A song by Chen Qizhen that makes you take it back What is the meaning of the victory of stubborn lov

Let you take it back", which probably means a faint blessing, Mr. Chen's song is this kind of little freshness, very simple, no need for anything vigorous, and nothing unforgettable, just let you feel at ease when you think of me, this is the meaning of this song.

The Triumph of Stubborn Love", which is about the other party - if you want all my freedom, know everything about me, ask me only you - but even ignore my thoughts, in that case, I will be sad, uncomfortable, and unwanted. Even if I love you, accept all your requests, devote myself to you, and keep my eyes on you forever, the result is not necessarily what you want: I have become a selfless me, a me who doesn't care about anything else.

What's more, "even if I love you, I may not fall in love with you", this kind of love, maybe not.

My own opinion, I love Mr. Chen, I hope it will be useful

How to say it, maybe everyone has a different understanding of Chen Qizhen, sometimes you don't need to understand it at all, it's good to like it lightly. The victory of stubborn love is said to be because of feelings, so control may end up with the ending you don't want, even if you are in love, you have to be free. I understand.

There's no need to understand, just listen quietly. Everyone's understanding is determined by everyone's experience.

Stubborn love refers to very much love, very much love = non-love, my past and future As far as the eye can see, all are your imaginary enemies My concern **Your crippled self-confidence I am your undoubted decision It shows that he cares about her very much, but it is really a bit too much.

Who allowed you to violate my memories Rummaging through my drawer to check for wounds Even if I love you, I may not fall in love with you Gentle violence and deception power This means that even though I love you, I still can't accept the controlling behavior that you seem to care about. The ending is also very understandable、、My freedom is all given to you, the good and the bad are all given up。 That's the triumph of your stubborn love, and maybe the ending you don't want......I gave you my freedom、I gave up a lot for you、Is this the original intention of your stubborn love?

Apparently not. This is psychologically very loving = non-love, love can bring warmth, but too much love can make people feel pressured, because distance and independence are a kind of respect for personality, which is better than unprincipled love.

There is a definition in psychology that says that in modern people's interactions, there is a behavior called "non-loving behavior".

The so-called "non-love" means that someone has engaged in non-loving plundering of those closest to them in the name of love.

This behavior often occurs between husband and wife, between lovers, between mother and son, between father and daughter, that is, between the closest people in the world.

It is a coercive control in the name of love, forcing others to do what they want.

Distance and independence are a kind of respect for personality, and this respect should be preserved, even among those closest to them. Whether it is between parents and children, or between husbands and wives for many years, once there is no such distance, this kind of respect, and beyond this scale, they are no longer independent of each other, and there is alienation. Then, the seemingly harmonious relationship is not far from collapse.

I guess that's what the teacher was trying to say.

"This song was written around '03. I use a very bystander character to write about my friend's love experience, others think it's funny, but they themselves are very painful, maybe one party loves the other party too much, so they treat the other party as their own, hoping to fully enter his world, this very special possessiveness, in the eyes of others is extremely crazy and romantic, but I want to say that if I am in such a love relationship, I may not be able to survive (laughs)! So I tried to explain a crazy love story with a more relaxed attitude, and used it to persuade everyone to persuade themselves that the relationship of love is not forced in a stubborn way.

This is Chen Qizhen talking about the song "The Victory of Stubborn Love" in an interview with HitoRadio on February 26, 2009.

It's not Chen Qizhen's own story.

But there's still something very, very strange.

In 2000 she sang it at the witch's shop.

But he said that he wrote it around 03.

2004 RTHK recording The lyrics have not been changed.

In 2006, the lyrics of the Guangzhou Singers Association have not changed.

September 29, 2007 Singapore The song A Piece of Summer was rearranged and reworded.

Hehe, landlord, you're putting a hodgepodge of her lyrics.

Too smart to lie in your closet.

Jiufen's coffee shop.

Inspiration just read it all the way, and it seemed to be okay, so I named him "January Love".

The Perfect Man Code Right.