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You're not here to give points... Ha ha. I'm strong in.
I can responsibly say that you have succeeded, girls usually don't say "a little" to men who are not interested, so you just have to take it step by step. Go with the flow, don't listen to what others say is so complicated, in fact, you just melt her with your own love by feeling, how to melt don't want me to teach you, more care, more thoughtful, more encouragement, more vision of the future... Say something practical, don't talk about what it would be like to be together and create some mood for her, of course, I hope you are a responsible man, don't deceive her.
Friends bless you ...
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Yes, everything depends on your own efforts. For a girl like her, you must be patient, calm down, and don't be too anxious. Give him a certain amount of space, you will have a light relationship first, you can show your concern for him from every bit of life, and send a glove or something in winter.
Don't be in a hurry, that will make her feel pressured, it will make him feel tired, and then it will be a big deal. After this faint period of time, find a suitable opportunity, you will succeed, the key is that you grasp the timing of this opportunity, it is very important, to see how he feels about you and changes in the process of this relationship. Hehe, I wish you success, you must firmly believe that you can only succeed if you have firm beliefs.
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You're too anxious, she likes you, but what she needs is considerate love instead of developing so quickly, after all, you haven't been together for a long time, you don't know each other well if you're a secure person, you just treat her as a lover, if you're too anxious, it will make people think you're just a physical desire.
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You can't eat and drink plenty of water before you're ready to go to bed, and you can't eat because an upset stomach can affect the quality of your sleep. Don't listen to some heavy metals**. In addition, the most important thing is the light, take the mobile phone away, the light in the bedroom must be soft, if it is a fluorescent lamp, then it is easy to make the body's photoreceptor cells feel that it is already daytime, so it aggravates insomnia.
Finally, we have to look at insomnia correctly, if it is not long-term insomnia, as long as we ensure that the weekly insomnia time is the same as the normal time, the repair of the body is the same It is recommended that you read the book "Sleep Revolution", I hope it will help you!
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Did you know that insomnia can make you fat? Teach you a trick to say goodbye to insomnia easily.
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One leg movement, insist on 30 seconds, sufficient cerebral blood supply, strong sleepiness, and sweet sleep!
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If you really can't sleep, get up and read a book and listen to it. Be active, don't be sad, you can't sleep when you're sad.
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First of all, how old are you?
If you're still on your way to study, then I don't think it really matters.
I don't see that your description of the problem mentions that there are big changes in the family, and it is not that there are any bad things in your studies that affect the direction of the development of your life, why do you take things so seriously, and if you are vulnerable to even a small blow, then what can you do if there are big twists and turns in your love life? For the vast majority of people, the blow of this life may be the emotional twists and turns.
Do you feel that life is bitter, do you feel lost and miserable because of these small blows?
What others do about these problems can only be enlightened, and those who say that they can be solved are all lies. Who knows yourself better than yourself, don't you? There is no way for others to clear all the problems you encounter at once, and there is no way to change your view of these things, change your view of the world, change your view of certain people, that is more difficult than solving the problems you encounter.
The biggest motivation for everyone to grow up is some setbacks and some unbearable experiences, there is no way, this is the most direct catalyst for maturity and growth; And it has nothing to do with age, maybe you are 40 years old, but you have been smooth sailing all your life, so your growth is still lacking something, don't you say, some of them have not encountered you, you will never experience the sorrow and happiness in it. We all need some "setbacks", some embarrassing things to make us grow, related to what you encounter, maybe the price to pay for this is greater, and the lucky ones can be smaller.
But I think that those who can live with great pain and pressure, those who have been hit one after another and have broken their hearts and have a sunny and healthy attitude towards the world, they are the most successful.
I don't know what happened to you, it may be different from mine, everyone has a small ledger that records these bits and pieces, but there is also a little bit of the same feeling that the end of the world has fallen into the world; All I can tell you is my attitude towards setbacks--- smiling at the things you want to cry about, whether they are happening or remembering, I never see them as painful burdens in life, but as another experience in my upbringing.
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Do what you love to do and leave the rest alone.
Find friends to hang out and have as crazy fun as possible!
Don't overcomplicate life, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge!
Strengthen your mental health and read some books on this subject.
Life was very hard, because you were looking at these painful things with a magnifying glass. Think more about those happy things!
Cultivate your own interests, so that life will be more interesting, interest is casual, and it does not have to be those utilitarian interests, some people are looking for interests and are still thinking about whether it is good for their future!
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People are fragile, is it so difficult to understand and understand if they are vulnerable?
Please accept your vulnerability first, and then solve the problem one by one.
You're only 24 years old, and it's too late to start all over again.
The pressure is breathless, so let's stop pushing ourselves and give ourselves a little space to relax.
No one stipulates that you must resist pressure, after all, people are alive, and happiness is the goal, isn't it?
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Don't worry, come on, do you have a goal, let your parents be proud of you, or realize your childhood dreams, first break down your small goals, such as doing the most important things first, don't let yourself be idle, set yourself a task that can be completed one by one, little by little, you will find that the world is getting better and better. Come on, your parents, your friends, and I believe in you.
