How long can love survive? How long does love last?

When two people are together, they not only face the wind and snow, but also may face stormy waves. Life can't be smooth sailing, in fact, how long love can survive depends on the solidity of the hearts of two people.

Up to two people! However, I once read a foreign book in which a man had an experiment and found that love is like a cocktail, and the survival period is only 3 months and 12 days!

I hope there is no love in this world! It's sad, it's ridiculous, it's sad, it's stupid, it's a pity!

Live until you get married! It's not love after marriage!

It can survive for 100 years.

Maintaining a family, children and responsibilities are paramount rather than love.

I guess it's two or three years.

Some people say that it is 1 year after marriage, some say 3 years, and some say 7 years, but I think it has little to do with the length of the marriage, but a lot to do with why you got married in the first place.

Now more and more young people are reluctant to get married, and not getting married has once become a hot topic of social discussion, and more and more couples choose to get out of the siege and choose to separate, all saying that marriage is the grave of love, yes, marriage will really bury love.

From ancient times to the present, all kinds of literary works, film and television works are singing the sweetness of love and the loyalty of love, so it has attracted countless people to yearn for it. However, marriage is different, marriage ode needs to be operated for a long time, and it takes energy to maintain it.

There is a saying on the Internet: "Love is a piece of honey that will continue to magnify the advantages of the other party; Marriage is a reality that will magnify each other's shortcomings, shrink each other's strengths, or even bury them. ”

Love is like an ephemeral flower, although it is beautiful but not lasting, and marriage is like a tree, which needs to be nurtured by each other, and the branches and leaves are flourishing, and if it is deserted, it will wither and wither.

Speaking of Wang Yingxia, not many people may know about it, but when it comes to the article "Autumn in the Ancient Capital", we all know that this is Yu Dafu's masterpiece. His wife Sun Quan is a kind-hearted woman, although it was an arranged marriage, but at the beginning, Yu Dafu was not tired of this marriage. Until he met a woman named Wang Yingxia.

At that time, Yu Dafu had a family, and Wang Yingxia also had a boyfriend, but the two fell in love at first sight, Wang Yingxia admired his talent very much, in Yu Dafu's enthusiastic pursuit, Wang Yingxia fell, she did not hesitate, regardless of her existing marriage contract, regardless of secular comments, and Yu Dafu entered the palace of marriage.

In the end, the marriage still knocked their vigorous love off the altar, and after a short happy time, their marital relationship gradually deteriorated, and they gradually became conflicted with each other. Wang Yingxia is in everyone's girlfriends, and she has long been accustomed to the attention of thousands of people; But Yu Dafu is a literati, unkempt, and returned drunk for a long time.

There is no special expiration date for the retention time of love, and it is not a food similar to it, and it has a corresponding shelf life. Love will be more like a tree, how long it can survive depends on how you cultivate and maintain it, rather than how many years you are born with.

If you can maintain it with your heart, remember to water and fertilize it after planting, and you can maintain it with your heart and prepare the nutrients that the tree needs during its growth, then it will thrive and blossom and bear fruit. And marriage is also, carefully maintained, both parties take care of each other, care and considerate, give each other better feelings, and then solve the contradictions, it will continue to grow, love is more and more growing over time, until the end of life, the tree of love will always be very healthy.

Therefore, with careful maintenance, love can last forever and grow with people. Without care, the tree of love may soon wither.

This statement varies from person to person, because everyone's experience, personality, and family background are different, and everyone's view of love is also different.

Love depends on both sides, and it needs to be managed and maintained. Without these, there will be problems. Hope you can have your true happiness.

It varies from person to person, this depends on whether the hearts of both parties want to maintain are consistent, love and marriage need to be managed, two people work together to manage this rare relationship, it will last for a long time!

If you have true love, it's a year, and it doesn't exist forever.

The heart needs nourishing fluid, and this nourishing fluid is love. Without love, the heart withers. The survival period of love is equal to the survival period of the body.

Follow-up: I don't have love now, but I'm still alive and well? What's going on?

No, friend, don't force a smile. Your problem means that you are confused, and if you are confused, it means that you are confused by feelings.

A man cannot deceive his own heart. Follow-up: No, I think you are mistaken, because I have been in love for this reason, so I wonder what it is and how long it will stay with me?

He is what you need, and there will be no confusion if you don't need it. It will stay with you for the rest of your life.

Bai Yang's love letter Have you read it, an old man, love letters are hotter than fire, it can be seen how important love is to people. Follow-up: Maybe I'll need it in the future, but I didn't need it now or before, and I didn't get it before!

How can it be as long as my lifespan : from the day you fall in love, strictly speaking, from the day you start to pay attention to love, love is with you. Follow-up:

Is it? Why don't I feel anything, I don't realize it at all? ：

You're already conscious, you're feeling. Otherwise, if you are in a state of chaos, would you ask such a question? Follow-up:

Yes! I don't have a love partner, where does love come from? Talking about it before:

It's not that you have love now, but that you already have the mind to inquire about love, and you want to understand love and make some preparations for the future. A person's life is inseparable from love. Whether it's love, family, friendship.

Follow-up question: Well, I know this, but what I'm asking now is love, what is it, does it have a survival period ? Will these be known only to the future "him".... ：

I already had this question in the first time. Love is a nourishing agent for the soul. Love is as long as a person's life from the time it happens.

If we ask ourselves, it's scary. It turns out that there are not a few people who like the new and hate the old, and it is difficult to love someone all your life, especially after being familiar with those we love. When we feel that we have a good understanding of our lover, and we think that we have read it, love begins to decline, and we begin to ignore the love that we have and are continuing, consciously or unconsciously, and longing for new love to happen.

So, when love goes downhill, should we break up? The answer, of course, is no. From the perspective of moral norms and social responsibility, the unity of love and marriage is very important, which is conducive to social stability and the healthy growth of the next generation.

From the point of view of pure emotional factors, the unity of love and marriage is also very important, although the new love will bring new feelings, but the original lovers or deep love between husband and wife will be lost, and it will take a long time to explore to get back the original sense of harmony. Especially in old age, with a lover who will accompany you for life, that happiness is obvious. Therefore, even if we have a primitive mentality, we must try to adjust it as much as possible, taking into account the pros and cons of various factors.

The boredom of love is inevitable and accumulates over time, even though affection also accumulates during this phase. Family affection and boredom begin to fight, if family affection overcomes boredom, the two people will get along sweetly; If boredom prevails over family affection, two people will have to say breakup and divorce. How to deal with the relationship between the two?

First, both parties need to keep a certain distance, especially the distance between the hearts. Although we do not need to advocate that husband and wife "respect each other as guests" as the ancients did, at least the mutual care should be within a certain range, leaving a space for each other to have their own privacy. Especially women, no matter how big or small things are about men, they always like to inquire clearly, and they will inevitably get tired of each other.

Second, create a sense of freshness. We must cooperate with each other in home life and emotion, constantly innovating, and overcoming objective boredom with human efforts. After all, our realistic love is not as romantic as in martial arts**, two people can be fed and clothed and only live for love, we have to worry about survival first.

However, we can still consciously create a romantic atmosphere for our love. There is no need for ups and downs of joys and sorrows, as long as we experience them with our hearts, romantic feelings can also exist in the bits and pieces of life.