I sent my ex boyfriend to be a soldier last year, and I want to send my current boyfriend to be a so

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Emotional things are really inaccurate, and your ex-boyfriend's proposal to break up with you may be good for you! Why? Because after the two people separated, she mainly considered not wanting you to continue to fall into the relationship between you and him, he was in the army, and he said that he would be discharged from the army and come back with you after two years, if he said badly, your friend stayed in the army and developed well, and if he said no, he really didn't invite you to find another one in the army, and wouldn't it hurt you even more when the time came, so your friend's approach is also good for you!

    Long pain is better than short pain, your friends are not the same, they will not be able to give up; And after seeing your opinion on another boyfriend, I still have to give you some advice, don't rely on your friends for everything, in case you think of such a situation, you can't bear it all of a sudden, and it's even more sad, so people must learn to be strong, and second, they must learn to take care of themselves, and cherish the beauty of the past, present, and future!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You don't have to do that, just do the way you used to.

    You don't have to wait for him to come back, two years is not a long time, but it is definitely not a short time.

    If you meet someone better than him, you can accept the good one, why not?

    Because in the face of time, any promise is pale.

    When you're lonely, you can reminisce about your good old days!

    Well, I wish you to get rid of the shadows and be your old self soon!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You should wait for him, time is the test, true love is to go through the test, 2 years may feel very long, but as long as he doesn't propose to you to break up, you should wait, everyone has their own life, their own ideals, you can't limit him, even if he doesn't go for you But if he always regrets this in the future, wouldn't it become a generation gap between your feelings, then it's better to support him, he will cherish you more when he understands in the future, and it's not bad to be a military wife, I will go to the army at the end of the year like your southern friend this year, but I don't have a girlfriend, I have nothing to worry about, for 25 points, I call you a military sister-in-law brother.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I am also a veteran in the army and there is a saying that 'I regret three years when I was a soldier.' Don't be a soldier and regret it for the rest of your life'A man should go and hone himself Being a soldier is a good thing I hope you support him to go I believe that the day he comes back will be more mature and more masculine than now In the future, he will face all kinds of ups and downs in society As a soldier I believe that he can withstand the test. Of course, when it comes to your ex-boyfriend, I don't dare to jump to conclusions, maybe he has his thoughts.

    Okay, that's all there is to it, hey... For 5 points, call you a military wife.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You are much better than me, I am similar to you, but better than me is that he asked you to wait for him, I just broke up with my boyfriend, he is also going to be a soldier, going to 5 years, he is afraid of delaying me, proposed to break up, he is also leaving, I miss him very much, but there is no way, I think as long as you are truly in love with each other, you will go to the end, you must have confidence that although the two of you are not together, but the heart is together, he is gone, you live a fulfilling life, I believe you will stand the test of time.

    Bless you all.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The boy is ambitious in 4 directions.

    That's right.

    But the boy is wrong if he doesn't stay for you.

    I also went to the army last year, and I was reported.

    But I didn't go. For my girlfriend, for a career.

    The family forced me. I didn't go either.

    What does this prove.

    Do you know. I hope that you will faithfully bless him, and that everything will go smoothly and that you will not have too much hope.

    The boy was not very mature and had no ability to position himself.

    I hope you can accept these ugly words from me, I am for your good

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you are loyal to your feelings, this is not a problem, but you are afraid of being unfaithful to your feelings.

    I couldn't agree more with him.

    to illustrate a problem

    You don't take feelings seriously!

    You said you treated! But if you insist, will you divide it?

    Think for yourself!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't care so much, it's hard to talk about emotional matters.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, I'm in the same situation as you, I'm going to be a soldier and my girlfriend is waiting for me at home!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The landlord seems to have been thinking about himself, afraid that he would lose him, but he didn't want to think about his feelings, alas.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do you want to be a military wife??? Can't you find someone who is a soldier now instead of someone who hasn't?? 、

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My boyfriend chose to be a soldier, this is his choice, and it is also his dream, he has asked my opinion before, I love her, and I will definitely be willing to wait for him to come back. Because I love someone, his likes and pursuits are also mine, and I will definitely wait for him to come back.

    1. Couples should support each other

    Two people who love each other will break through many obstacles to come together, and the boyfriend has his own dream, he wants to be a soldier and fulfill his childhood dream. This is his pursuit, and as his girlfriend, I will definitely support him. Just as he supports my ideals, two people who love each other should support each other, understand each other, and wait for each other.

    If there is not even this tacit understanding between two people, then it is impossible for love to continue. I have a friend who was a high school classmate, and her boyfriend had asked her for advice when he went to the army, and she thought she could wait for him to come back. When he returned from three years in the army, the two of them were married.

    Now two people live very happily, in love, as long as they love each other, they can pay for each other.

    2. Separation means meeting again

    Sometimes two people have been together for a long time, and there may be some contradictions, and a short separation is just a time for two people to think about it. Three years is not a long time, but it is not a short time, but it is actually a test of the true feelings of two people. As long as there is sincerity and true feelings, they will not care about the barriers of time and space, and the two people will definitely break through the obstacles and come together.