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What's so stressful?
If you don't know how to enjoy your current life, if you don't know how to be busy, you will have to work hard all your life, so when you are young, you have to relax when you are young, go to travel, sing and sing, and bubble bar.
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Uh......Adjust your mentality Isn't there a saying on the Internet that comfort is reserved for the dead In addition, you can find some more ways to vent.
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Relax, in fact, what is stress?? Where is the reason for the stress?? The pressure is given to you by yourself, you think about things a lot, you have a lot of things on your mind, relax your mind, think about it, think about it's not a big deal, look back and see how difficult the past is, what else can't be passed by gritting your teeth???
As for the boredom of life, there is no choice, change your lifestyle.
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Don't you have a dead friend? It's useless for us to say anything, if there is a dead friend he or she is the most effective to comfort you.
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Everyone has pressure, this is life, I experienced it when I was 15 years old, there is no freedom, only a succession of walls and pressure, get used to it, get used to it, who is different.
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Go and vent, climb down the mountain, look at the sea, talk about your heart, talk about intercession, talk about philosophy, and tell each other about your feelings.
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Everyone has to experience stumbles and stumbles when they grow up, and as the saying goes: only when you eat hard can you become a superior person.
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Stressed? If you really can't bear it, you must learn to relax yourself, listen more, and blend in. Enjoy it a lot.
In the face of those small difficulties, we must persevere, and if we really can't be eternal, we will stand up and revolutionize!
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Who doesn't have something unsatisfying in life? How can it be wonderful without experiencing these ups and downs? The happiest thing in life is not how much happiness others bring you, but how much happiness you send to others!
Remember, you have to live with a smile every day, even if you are sad, you have to smile, because no one will care about you when you are sad, but those who care about you are reluctant to make you sad, so please be happy and live happily every day!
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I don't know what kind of pressure makes you feel this way, but in fact, life is so simple, you don't need to think about it so complicated, as long as you want to open something, everything will pass. There are inevitably many setbacks and troubles in life, and of course there are many choices, and choosing what you like is the best choice! Be brave and be the best version of yourself!
You will discover how wonderful life is!
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Who doesn't have stress?? Life gives you challenges and difficulties, but at the same time it will open another skylight for you! I'm stressed enough!
But I know that people only reach a height by hard work, materially, spiritually! Blindly complain, pour bitter water, no one will sympathize with you! What about your goals?
If you fail, you complain, and the more you complain, the more distressed and the more you fail! A vicious circle is over!!
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This situation shows that you are an introvert, otherwise you will go to various entertainment places to vent and find happiness and enjoyment, but now you can't, you can only endure it yourself, and you actually have a lot of ways, that is, you give yourself time to change all this unpleasantness, don't put pressure on yourself, and see how happy you look at disdainful people can be happy.
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Everyone has stress in this world, big and small. Or others don't say it. All you have to do now is look at the point and don't take anything too seriously.
It's good to have goals, and sometimes you have to give yourself space. After all, the body is its own. You can try to vent moderately, find someone to talk to, etc.
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If you have pressure, you have to release it.,After work every day.,KK songs with friends or something.。 Learn to look down on things and look at them smaller, don't think crankily every day, and live every day to the fullest, there are many stressed people in the world.
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Everything is going in a good direction, you think like this, maybe now is the lowest point in your life, but it also shows that every step you take in the future is climbing to a high place, and you have to give yourself hope.
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Find something you like to do, and the wound will heal over time.
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The more you try to forget a person, the more you may remember him in the end. The best way to forget a person you love is to fall in love with another person, but this method is too difficult, and it is already a very lucky thing to be able to really fall in love with someone in this world It is enough to cherish each other's memories, time will slowly dilute everything!
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I also just fell out of love, and I'm going crazy thinking about him. Texted him and he didn't reply. My heart hurts, I'm about to suffocate...
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In fact, a hundred words from others can't compete with yourself to figure it out, because no one can empathize with anyone's feelings, even people who have the same experience will not understand your pain at this time, even if I am the same at the moment, I am also experiencing such pain, but this is a process we must go through, isn't it? The end of the relationship is the end, if the fate comes to an end, what do you have to be involved in, just because your heart is still looking forward to his return, because the heart is not dead, you will always think of him, in the end, feelings are each other's habits, you are just used to his days by your side, used to having him care about you, and having him accompany you through the most painful days, but now everything has changed, everything has to be borne by yourself, people must learn to be independent, so that there will be better people to cherish you. In fact, time is the best thing, and you should try to keep yourself busy so that you don't feel uncomfortable.
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At first, it was like this, not to mention being alone, even if something you like very much falls away, you will be sad. Don't force yourself to do something, just give yourself a few days to think about her, to be decadent, and just come here for a few days. I've just fallen out of love and I've just adjusted.
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It's better to lose your memory!! Amnesia doesn't know anything... How nice that is.
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Then go and relax.
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This is still the beginning, and I am still thinking about him after two years, and I don't want to fall in love, he has been with me for two days, I have been thinking about him for two years, and when I think I am about to forget him, he will jump out of my mind and make me sad for a long time.
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