I didn t receive a gift or red envelope from my boyfriend on Qixi Festival, should I consider breaki

Updated on society 2024-05-20
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If it were me, of course I wouldn't have broken up.

    If I break up because I didn't give a gift or didn't send a red envelope on Qixi Festival, then I guess I'll have to be single for the rest of my life.

    Although Tanabata is a very romantic festival and a very suitable day for boyfriends and girlfriends to confess, it is not a festival suitable for everyone. There are also some boys who don't like to be romantic, how do you make him romantic?

    My first love, and the only boy I love with my heart, is a person who doesn't think about anything, and sometimes he can't even remember his birthday, let alone my birthday. That time I was given a big cake in the middle of the night, and someone else helped to deliver it, because we were not in the same school. At that time, I was very surprised, why did he suddenly send a cake to me, and then he called me ** to say happy birthday, it turned out that QQ reminded me that I had a birthday today.

    It moved me and made me angry, angry that I remembered my birthday wrongly, and I was moved so far and had the heart to let people help send me a cake.

    When I actually had my birthday, I waited a day and didn't see him react, I thought he would know. As a result, in the end I told him in the evening that I had a birthday. Actually, I'm happy no matter what gift I receive, but what I'm waiting for is his happy birthday.

    I cried all night that day, and I was supposed to be happy about my birthday, but I ended up crying all night.

    I'm sad that he doesn't even remember my birthday, and I'm sad that he hasn't treated me as well as before since he changed schools.

    But the next day I didn't remember anything, I just knew that I loved him.

    In fact, every day is a meaning that we give it, and it may be a memorable day for you, but it is an ordinary day for others. So it doesn't matter to me whether my Tanabata boyfriend gives gifts or not, or whether he sends red envelopes or not.

    As long as you love enough, everything is love, either sending a red envelope is loving you

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can't just look at this, it depends on whether your personalities are compatible, whether he usually treats you well, whether you like each other or not, on the other hand, if you really want to break up just because he didn't give you a gift on Tanabata, it means that you don't really love him either.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not necessarily.

    It depends on the person.

    Look at his personality and how he treats you.

    There are people, people are very nice.

    But I don't know much about human accidents.

    It's okay for such a person to live.

    But there will be a lack of emotional intelligence.

    It depends on what you want.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Did you send a gift to your boyfriend? If you think about the other person, he won't fail to give you gifts. Is it only for the man to give gifts? In that case, then divide it and let him go!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    During the Chinese Valentine's Day, the boyfriend does not give gifts or red envelopes, which can imply the boyfriend.

    Qixi Red Envelope Number Meaning:

    1. Yuan, 520 yuan I love you.

    2, Yuan, Yuan, 1314 Yuan for a lifetime.

    3. Yuan, Yuan is eternal.

    4. Yuan, Yuan.

    Yuan: I love you, I love you, Yuan, I love you for a long time.

    Tanabata gifts: 1. Chocolate.

    Chocolate represents the strong love between couples, and it is best to give creative chocolates, such as chocolate flowers.

    2. Bags cure all diseases, girls always like bags of all sizes, buy a makeup bag or handbag to give to your girlfriend.

    3. Cosmetics.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the Tanabata has not passed, I want to surprise you, it is likely that I forgot, if the Tanabata has passed, and my boyfriend did not give you a gift, it is excluded that I forgot this situation, and I may not be such a careful boy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, although the sense of ritual in love is very important, whether a relationship is really suitable or not depends on the details of getting along with each otherIf hunger loves you, you don't care about this formality.

    Many times, girls always imprison their thoughts on the sense of ritual in love, thinking that love without a sense of ritual means that the other party does not love their performance, which is also a very wrong idea. The sense of ritual is very important, coupled with the contrast of the circle of friends showing affection and the merchants hyping up the holiday atmosphere, we will pay special attention to each other's actions. In fact, this is putting the cart before the horse, you know, holiday gift-giving is only a result, and the more important thing is to get along with each other.

    There is a big difference in thinking between men and women, with boys focusing on results and girls on process. Sometimes I don't say what I want directly, but I hold it in my heart and hope to guess it in the Rotten Forest. We always fantasize that one person can perfectly guess our own mind, but sometimes we can't fully understand ourselves, so how can we expect the other person to do it.

