Ask for help in youth education, how to educate teenagers

Talk to a psychiatrist with her, and the psychiatrist knows how to capture a person's heart and lead them down the road. Looking at your situation, it is difficult for ordinary people to change her, and she is stubborn enough.

It's a little tricky. Don't hit the south wall and don't look back.

Today, I listened to the lecture of Jiang Yunxiang, an expert in youth education and family education research, and I really felt very deeply. After listening to Teacher Jiang Yunxiang's class, I realized that this problem lies with parents. What kind of environment parents give their children, then what kind of children will become.

Some people say that "giving children positive attention is one of the important ways of education", and it is true that growing teenagers very much want attention and appreciation, if parents can do this, I am afraid that children will encounter many fewer problems.

Think about the reason why he didn't listen to his family? In fact, the relationship is not in place, the parent-child relationship, or the brotherly relationship, what you are doing is very tired, but it is ineffective, find some effective way. His parents' thinking is a bit outdated, afraid of something going bad, his current state is an ambiguous state, find some of his sore spots, love him, but he doesn't feel it, it's better not to love, blast out of the house, let yourself go out.

He is disgusted with something, okay, stop and don't do it again, for example, if he is disgusted with his parents' nagging, then don't nag, because nagging is useless, leave him alone, don't eat or scream. His own thoughts will slowly change, and he will re-establish family relationships.

Try to cultivate his sense of responsibility and ask him for his opinion when there are things. Let him take ideas and develop a sense of responsibility for his family.

Give him what he can do, don't care about gains and losses, and exercise his ability.

It is to cultivate him as a parent and rely on him more, hehe. Don't be a child.

Downstairs said a little intuitively, if he is willing to go to the army and still have nothing to do all day? Will it make his brother and parents anxious? That loved one is willing to force?

First of all, you need to give him some motivation, this kind of performance is generally a lack of purpose in life Self-depravity What you need to understand is what he needs, what he wants to do in the future, and what he wants to tell him in the future, patience and gentleness are essential, forcing will only make him more disgusted.

It seems that he doesn't understand the importance of studying, maybe your family is better, so he doesn't have the motivation to study. You have to find a way to let him know the importance and necessity of learning knowledge, and in the future, you have to live on your own skills, support your family, and enhance your sense of responsibility, so as to stimulate his enthusiasm for learning and generate motivation to learn.

1. First of all, you must educate others well, you must first educate yourself! The so-called learning from a high school as a teacher, being a model for others is this truth! If you are not even a quality person, how can you educate others with confidence?

2. And with the basic quality, you also have to understand the growth environment of young people now, now many people like to talk about the difficult conditions of the past when educating teenagers, but in fact, the current teenagers know that it is not easy for their ancestors in the past, of course, it is not impossible to take it, but to master the proportion, almost on the line, if you repeatedly emphasize the past is not easy, it will be counterproductive.

3. Third, we must have a good attitude, we must be prepared to fight a protracted war, the change of thinking of teenagers is not an overnight thing, in the process they may be angry but there is no need to be angry, but at the same time there must be a bottom line, so that they do not cross the red line!

If you want to effectively educate young people, you must care about learning, life, entertainment, making friends and other aspects;

Parents and teachers should set an example and create a fair, healthy, supportive, fraternal, and motivated atmosphere for young people;

Educators should have an amiable attitude, love with sufficient patience, and avoid being rude;

With an open concept and combined with the essence of traditional culture, we should pay attention to educational issues, be good at thinking and studying young people's problems, constantly learn lessons from the past, summarize the experience that can be implemented, and serve young people.

Whether it is ideological education or cultural knowledge education, the premise is that you must be willing to listen, and unwilling to listen shows that you do not trust you. Both good and bad people want to be understood, cared for, and forgiven, first of all, you should show an attitude of understanding and even recognition of what you think is a very wrong behavior, and then talk about other things after you are fully trusted.

Give him a vision of a better future, if he doesn't have ideals, you can tell him that writing ** is also a very good career, and it also takes a lot of hard work, if the Internet is just to escape the frustrations in real life, then communicate first according to what I said in the first paragraph, find the problem, and give him love, if that love is sincere, strong, and does not ask for anything in return.

You must understand what type of ** he is watching, whether it is fantasy or violent, it is all related to growth, remember to identify and understand.

Hope it helps, glad to see your supplementary questions.

Find a way to get it back and do more ideological work. She's already an adult, and she's not being trafficked.

It's good to pass this rebellious period.

Youth gives you a great family, whose parents divorced or unhappy marriage, because of the irresponsible behavior of the parents! There is no easy way to teach and hurt the child! Let them go astray.

It's a big deal, but I'm still going to say it! They are newborn children, but there is nothing for the children parents to hit ** to them as soon as possible, because they don't have the meaning of these two words that parents do for their children! ！

It's still hard to educate children about society.

The environment is not suitable for educating children! Many wealthy people send their children abroad to educate, and I hope to give them a good environment! Now, most people are throwing into the school kids and giving some money on it!

Is it school going to be good? If there are so many students exposed to the socially disadvantaged, it will not be a bad school! There are all kinds of people, but what if parents could be their children to experience the feelings?

Teaching children to adapt to the environment and learning how to survive is the most important learning.

Just to make yourself more only! If you don't even survive, you won't have so much knowledge!

Mental endurance and dealing with experience, frustration and blows! People tenaciously survive in the face of more difficult circumstances, but also hope for Chinese education.

Education out of misunderstandings! ！

Learning knowledge is the most important thing! The most important thing is the heart.

Quality! Determination in the face of setbacks and difficulties.

Fittest!

Find a psychiatrist, there is a free one.

Let young people understand the society safely and enter the safety education of the society. Such lectures are often given in schools. It's useful to listen closely.

Let young people have a correct understanding of society and correct values.

Real cases, you can call ** to the local juvenile detention center, explain your situation, they should cooperate, there are bloody teaching, absolutely useful.

I don't have the data here, but I would suggest that the class meeting should also be used to promote how to preserve evidence and escape when a teenager is wrongfully abused.