How to find the best friends 20

Best friend.

There is a saying that says, 'A friend is someone who doesn't feel embarrassed even when you have nothing to say when you're together.'" I think that's right.

Being able to tell you when you're wrong won't make you wrong again and again. You'll scold you all the time, just to keep you from going down the wrong path. When he is wrong, you tell him that even if he doesn't listen at the time, he will thank you afterwards or apologize to you.

Good friends, even if they don't see each other for a year, they don't see each other for a year, and when they get together again, they are as close as they were at the beginning.

A good friend, he will know you very well, know your style, and be able to understand you at the right time. There is an irreplaceable place in your heart.

First of all, he must be sincere to you, and you must be sincere to him, and secondly, if you make a mistake, he will accuse you first, and then help you find a way, there is no best friend, only the most intimate friend, remember: no one is perfect.

I think it's a good thing, the key is to be in love, looking for friends is something that can't be found, you have to follow fate, and you have to improve your personal personality charm, so that you can attract each other!

Be sincere, often contact and reminisce, and help friends when they are in trouble.

There is a common language, the key is good character, you feel good about him.

It depends on what standard you are! If you are a gentleman, then you must find someone who dares to tell you about your shortcomings; If it's a villain, it depends on how much value he has for you :)

My definition of a friend is: someone who is qualified to scold you, but you are not angry with someone who is not related by blood.

Then it's easy to find friends, but it's hard to screen.

You're the best, and your friends are the best.

It depends on what your definition of a friend is, is it a gentleman's friendship as light as water, or a friend who eats, drinks and has fun?

You don't need to have many confidants, three or five are enough, like a friend in the Boyazi period, one is enough. If there are two friends like Taoyuan Sanjieyi, it is really a blessing for Sansheng.

If you want to find a friend who suits you, you must first figure out what you want, no matter what, you must first pay your sincerity, and friends must be sincere!

Second, we must learn to empathize, do not do to others what we do not want to do to ourselves, and do not demand too much from the other party what we cannot do.

It is not easy to have a confidant in life, but do it and cherish it, and encourage everyone!

You need friends in life, especially like-minded friends! But there are very few such friends in life, so we should pay attention to the following points when making friends!

1. You should have a correct attitude and be honest and trustworthy when making friends! Be sincere, be sincere, and face it calmly! You can't play tricks with your friends and play your own tricks!

2. Making friends depends on the quality of the other party, as the saying goes, people and talents are of high quality! Good friends can make progress together and support together! Help each other in times of crisis!

You can't make friends with wine and meat, and you can't make friends who say they don't have actual actions! Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black! It's important to make friends!

3. Making friends depends on the other party's temperament! You can't dislike the poor and love the rich, don't make friends who dislike people because of the bad economy, selfish, untrustworthy, open-mouthed, two-faced, etc., it's best to stay away from such friends!

Making friends is the most important thing in life! A good friend should be as light as water, not as sweet as honey! Good friends are fine, not many! So good friends will affect your life!

I think it's good to meet the following three things:

1. I think what is rare between friends is tacit understanding.

Generally, good friends will have a tacit understanding to write.

Second, then you will be happy with him.

It's natural to get along with him.

Three or two people will have a lot to say.

It's natural not to be pretentious.

Can do that.

Then that person is very worthy of being your friend!

Learn to look at people Many people are reluctant to pay sincerely, one reason is that they are afraid that the other party will not appreciate it but will beat a rake, in fact, in order to prevent this situation from happening, there is a very simple way, that is, to look at people. There's a simple truth, it's who does what. Looking at people here is not to look at people's character, but to look at people's conduct, whether a person can get along without scruples, which is the most important.

Know your own principles and those of the other person. As the saying goes, there are times when teeth and tongue fight, not to mention many people who are in a helpless situation? Bumps and bumps in life are inevitable, but it is necessary to make clear the principles and bottom line of the other party, and then combine it with your own to see if you can accept it and get along.

Find common ground, common hobbies or experiences. No matter what kind of friends need to get along, sincerity also needs to be mutual, two people can listen to each other, confide in each other, must be based on a common feeling. The difference between a true friend and an ordinary friend is only whether or not there are "concerns" when talking about things.

Consider the other person's feelings more This is crucial, whether a person is sincere to himself, in general, the other party feels it, of course, excludes some unscrupulous, self-righteous people.

Learn about each other's interests. When you think that the other party is worth getting along with and worth paying attention to, it is the most effective and direct way to get closer to each other and pay attention to each other, and understanding interests and hobbies dominates. There is no need to ask each other to be the same as yourself, sincerity is also reflected in being able to tolerate each other, understand each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other.

Isn't it particularly comfortable and happy to have their own personalities, but still get along?

Speak differently than others. Tell each other that you are very important to me, you don't have to be polite to me, you can tell me what you are happy or unhappy about, you can trust me. In the case of unavoidable circumstances, you must explain in advance, say hello, and let the other party know that you have no choice.

Because you are sincere, because you care, the other party will give up some of your interests for you.

Directly and clearly point out the mistakes of the other party. People in society, how can you walk without getting your shoes wet, you meet more people, your heart is mixed, you will shake your will, you can't get it right, you don't know how to speak, you are disappointed in the characters of this society, and you may also make some radical behaviors and say some radical words. At this time, you should not be afraid of him complaining at the time, stand up bravely, and pull him along.

I'm sure he will do the same when you're in trouble.