Hate yourself like never before, how it should be

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Someone is tormented every day why the ground in front of his house always does not grow crops, he hates, hates himself for being poor, hates himself for getting poorer, and he never carries a hoe.

    Do you hate yourself for not doing what you should have done? Then you can start doing it now.

    Do you hate yourself for not doing what you did well? Then think about why, just do the same thing well in the future?

    Do you hate yourself for having a bad relationship with the people around you? Then think about the problem, is it your own reason or someone else's reason, and find a way to solve it?

    As a cocoon, you are torturing yourself.

    In the past, if you didn't do a lot of things well.

    Why not do it well from now.

    Your own image needs to be established by yourself.

    Your self-confidence also needs to be accumulated by yourself.

    Does hate work?

    You are not worse than others, and the difference lies in what you think and do not do enough.

    It's nice to be able to hate yourself instead of complaining.

    It's good that you didn't make any other excuses for yourself.

    Instead, they take the initiative to bear the consequences.

    That's why you hate yourself.

    Escape is not the way to go.

    Be brave and face it.

    Everything will be fine.

    It's all about how you do it today.

    What do you do tomorrow.

    I think you'll like yourself more and more.

    The point is that you can't beat yourself up.

    Be sure to stick with it.

    Tell yourself that it's not bad, and you didn't do well before because you were young and ignorant.

    Say goodbye to the past.

    Everything that came before should be the price of growth.

    Buy lessons with youth.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Nothing. I hate myself too.

    I feel like I'm particularly annoyed with crime.

    I wish I had myself in the house.

    PS: In layman's terms.

    This is called masochism. It is a mild form of masochism.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm myself, there's nothing to hate, even if I hate it, it's useless, no matter how much I hate it, it's still like that.

    In addition, killing oneself is not a crime, but a death in the course of committing a crime, and it is exempt from accountability (the law stipulates that it is just nonsense, and there is no way to pursue it if you want to).

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Upstairs was well said.

    I would like to add one more point.

    Please make an appointment with the funeral home in advance

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why sleep for a long time before you die, you will sleep forever after death.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is not illegal to kill yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What's the use of you hating yourself?

    That's the reality.

    What can you do?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What is a bug|?|

    Being is everything, and everything is for being.

    No one ever said about me"Handsome", can't I marry a daughter-in-law?

    If you are hurt by gossip, learn to look away.

    If you think so, you really shouldn't.

    In the vast world, can you find the second one?"***"?

    In the vast world, can you find the second one?"You"?

    It's simply unique!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You shouldn't have this idea, what kind of concept is it to hate yourself?

    If you have psychological problems, you have to communicate with your friends around you, and nothing you can't get by!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't listen to the first floor. Everyone has an ingredient worth waiting for and being loved! Moreover, no one in this world is a mistake.

    Come to think of it, you're actually pretty good too! You have to learn to love yourself, so that others can love you well. Otherwise, those who love you will be sad.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Find out that mistake and never make it again, after all, no one does not make mistakes, and then you can become a good person, even a good person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe you're not very gregarious.

    Attend more parties.

    Always dress up.

    Work hard. Accept more praise from others so that you don't hate yourself anymore, you don't love yourself, and even God doesn't bother to hug you! So, love yourself!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's just that you don't have any ability. Help others, do more good deeds, and you will feel very good.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't like it, you will beat him, and if you beat him, you will become a good friend

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Who told you that it was a mistake for you to exist?

    If no one says it, it's not a mistake.

    If anyone has any, it's because he has a problem with his brain.

    If you say that about yourself, then you are really too full to live with yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Seeing it, you must not be very old. I've had that thought of yours before. Now that I'm 21 years old, maybe it's because my mind has matured, so now I look at my former self, that kind of thinking, that way of doing things, and that kind of opinion, and now I feel so naïve.

    You have a good appearance, it's a kind of capital, why hate yourself. Everyone has their own shortcomings, so why not be tolerant of yourself. To be honest, I used to be a member of the Appearance Association.

    It's just that it's very important to looks, although there is also such a tendency now, hehe. But it's much better than before. I'm also bad, very caring, very selfish, and can't tolerate my girlfriend having intimate behavior with other boys.

    Despite this, I love myself because I know that I am unique in the world for my strengths and weaknesses. So, don't get bothered, just go with the flow and just go with it. When you get older, you'll feel how boring this question you asked a long time ago is.

