I want to marry my girlfriend, but my family says they want to wait two years

How old are you? If you are of legal age for marriage, you also want to get married. Then ask your parents why they should wait two years, and if your parents have good reasons, then you might as well wait two years.

Besides, two years is not a long time. Your girlfriend's brother is about to get married, which means that it hasn't arrived yet, so you can take it easy. As for whether you want both to be happy, it's up to you to maneuver around.

The family's suggestion to get married two years later is also out of consideration for your future, and I hope you will communicate well with your parents, and don't have to get married if you want to get married. Also, although this is not a union of two families, it has a great relationship with two families, and I hope you can handle the relationship between the two families well.

Ask both parents about it. Talk your mind to your parents. After all, it's not easy to talk about the right person.

I wish you all a speedy marriage.

What's so hard about that? First of all, determine whether the family recognizes this daughter-in-law and your girlfriend If you have identified it, what is the difference between 2 years earlier and 2 years later Since the younger brother over there is about to get married, you have to make it clear to your parents and discuss it, and then you can get rid of the marriage If your family still doesn't agree, that's not satisfied Are you a man, can't you decide this decision If you can't decide and don't want to embarrass the family, then don't delay others Finally, I hope you can be happy.

Talk to your parents about why they want you to wait two years.

Did your parents want you to pick the better one?

Compromise with your family, don't they want to hold their grandchildren?

At the beginning, I just had the same idea as you, the woman urged me to get engaged quickly, but I didn't want to be bound by marriage too early, because once people get married, everything they want to do will be restricted, and it doesn't matter if they want to start a business and fail, it's a big deal to start all over again, once you have a family, you will have scruples, and you can't completely let go of things, so I thought twice about breaking up with her, it's easy to break up and want to renew but it's difficult, and then I looked for her and was rejected by her family, I haven't found a girlfriend for five years since then, for the simple reason that women have become a scarce species, so what I want to convey to you is that even if you don't want to get married, don't choose to break up because the other party is in a hurry.

Feelings are cultivated, and they have to understand each other to go further, so you have to pay attention to one point, why is the woman in a hurry to get married? Nowadays, there is no shortage of girls to have a family, is it because your family is very good? I'm afraid that if it drags on for a long time, you will change your hexagram, if not, then you have to pay more attention, why?

I have a colleague is a good example, the woman was particularly anxious to get married, and my colleague didn't think about anything, so he got married, and had a daughter after marriage, my colleague especially wanted a son, but found out that her wife had a disease that could not have a second child, after understanding that this disease was already there before they got married, my colleague verified the situation with her wife and family, and admitted it, and finally ended up divorced, so there are lessons from the past in this regard, you can do a premarital examination.

Love is vigorous, but marriage will eventually go dull, because plain is true. No matter how old you are 20 or 25 years old, the feelings for you are the same, and when you really enter marriage, the love for you will not change, but the focus of life may change.

Girlfriend's question: My girlfriend's family urged her to get married early, so have you asked her what she thinks? If she says I don't know, but I listen to my parents, it's not able to be independent.

Self-problem: To deal with everything well, there should be the right guidance. If you want to start a business, then you should confess to the woman, to her parents, to your family, and more importantly, to yourself.

Marriage is not a shackle, sincerity is rare and valuable.

I don't think it's right for you to think like this, if you like a woman, you should be responsible for her future life, if you really don't want to marry her, you should also say what you really think in your heart, don't let the other party have any misunderstanding about you, if she is willing to wait for you, you can continue to be together, if you are not willing to wait, then the two people will not delay each other.

You can find a suitable opportunity to communicate with your girlfriend and tell your girlfriend that it is not the time to get married, the two of you are still very young, and you should enjoy your youth and not be bound by marriage.

You should communicate well with the other party and tell the other party that you still don't want to get married and are not ready, so you can tell the other party.

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If you want to get married, if you want to say anything, just say it to your girlfriend, you are about to enter the palace of marriage, for example, I am very excited, I am very grateful for the care of the past three years, bit by bit, thank you for appearing in my life. These are all things that can be said, and they are really feeling.

I've been with my girlfriend for three years and told me what she wanted to say to her when she got married.

Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you. If you want to get married, if you want to say anything, just say it to your girlfriend, you are about to enter the palace of marriage, such as very excited, thank you for taking care of it in the past three years, bit by bit, thank you for appearing in my round life. These are all things that can be said, and they are really feeling.

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I want to tell her about our happiness in these three years.

How should I reply.

Of course, you can say whatever you want, and write a draft before you say it.

Let's just say that the three years of Sai Mo with you are making trouble with each other are the happiest three years in my many faces, thank you very much for appearing in my world, really, really I am lucky. I can meet you, I guess it was me who saved the galaxy in my last life.

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