    It is precisely because of these three years of separation that I understand the importance of the other party to myself. A girl met a boy on the train, and later the boy's family asked the boy to go to the army, and went to a far away place, and the girl waited for the boy, in fact, the relationship between the two of them had fallen into the Cold War period at that time. Through this short separation, it was discovered that neither of the two people could do without the other.

    Later, after the two were together, they felt that the real relationship could stand the test.

    Whether it is a boyfriend or a girlfriend, when he has his own dreams, the best love as a partner is companionship and support. A person's life is very short, if he can fulfill his childhood dream, not everyone can achieve it, if he has this dream, then support him, besides, the boy goes to the barracks, and after he comes back, it will be a great training for him, and I believe he will become more and more mature.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I am willing to wait for my boyfriend to come back, being a soldier is a very honorable thing, although my boyfriend goes to the army to meet less often, but it will not affect our relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If my boyfriend goes to the army, I am willing to wait for him to come back, but I have to give me a time, otherwise I can't afford to wait for two years and two years, and I am afraid of being urged to marry by my family.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, because I think he is going to do something very meaningful and honorable, so I will wait for him to come back.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If my boyfriend goes to the army, I'll be willing to wait for him to come back, and if I really like someone, this little time is nothing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If we are true love, I will choose to wait for him, being a soldier is also a kind of training for him, and when he comes back, he will be stronger and more like a man, if my boyfriend goes to be a soldier, I am willing to wait for him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course I will wait for him to come back, after all, being a soldier is an honorable thing, as long as he does not live up to me, I will definitely wait for him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think if the relationship between the two of them is really good, I think I'm still willing to wait for him to come back.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm sure I'm willing to wait for him to come back.

    This is the minimum principle, two people will not be separated because of distance if they have a good relationship, and they will wait patiently for him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. If it is a compulsory soldier, then it is generally a two-year compulsory soldier. After 2 years, you will definitely return to your location, (2 years or 3 years, there may be regional differences, so it depends on your local area).

    2. If your boyfriend wants to stay in the team and serve in the army after being a conscript, then it will definitely take longer, and it also depends on where he will be assigned in the end.

    3. If it is other branches of the army, it will be relatively late, and it is possible to stay in the team, depending on whether he only serves the army.

    4. After being discharged from the army, he will definitely return to his hometown, and if he has the ability or other connections, he may also stay and work in the last place he wants.

    5. If you're worried about this, ask your boyfriend. Two years and three years are neither long nor short, and they can be exchanged by letter.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. Learn how to write love letters.

    2. Practice how to communicate without meeting.

    3. Keep it fresh.

    4. Keep a common topic to talk about.

    5. Appropriately let the other party worry (pretend to be gentle: "I want to catch a cold") 6, ,

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, rest assured, as long as your feelings for each other are deep, everything is not a problem, when two people are too far apart, you must believe in each other, and do a good job of heart-to-heart communication, so that each other has a sense of security. There won't be anything going on, don't worry.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    My boyfriend also went to be a soldier.,It's estimated that 2 years.,We just graduated from college.,I think a man who can be a soldier is not as good as **.,Just stick to it.。。。

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No matter how you go, as long as the relationship is there, you will definitely be together.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, no problem at all, a lot of people around me who are soldiers are coming back to work after they are done.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, you can choose to stay in the army or return to your hometown to work after completing your military service.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you can go back, you can do it in more than two years. Don't worry. Hehe. Wishing you happiness! The watchtower lord adopted.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No!

    Not at all! It's pointless either! If you want to be a spare tire, or if you want to get a cuckold to wear, go and continue with him!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Your ex-boyfriend is not your current boyfriend, so why should you send it? If you want to get back together, you can still do it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't send it again if you break up for this reason, give him hope that he will come back to pester you in the future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Do you think it's worth sending such a person? I don't think it's necessary, since they're all in a relationship with you, boyfriend and girlfriend, why are you still having an affair with other women? There is only one way to say it, and that is the heart of flowers. With this time, there will be a next time, do you think?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I don't think you should send him, because of the reason why you two broke up, this kind of person is not worthy, no matter what he means, just refuse, it's better to cut off contact.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I don't think you should send him off in this case. Such a person is unreliable, and you just have to break up with him completely.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Everyone has their own principles of doing things, and if your ex-boyfriend is going to be a soldier and wants you to send him off, it is recommended that you don't go. Here's why:

    1 He had an affair with another girl, which caused you to break up, and he was responsible, and he hurt you, do you go and send him to show forgiveness? I'm afraid not, this matter is a character problem, don't forgive him because he wants to travel far away, 2 ex-boyfriend is ex-boyfriend, the former expression is in the past, broke up, and there is no longer an intersection, so it is not recommended that you send it;

    3 You go to send him, let him have illusions, and you still don't want to go to the above reasons why his future development is not good, what do you think?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    What is broken? If you break it, you will completely forget about it, and you will never get along with each other in the rivers and lakes! Wen Jun has two intentions, so he decides to break with each other! Affectionate, ruthless, forgetful.

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