Why is it that most of the problems of feelings are men asking questions and looking for comfort?

Men like us have strong self-esteem and are reluctant to let the people around us sympathize and comfort. But after all, men and women are human beings, and after encountering emotional damage, their hearts are very painful, while women are more fragile and want to be comforted and sympathized by friends or relatives around them. As for men, for the sake of their own self-esteem, they hold on, and they are not comforted in their hearts to alleviate their pain.

What to do? Tell on the Internet, let people you don't know comfort yourself and help you find a way, anyway, no one knows anyone on the Internet, so that you can maintain your self-esteem and be comforted spiritually.

When a man has a relationship problem, he rarely says it to his friends because of face. And women don't, women have more people to talk to, opportunities to talk to. But as far as confiding is concerned, we all have that need. In relationships, everyone will face all kinds of confusion and incomprehension.

Men also need to decompose and vent. But it may only be through the Internet.

In fact, it is the man who is more vulnerable, and he needs a platform to tell about his misfortune. That's my opinion!

You're a man, aren't you? Men are indeed vulnerable, women are indeed cruel, but women are only cruel to men, and only cruel to those who rob his men, I think so, hehe......

Ay! I said, buddy, are you a little too extreme?

It should be said that men will speak out the pain in their hearts, while women will bury the pain in their hearts.

Hey, it's better to put it this way: men and women are emotionally vulnerable, men and women are equal.

Because men want to find comfort outside, and women want comfort from their lovers.

Are you a man? So I don't see a fragile woman, who is emotionally moved, who is hurt by emotion, who is fragile, and who lacks affection, is naturally cruel.

Men don't talk to friends and don't like to talk about their hearts, while women go back to their best friends to cry and have the comfort of good friends.

Boys are willing to say what is in their hearts, while girls will only hold it in their hearts until the day when they really want to say it! Girls generally don't post on the Internet to talk about emotional things!

I'll know if I've walked around the Mizuki BBS.

People there say.

The love version is a resentful man: because men in love are disadvantaged.

The family version is a resentful woman: because women are a vulnerable group after marriage.

Because of this, women are very cautious and cautious in love, and even torture and abuse their boyfriends to prove their so-called cherishment.

But even so, who can say what happens after getting married? Hey, some people have grievances, and if there are grievances, there are rivers and lakes.

Person! Can you hide?

Haha, let's give it points.

People are animals that can't see through, don't look at men who usually don't care about me, men are still very persistent in feelings, although a little flowery, but everyone has a heart of admiration.

But there are a lot of women who ask the same questions as you, and both men and women are hurt by love, because love is inherently painful and happy.

Did you know that women can silently watch and endure when they see their wounds bleeding, and men can shout to show that men are not vulnerable?

Women seek familiar people, people around them.

Men seek strangers, people online.

This is the difference between men and women, hehe.

I broke up with my girlfriend, and no one wanted to tell me, so I came here to visit the door. People always have to find a place to vent, but men are reluctant to vent in front of their relatives and friends.

I think girls talk more about their feelings on the Internet, and men should be less subtle.

Men, women, urbanites, pretty much the same.

How does your husband usually have a relationship with the leader? Then, in normal times, do you often not participate in the public activities of your colleagues?

Now ability is important, and relationships are even more important. No matter how hard you try, no matter how good your ability is. If you don't have someone who appreciates you, your talent will never be discovered by the boss, but will only be buried here, and all the credit you have done will only become his leader.

The above is what you need to briefly discuss.

I've seen a lot of things like your husband. I've heard quite a bit about it. A lot of things, that's it.

There is no such thing as true fairness and justice in the world. As a man, if his salary is lower than his wife's salary in the same company, it is indeed not easy to accept, mainly because of face, so when necessary, you still need to give your husband enough face, I also know that a woman, for her love and the people she loves, face is not important. This is also where women are great, and where a lot of men can't.

In normal times, in the eyes of others, if you want others to watch, you are still dominated by your husband.

