Why I m always a loser in the face of love

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have failed, you have experience, then you are not far from success hungry.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't fail, it's because she's not worthy of you. She's not human, in fact, she doesn't feel good in her heart, pay attention to your own body. It is best not to smoke.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Perhaps, you don't know how to love yet. There is no right or wrong in emotional matters, only suitability. Only after you wear your own shoes can you know if they are the most suitable pair.

    So, don't put too much pressure on yourself, take it easy. What should come will always come to you. In other words, if you face it with a negative attitude, it is completely unnecessary and useless.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are things in the world that cannot be chosen, and not choosing is also a choice.

    Maybe love is just because of loneliness and needs to find someone to love, even if there is no ending.

    The real cause is when a needle falls from the sky and is inserted into a grain of rice, and this is the cause for lovers to meet.

    True happiness is free.

    It's funny, people always say that love is completely selfless giving, but if you think about it, love is definitely selfish.

    If someone asks me how I can be happy, I tell him, "The first step is to find out what you like to do in the world; The second step is to find someone to pay you to do it. ”

    Happy people are good at forgetting what they have given to others, but they will always remember what others have given them.

    A can, a lifetime with only one pull ring in love.

    If the people who love you don't love you the way you want them to, it doesn't mean they don't love you with all their hearts.

    Don't look for friends because of loneliness, lonely people please learn to taste loneliness, remember that even if you are lonely, under the dark night sky in the distance, there must be someone like you, lonely people are different, but the starry sky you look up at is the only one, someone to share this feeling with you, for this you are not really lonely. ,

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My love was also bumpy and failed. Or was snatched away by a friend.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is a sad fairy tale.

    Anyone who has read it has left regrets to a greater or lesser extent, and when we finish reading it, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything.

    It doesn't hurt when we give up someone who loves you very much.

    Because we are likely to have a relationship with this person but have no part, and it is painful when we give up someone you love very much.

    Because it is very likely that we have a relationship with this person but have no relationship, when we fall in love with someone who does not love you, that is the most painful, because it is very likely that we have no relationship with this person and have no part.

    If there is fate, time and space are not distances, if there is no fate, even if they get together, they can't understand, you don't have to care too much about everything, and you don't need to force it.

    Let's just let everything go with the flow.

    We all believe that we will meet a better love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Fall in love with someone you shouldn't love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because you are too attached to feelings.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Character issues. I don't know how to deal with love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you only know that no matter when and where, whether you are in a good or bad mood, you want this person to accompany you, the real feeling is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, there is no requirement that the relationship is to give, not just want to get.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no right or wrong to love someone, only whether you want to or not. Love can be individual or mutual. Love alone is unrequited love; And mutual love is love.

    Love does not distinguish between right and wrong, as long as you like someone in your heart, love someone, whether the other party loves you or not, and whether the other party can be with you or not, it no longer matters. Love without regrets, love sincerely, and love frankly. Perhaps, after many years, you will find that the best of what was once has quietly settled a nest around you.

    Love has always been with you, from the moment you have love, until eternity.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Actually, everyone is pretty much the same! How could it be said otherwise.

    True love is hard to find!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Oh, you have walked into the misunderstanding, are girls who judge people by their looks worthy of love? If a girl is worthy of your love, no matter how much you give, it is worth it, if it is not worthy of your love.

    Failure is failure, what is there to be sentimental, you should be happy.

    I'm glad you didn't sink deeper. Remember one sentence: gold will always shine, and men will always get an erection.

    It's not very elegant, but it's pretty good.

    Men don't necessarily have to find someone they love.

    You should find someone who loves yourself, if you don't love yourself, you will only be sad, and loving yourself will never make you sad. Don't ask your girlfriend to be beautiful and find someone who loves you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm a failure better than you! Eldest brother.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find the right girlfriend for you

    Not every love is for you

    In fit two individuals to each other

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't think about these things so sadly, my love has never been successful, it's not that we're too stupid, or the other party is not good, it's just that we haven't found someone who really understands us, and when fate arrives, there will naturally be a favorite other half, so don't worry! Be happy, and one day you'll find your true love! Take advantage of the opportunity and fate, come on! ~~

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

    We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

    And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In love, there is no such thing as failure and success. Just because two people are not suitable, or have not really fallen in love, I believe that after everyone has experienced the most beautiful baptism in the world, there will eventually be a person who is most suitable to go together.

    If you don't have it now, it's not that you don't deserve it, it's that you deserve better.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Life is all about finding love.

    The first is the person you love the most, the second is the person who loves you the most, and the third is the person you spend your life with.

    First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love;

    Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most;

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not your favorite or the person who loves you the most, it's just the person who appears at the most suitable time.

    How many people will you be in someone else's life?

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he is with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

    Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is—love his good and love his bad

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    What about you? How many did you find?

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again?

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