I won t marry at all

Marrying a wife does not marry a woman who looks up, marrying a husband does not marry a low-headed husband means marrying a wife, not marrying a woman who is arrogant and looks down on people, and marrying a man who is not confident and spiritless.

"Girls with their heads up" refers to those women who walk with their heads up, look high-spirited, and look down on people, giving people the feeling that they are domineering, empty-eyed, unreasonable in life, messing around, and arrogant and impersonal. They often have hegemony in their lives in thought or behavior, so this kind of person cannot be married.

Tradition believes that women should be subtle, internal, and gentle, and walk with their heads down. And the girl with her head raised is just the opposite, walking with her head held high, with a menacing appearance. Such a woman has a fierce, pungent personality, strong and suspicious, too strong, easy to conflict with men, and it is difficult to get along at home.

The "bowing husband" in the second half of the sentence refers to a man who often walks with his head down, and such a person is often a sign of lack of self-confidence, no sense of security, and a lack of masculinity.

Men should stand up and be a man, just like a soldier, sassy and sassy in the posture of socks, energetic, so that others can see it and be very energetic, women like masculine men, and men who walk with their heads down will make women feel a little disgusted. Therefore, when a woman marries, she should not marry such a man, but marry a man who has a high head and a masculine body.

Two families and one family, do not marry or marry, this is a commonplace thing in Suzhou, it is very common, there are too many only children in the place, if the daughter marries the acre, the old man is not very lonely, so he does not marry or marry, will this marriage model have a high divorce rate?

Two families and one family have a high divorce rate:

There are many problems to be faced in the form of a marriage between two families and one family, and whether you will get divorced depends on your ability to deal with the problems.

Let's take a look at the problems that two and one have to encounter:

1. Who is the child's surname?

Generally, the first baby is with the man's surname, of course, if the woman's family strength is quite strong, this should be discussed before marriage. It is also possible to revert to the surname. In Suzhou, there are also many sons-in-law who recruit door-to-door sons-in-law, and it is also common for the second baby to have a father's surname.

2. Marriage leave. Two families and one family, it does not mean that the child has the surname of whom, or who will take it, nor does it give their own money, the relationship between the child and the husband and wife should be highly integrated, and the original families on both sides should also be highly integrated. For example, the Chinese New Year is spent together, or the mother-in-law's house lives for a month, the in-laws' house lives for a month, and the young couple lives by themselves for another month.

In Suzhou, there is not much distinction between the man's family and the woman's family, and it is not the mother-in-law's family, and when the two get married, they default to leaving the things of the two families to the young couple and the children. If it has been agreed before marriage to have only one child, it is still the surname of the root, and the lot will be drawn. As for the wedding, it is to be held together, and the number of tables of their relatives is borne by themselves, and the marriage room lives in the man's house first, and then the woman's house.

If the wedding is held separately, the family must stay for a month.

3. Accommodation. After all, parents are different from young people, living habits and spending money habits are different, different will be said, after being said, the psychology will be very uncomfortable. If you live with your parents, you will often be dried up by your parents, and it is better for you to live by yourself as a young couple.

A marriage that doesn't marry doesn't last long:

This kind of marriage model is very common in Putian, and there are still long-term together, which means that there are more interpersonal relationships to deal with, which is more tiring for young people.

Don't marry, don't marry, this is also called two-headed care, which means that after a man and a woman get married, both parties take on family responsibilities together and educate children to raise the elderly. Moreover, there is no bride price and dowry for the two sides, and the assets of both parties must be balanced, the children must be balanced, and the overnight visit must be balanced.

During the Chinese New Year, relatives on both sides have to visit. For example, I went to the man's house this year and the woman's house next year.

At least two children must be born, and the reincarnation follows the man's surname, and the second child follows the woman's surname.

Buying a house and a car, if it is a post-marital property, then both men and women are required to repay the loan together, which is a five-five marriage model, which can also be understood as an AA marriage.

Although there are many problems with this marriage model, for now, it is a more reasonable and fair model for both parties.