Why am I so stingy in love, how to change

I think it's normal for you to monetize this way.

I've had that experience before, and the guy was interesting to me, but I'll start with that.

But afterwards, I still didn't want to see him, and I didn't even wait for the result to run away, I don't think it's stingy, maybe it's the shyness of girls.

If you have suffered too big a failure and take the initiative, you will feel disgraced.

But it's not your fault, and it's not going to last long, and as long as you put him down a little bit in your mind, you won't care that much.

You're running away now because you're still concerned and you're afraid of losing face.

It's not that you don't want to see her, in fact, you still want to see her more in your heart, but you don't know how to face it! I just can't figure out how to make the other person like you. So you can escape

Confessing failure makes you feel like a failure, a shameless.

You care even more about what the other person thinks of you.

Love is a thing since the other party doesn't feel for you.

Even if you ask yourself 10,000 whys, ask 10,000 what the other person asks.

There's no answer, so you're right, and the other party is right, as long as you know what I'm talking about.

Or that obstacle in your heart can be removed.

And what I'm trying to say is that you don't really have to be stingy or anything.

On the contrary, you have to be generous, you have to be natural when you see the other person, and you have to take the initiative to talk to the other person.

You have to forget that you have confessed to the other person.

When you talk to the other person, you have to keep thinking in your heart, "Don't think that if you reject me, I won't dare to face you."

In the future, you have to improve yourself, do better than before, and try to make the other person like you, but don't seem to care about the other person, otherwise the other person will not cherish it.

And what I'm trying to tell you is, why don't you just say you're a boy and a girl? I hit "each other" dozens of times

It feels super weird.

The above is purely my thoughts, I hope it helps.

Then I'm really talking about it from a boy's point of view.

Summary. Kiss, don't worry, I'll reply one by one, I've become three heads and six arms! Since typing takes some time, I'm sorry to delay you a little, thank you for your patience

What if love makes me more and more stingy, but I don't want to do this, and I don't want to affect my mood because of his little things.

Kiss, don't worry, I'll reply one by one, I've become three heads and six arms! Since typing takes some time, I'm sorry to delay you a little, thank you for your patience

Hello dear, happy to answer for you. First of all, I can understand your behavior, in general, in a relationship, girls usually have less sense of security than boys, and the solution is very simple, insist on a period of time, understand each other, understand, it will not be like this, and possessiveness is the most basic in love, you can have possessiveness, but everything must have a degree, not too much, of course, this is different from person to person, some people like to stick to themselves, and some people like to have their own private space.

In a relationship, whether it is a boy or a girl, there will be times when they make mistakes in some small things and small details of life, and some boys will respond to girls with emotional language, behavior and performance. This is very fatal in long-term relationships. Similar girls occasionally forget to bring their wallets and keys, and will accuse her impatiently of making trouble for their own run.

The girl forgot to bring an umbrella, got sick in the rain, and didn't care about the girl's condition at the first time, so she had to fight with the girl for "not bringing an umbrella" and lose her temper. Even when there is a conflict or a small quarrel with a girl, he scolds her loudly and scolds her, and he can't help but break up emotionally. Once the girl has some small mistakes, she will be emotionally treated, unilaterally and constantly complain to the girl, complain about the other party's incomprehension, and blindly ask the other party for emotional value.

With negative emotions all over your body, the girl may be tolerant of you at first, but over time, your patience will be worn out by you, and you will become burdened and tired of the relationship. Think about it from another perspective, including yourself, no one wants to fall in love with an emotional child, can't communicate, and has to accept your child's illness every day. In the face of a person who is always emotional and asks for value from you, normal people will slowly stay away, not to mention a long-term relationship, almost all girls hope that each other can be in a state of mutual tolerance and understanding.

Falling in love itself is to make yourself happy and happy, but it is inevitable that there will be contradictions, and the most precious thing is that after there are contradictions, you can solve them and continue to be together, the important thing is the process of running-in.

Kissing doesn't need to be too emotional, don't use your self-judgment to measure whether the other party loves you, don't take love too seriously, life is not only about the immediate reluctance, but also poetry and distance, don't waste too much time on invalid information.