Your husband's hard work and dedication are seen by everyone, and others have a relationship, so what can it do? If you stay in the company for a longer time, you should try to communicate with the boss and say that the last time you heard that you were going to increase your husband's salary. Why hasn't it been added yet?

In this regard, you still need to communicate. After all, it is difficult for the parties themselves to pursue this matter.

You should tell your husband that the leader is just a leader after all, not the boss. Sooner or later, there will be a little. Your contribution will be discovered by the boss, I think your company, the leader should not be that one. If this leader can't see it, the other leaders will look at it.

You can ask him to mention it to the leader in person.

Saying too much, this is not a solution, I think silently find a way to do something! It's the best.

Ignore it, other people's family affairs, it's hard to say! I can still help her analyze the situation.

Don't worry about housework, when the time comes, people will say, "This is what so-and-so said, or so-and-so said right", you will come to the matter, at most it is persuasion.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, so it is enough to be a good listener.

You can be the object of her confiding, she has to deal with her own affairs, and other people's opinions are all references, you don't have to comfort her for anything!

You just listen to it, and you don't have to say much. Such a woman is just looking for someone to talk to, and it's over to vent and vent.

It's best to intervene less in other people's affairs, in case she doesn't like to listen to any sentence, so that you are not a person inside and out.

You said that husbands and wives are noisy.

You see, my parents are arguing.

Haven't you survived your days?

Think about it for the sake of the children.

He is more introverted.

You like the way he expresses it, because you've liked it since you started chatting. Anyway, I liked it. That's fate.

As for how to pull him out, there is no conclusive conclusion, according to your description, he has just experienced a setback, and with his character, it is indeed such a performance, a little unable to let go. Give him some time to fix it. There is no other way.

Yours likes him so much that he doesn't sleep well all night. Hehe.

It is recommended that you refer to a story you learned when you were a child: the general meaning is that the way to make a glass of dirty water clean is to constantly flush the water inside, a kind of space occupation. Hehe.

Go on a date, the more casual the better, more often, who wants you to like him so much. Hehe, I hope that his limited living space has become better since you joined.

I wish you all the best.

Go for what you like.

Passing by the apple orchard, only one apple is allowed, since it is suitable for you, why give up.

It seems hard to comfort, I feel.

Because I am too, and it hurts deeply.

Women chase men with a veil.

You can tease him.

Keep up the hard work, you're all married, hehe.

Since you don't mind that someone once had a girlfriend, he will give up his ex-girlfriend sooner or later, as long as you stay by his side at this time (just out of love, the easiest thing to do), let him know that there is still you behind him, you can do it.

Well, there's a bit of psychology involved.

However, if you give an Aries, you can give it or not, because what zodiac sign has nothing to do with people's personality.

First of all, if a person falls out of love after being hit by a setback, what he wants at this time is quiet, and if you confess or help him now, you may still think that you are laughing at him.

So what you can do now is wait for the timing, and if there's a timing, it's when he's happy.

There are also methods that you can use inch by inch.

Ask him for small things first, and then keep each one bigger than the other, and after 20 pieces, you can confess that the success rate is 90.

Of course, after 15 days o( o

So now wait.

You can choose to support him silently instead of forcing him to like you, which will only add to the chaos. Personal understanding.

To enlighten you, I advise you not to mention that you also like him, which is counterproductive

Tell him that your feelings are also frustrated.

Tell him not to be sad, there are many good girls, and there is one in front of you.

Chat with him and tell him jokes to make him laugh.

Directly throw a shot at him.

Send this email. As follows:

I originally wanted to text you by text, but after thinking about it, I'll send it to you. How about now? I hope I still have the strength to read the email, and I won't make a fuss, hehe.

Don't think it's silly to forget in two days. Take your time, who can say forget if you forget, and you can't forget completely, try to forget. In a daze, then forget about him, and then close your eyes tightly, thinking that one day someone will replace you, so that you don't miss him anymore.

