Why did four years of college make you boring?

Because I have no hobbies and ideals, I don't have any friends, and I can't find happiness! Secondly, lack of physical labor, too boring, nothing to pass the time, feeling that people have nothing to do in life!

Lost love, in order to fill the emptiness and pain, addicted to games, because of addiction to games, wasted academic friendship and family, because of the waste of oneself, so failed in all aspects, including several relationships after that, and even went astray, online gambling, owed hundreds of thousands of debts, was notorious by collection, and then the three views had problems, and began to escape, from sunshine and liveliness to avoid all unnecessary conversations, autism, and inferiority. When I meet a girl I like, I only feel that I am not worthy, and when I encounter a favorite job, I feel that I am not competent, and I don't even dare to interview. In just a few years, the trajectory of life has changed dramatically.

Experiencing too many bad things, fighting, slashing, taking drugs. When will I be able to walk with my head up? Once you go astray, it's hard to get back on track.

I think it's because I'm lazy, I'm too lazy to join a club, I'm too lazy to travel, I'm too lazy to get in touch with my classmates, and I'm addicted to games every day.

For a young person who thinks he is older, experiencing a failed relationship is much more frustrating than the frustration of work. The feelings of older young people are not just as simple as falling in love, they are directly related to marriage and life. A failed relationship leads directly to your outlook on life.

It doesn't necessarily change from self-confidence to low self-esteem, but it will definitely change your attitude and perception of things.

As soon as I stepped on campus, I was disappointed that everything was different from what I imagined. Since then, I have been in a mess, and when I finally woke up, I suddenly realized that it seemed that overnight, four years of college had passed, and with it, my precious youth had passed. The only thing that survived was the body that had aged for four years.

Because I am a medical major, in addition to studying every day, I also come into contact with surgical instruments and corpses every day, how can I still make myself a lively and interesting person?

Since I chose philosophy as a major rich in life philosophy in college, no matter how interesting my soul is, I am such a person, and this is my choice because I like it.

Four years of college is not a long time, it is not a short time, you have wasted more time than you imagined, as a person who has come over, I also have a deep understanding of these, today we are mainly to share, in the university should not do a few things, especially for those who are ready to enter the university of the younger students to take caution.

First of all, don't pretend to be a rich second generation and be greedy for vanity. In college, there are always some people who were born in ordinary families, and the monthly living expenses are thousands of dollars, and he is thinking about those trendy brands, such as Adidas, Nike, or which new mobile phone he likes, etc., over time, his financial pressure will seem very heavy, here I can only warn that spending money can only do what you can, after all, you are spending the money that your parents have worked hard to earn, and no one wants to see their children and squander the money they earn.

The second point is not to take confusion as an excuse for decadence, in fact, it is normal to be confused, because at this age, there are many people who think very negatively, saying that he is very confused and uses confusion as an excuse, and then goes to the decadence of peace of mind, hiding in the dormitory all day long, playing games, brushing mobile phones, doing these things is simply like being drunk and forgetting to eat, who knows that in the four years of college, this kind of behavior has consumed your willpower, self-discipline, and stumbling for you to go out of society, and lay the root of the curse.

And then the third is to often mix with these classmates at the bar and wine table, saying that it is to make connections and the like, like to drink, like to party, like to show their alcohol consumption at the wine table, after all, this is the student stage of study, and you don't need to socialize so early, which can only slowly drag down your body.

As long as you stick to the general policy as a student, you can move forward towards the normal trajectory, and I believe that you can live the ideal state of life you want in the future.

I think it's about falling in love, in the 4 years of college, the last thing to do is to fall in love, usually the love on campus will not last long, and the two people are likely to face the pain of breaking up after graduation.

There is no need to take various certificates, and many times when you blindly go to take the certificate like everyone else, you will find that these certificates are really useless after graduation.

I think the last thing to do in college is to compare classmates with each other, and to go shopping in your spare time, which is very unnecessary.

I'm a non-graduate student, so let me give you my opinion.

What happens next depends on what kind of lifestyle you choose.

1.It's never too late for the prodigal son to turn back, to be honest, the most important thing in life is to learn, many people don't match their majors after graduation, but people can still be competent, because with the change of roles, people can become very good through learning, so no matter what happened before, it's never too late to start learning from now.

2.If you want to go to graduate school, you can, if you haven't studied hard before, then study hard from now on, there are such examples, my friend has been doing things outside before, and decided to go to graduate school in his junior year, and now people are studying very well, and it should be no problem to go to graduate school. So it's never too late to change.

3.What about the future is never about looking at the past, the past is all over, regret is useless, grasping the present is the truth, starting to make changes now, the future will still benefit, if the present is still the same as before, then it will inevitably achieve nothing.

4.What kind of life you choose to live will inevitably endure what kind of hardships and tribulations. Heaven will not be cheap to anyone, you are comfortable now and you will be miserable later. After the pain now, there must be long-term comfort.

Most college students never seriously consider what kind of person they want to become, what kind of work they are willing to do after graduation, and most of their growth is passive growth with little effect.

Therefore, college students should first and constantly think about a question that is: what kind of life they are living now, what are their long-term goals, how far is there between their goals and reality, what kind of difficulties are there, and based on long-term goals, they should clarify their medium-term goals and short-term goals, and make reasonable life plans, four-year plans and annual plans for college.

It is said that the country is easy to change, and the temperament is difficult to change, in fact, the temperament can be changed, although it is more difficult to change, but after the success of the change, it will bring a huge good effect to your life.

Self-control can be cultivated, and for reasons of space, I will mainly talk about one point here: reward mechanism; The goal is decomposed, the phased success is given a phased reward, and the self-confidence that is constantly built will continue to improve one's self-control.

Because college is not like high school, someone arranges the time for you, you just need to execute it, the university must be able to arrange its own time, in this case, some students who are not very self-controlled will waste their time.

Compared with junior high and high school, the learning environment of college is relatively free, there are more opportunities for self-decision-making, and the influence of the surrounding environment is easy to make people fall into a vacillating situation. This has led to polarization in the university, where those who work very hard and those who are lazy are still lazy.