    You know, if you say that the boy will do it again, this matter is not meaningless, the relationship between the sexes and the two sides get along, the important thing is not that you don't say that I will guess, and the spring stove is that the other party can understand your needs and then meet them. And this is a need for you to tell the other person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't think about breaking up because of this little thing, we should first figure out why our boyfriend didn't prepare a gift for us, and then think about breaking up. On Valentine's Day, girls want to receive gifts from boys, and girls who receive gifts are usually very happy, while those who do not receive gifts from girls will feel lost, thinking that their boyfriends don't care about them, and they don't even prepare gifts for the most important Valentine's Day, and even think of breaking up because of this. In fact, how to choose Sun He, we have to decide according to the specific situation.

    1. Forget to be busy with work.

    Some boys forget about it because they are busy with work, if the real situation is so real, there is no need to worry too much, as long as the two people have a good relationship, they can spend Valentine's Day every day. What's more, the boyfriend works hard to create a better future for the two, and it would be a pity for such a good man to break up like this.

    Second, the straight man of steel.

    Some boys have a more direct personality, and they are what girls call "straight men of steel". The characteristic is that he doesn't know how to be romantic, and he doesn't know how to make his girlfriend happy, let alone prepare gifts. Even if you buy a gift for your girlfriend, you receive a death Barbie pink lipstick.

    If this is the case with the boyfriend, the girl should give proper understanding and guide her slowly in the future, and the boy will definitely change. In addition, girls must also be psychologically prepared, everything can not be too demanding, or should focus on the relationship between the two.

    3. Because I don't care about forgetting.

    Some guys may forget because they don't care, and in this case, they should consider breaking up. Because they will never have the status of a girlfriend in their hearts, and even having dinner with a good buddy is more important than dating a girlfriend, and the girlfriend will throw it out of her mind no matter what she says. This kind of love is basically emotionless, and even if you are reluctant to get married, it is very sad and happy.

    You might as well just let go and plunge into the next relationship to find the person who is really suitable for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If your boyfriend is traveling on the day of the Qixi Festival and is unwilling to give you any gifts, then it is really time to consider breaking up, because it seems that you have paid more in your emotional life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think the boyfriend who doesn't give gifts on the Qixi Festival must be slamming the door, if such a boyfriend is reluctant to give even a trembling gift, it won't be interesting to hide you and other places. He doesn't even understand romance.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't give gifts on the Qixi Festival, you shouldn't break up, because the relationship between two people shouldn't be judged solely from whether the Qixi Festival gives you a gift or not.

    If two people break up just because of this incident, then it should make each other feel a lot of regrets, so carefully considering the relationship can make each other feel full of faith.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It should be collected.

    Qixi Red Envelope Number Meaning:

    20 yuan, 520 yuan I love you.

    14 yuan, yuan, 1314 yuan for a lifetime.

    99 yuan, yuan for a long time.

    77 yuan, yuan kiss.

    Meta: I love you, I love you (520*2).

    Yuan: I love you for a long time.

    The origin of Tanabata:

    Qixi originated in the Han Dynasty, and Ge Hong's "Xijing Miscellaneous Records" of the Eastern Jin Dynasty has a record that "Han Cai women often wear seven-hole needles in the placket on the seventh day of July, and everyone is accustomed to it", which is the earliest record of begging in ancient documents.

    Tanabata was the first to worship nature. Judging from historical documents, at least three or four thousand years ago, with people's understanding of astronomy and the emergence of textile technology, there were records about Altair and Vega. People worship the stars far more than Altair and Vega, they believe that there are seven stars representing directions in the east, west, north and south, collectively known as the Twenty-Eight Nakshatras, of which the Big Dipper is the brightest and can be used to discern the direction at night.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes. The Qixi Festival originated in China, and it is also celebrated in some Asian countries influenced by Chinese culture, such as Japan, the Korean Peninsula, and Vietnam. On May 20, 2006, the Qixi Festival was included in the first batch of national intangible cultural heritage list by the People's Republic of China.

    In ancient times, the Qixi Festival was an exclusive festival for beautiful women. Among the many folk customs of Tanabata, some have gradually disappeared, but a considerable part has been continued.

    Origin of the festival. The ancient Chinese astrological culture has a long and profound history, and the ancients explored the mysteries of the universe from a very early stage, and thus deduced a complete and profound stargazing culture, "The Cowherd and the Weaver Girl" is a typical example.

    The legend of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl of Qixi Festival was the earliest in people's worship of natural celestial phenomena, as early as ancient times, the ancients who pursued order not only planned the sky in an orderly manner, but also corresponded to the stars and the ground area one by one, this correspondence is called "dividing the stars" in terms of astronomy, and in terms of the ground, it is called "dividing the field".

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