people are not short of ambitions, they can achieve success through their own efforts and become wealthy, and such people can gain the respect of others.

Yes. His income is not very high, but he pretends to be rich for the sake of face, this kind of person is very hypocritical.

I think people who don't have money but have money because they are too vain, and they always feel that they are seen as rich and have a sense of superiority.

Nowadays, people who have no money have to pretend to be rich, just to satisfy their vanity, they are all false, and those who are really rich are very low-key.

It's a feeling that something is going to be powerless. I feel helpless. If there is a disease, as long as it is not acute, I don't dare to be hospitalized, I am resting at home, and I don't dare to go into the big shopping mall, because I know that even if I go in, I can't afford to buy those things...

Especially for girls, I especially like some weird small objects, I often love to buy some small objects before, although I just like that moment, I don't know if I throw it in **, but I will still buy it next time. So a lot of times it's spending money on useless places.

And there is no car, when it rains on a cloudy day, you have to do a bus to go to school, and people are a car trunk to get it during the holidays, but we are full of electric car things, and we will go to the vegetable market to buy things in order to bargain for half a day, and even when the mobile phone has some cards, I want to insist on insisting on waiting for it to not work and then replace it....Birthdays at home have always been a bowl of noodles, and the cakes I have eaten are not on my birthday...

Pepsi mourns, really... Now it's a material world, and you can't survive without money. Now you don't need money to go out, and the taste of having no money is worse than death.