It's fate. I used to think it was a wonderful thing, but now I don't believe it, hehe. The so-called fate is not the superposition effect of many causes and effects, and everything in the present is the result of past choices.

Shut the door, reminisce about the past, sort it out, pack it, and store it, that's your exclusive memory, but don't close it for too long, don't hold it back. Cry, the tears at this time are unbearable, it can't help but overflow from the eyes. Just remember to dry it with a tissue after crying, take a breath, and preferably squeeze out a smiley face.

Laughing, although it doesn't mean I'm happy, at least it shows that I'm strong. When the ideal aesthetics collide with the cruelty of reality, I think it is most important to live the present.

One discrete is to fulfill the next encounter, I don't know if you understand?

Take everything in stride, I send you, today.

Time is definitely an antidote, just don't know how long your ** cycle is.

When you understand the phrase "If life is only as you first see, what is the autumn wind and sad fan", it will probably be almost good.

Finally: May you be well!

Ignoring her is the best comfort, and breaking the thread is the most hurtful.

After a long time, the deep feelings will fade, and time is the best healing medicine.

Hehe. Girls don't like you anymore I'm a girl too Now the situation is similar to your girlfriend With a new love, I started to turn off my phone and no longer pay attention to my old love, but I don't really want to break up Maybe it's possessiveness Maybe it's ......I know I'm sorry for him, but he's really nice ......For just love, all I can say is sorry, I think your girlfriend is the same as me...After all, I have been in a long-distance relationship for a long time with my old love, and I will keep texting for the first few days, and I will want to think about it very much, but after I have a new love, I am reluctant to change the name of the couple and change the avatar, and then I will feel troublesome I will no longer read the text messages he sends, ** no longer answer, I hope he will let go of himself to alleviate the guilt ...... in his heart

Give her up. She has reached this point, and there is nothing to save. It's true.

If a woman does this, there are only two possibilities. Number one, she doesn't like you anymore. Second, she's in love with someone else!

She doesn't take the initiative to delete you, probably because she feels sorry for you. You can't be deleted anymore. You can only forget about her.

After reading it, I can only say that I envy her, it's good that men are so infatuated. She doesn't love you anymore, so let's deduct her, keeping it will only make you feel distressed, she doesn't delete you deduct, 1 is that she doesn't care about you anymore, it doesn't matter if you have a deduction 2 is that she knows you care about her, baby her, and she doesn't want to break up with you completely. Delete her, she is sad, and people who don't cherish you are not worthy of your cherishment.

I wish you happiness in the future.

Love is such a thing. I can't say for sure, see if a person really loves you, don't have any worries, forget about her, and love another person who is worthy of your love! Like me, I've been hurt too.

I also went to love the other, and as a result, he loved me with all his heart, until one day, he who hurt me, immediately came to me and told me not to leave him...

We are all the same, I have been with a girl for 4 years, completely giving, and finally separated because of separation, it's not your fault, maybe you can't blame her, some things are much worse than dreams, we all experience the same thing, I can understand this mood, I know how you feel now, that kind of powerlessness that hurts to the bones, this kind of thing, no one can help you, only you can help you, what others say is someone else's opinion, I haven't experienced such pain, I haven't experienced this feeling of powerlessness, I can never really say what others feel in my heart, now we have been separated for three months, she is still my friend, that kind of distant friend, no contact, brother, how can we persuade you if you dare not face the reality, everything is useless, you must know that there should not be only one person who puts you in your heart, parents, brothers and friends, each of them is someone who cares about you very much in your life, in fact, now I have learned to cherish myself, which is also good, ask a not very good question, It's not to discourage you, what if you meet again, take a step back, even if you reconcile again, can you still be the same as before? , Brother, experienced, I know that only you can make your heart pass, it is much better to face reality than to escape, don't blame me for not complying with your conditions, I answered the question as a boy, I thought a lot when I saw this question, and you also shared it for me when I said it, thank you, I hope you face your inner ...... as soon as possible