    Hehe. Be inclusive. Remember, the sun is new every day.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I also hated myself, so I searched the Internet for this question, and I saw this statement of yours. I mainly hate my naivety, irrationality, my inertia, and my stupidity. Because I'm more passive in my studies, and I'm not very good professionally, and now I hate myself and feel like I'm bad, that's all.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Can't help but want to reply, although this topic has been a long time ago. Personally, I am against this adoption, provided that it varies from person to person, and that most people are sincere, good, and kind, and that loving themselves is good for life. Greed and selfishness are just human desires, and good control is not bad.

    But I know myself, I have always been a villain, this is related to my father's use of the wrong education method since I was a child, I always want to crush the current interests of mankind, always want to eliminate the people who treated me badly in the past, and always want to introduce advanced ideas to others. I can only keep telling myself that I can't be a bad person, I can't take revenge, I cherish the people around me now, and it is because I hate myself that I will do good deeds. My ostensible ideal is to write a few good **, but in fact, the real ideal is to eliminate vested interests and become new vested interests myself.

    I don't know what love is, I can't understand it, I know that other people are loving me, and I can only imitate other people's actions to show how to love. That's how I kept pushing myself to love others, and the only motivation was to hate myself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Be true to yourself and leave worldly perspectives behind.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Keep a good attitude, acne is also based on the mood, don't get angry, the more angry you are, the more prosperous the beans will grow. Go to the hospital**, dispense some medicine, and if you usually eat, pay attention not to eat greasy things, don't eat sweets, and avoid spicy food. Eat some light food and pay attention to your work and rest time.

    To prevent constipation, pay attention to detoxification, beans are also a toxin, there is no way to discharge the body, just come directly to the face, cutting off the hair is a good way, because the hair covers the face, the hair is dirty, and it is easy to grow beans when touched often. In addition, to keep your face clean, you can clean your face once around noon, basically three times a day. When winter comes, you can take some fruit vinegar to wash your face and enhance your resistance.

    However, if you use vinegar, it is easy to cause enlarged pores, so use some astringent lotion to shrink pores. Drink plenty of water, keep a good mood, and the beans will disappear, and war beans are a long-term thing.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's easier to get acne if you're unhappy, and emotions are also important! I've used the military sacrifice, it's okay!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The growth environment of the previous generation is too different from ours, so we can't ask too much, you just take it as fate, there is really no good solution, ps: My father is the same as your mother, so I can understand your feelings very well, but there is really no good way, I have talked to my father countless times, but he is still the same, so, please treat your husband well, he is the most important person in your future life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I'm almost the same as you, I hate my mother more than you, but I can't help it, my mother and your mother are almost the same as rural women, my mother scolds people every day, scolding those words are not listened to, right and scolding, wrong and scolding, my family conditions are very bad, I used to go out to work for my sister to read, and now my sister is working for me to read, I just came back to school to study and was very diligent, but every day when I came home to review my mother's non-stop scolding, super annoying, I couldn't concentrate on reading, super unbearable and went to war with her again, alas, Annoying, I don't want to hear her right now. Bullshit mother's love, I don't have a childhood!!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Talk to your dad, and then tell dad to talk to your mom again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Maybe it's polite and euphemistic, maybe it's nothing to say, as long as you stick to the point of accuracy, you will work harder.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Tell him that you are "in love" and that your boyfriend is very good to you. If he still calls, in every conversation, he deliberately mentions what happened to his boyfriend, in short, it shows that you care about this virtual boyfriend, if he is interesting, because it will disappear.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Let's have a meal together, buckle the nostrils... Put it in a bowl... Eat it... I don't think he'll be pestering you anymore... If you still can't... Such a powerful person can only say that the mourning has changed...

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I'm embarrassed to want to hang up?? What makes sense.

    Don't take anything and it's gone!!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can talk to him later.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's not simple.

    1 bar ** cord unplugged or shut down.

    2 People like him like that kind of unpredictable girl, so you come in reverse3 Find someone to beat him.

    4 The most awesome, he called to meet you, counted him in front of many people, he said that he was useless, and finally slapped him, turned around and walked and said to him, "If you call again in the future, I will sue you for sexual harassment."

    If you do this, he will never like you again, think about it, if you want a person to like yourself, it's the opposite of the above, and it's effective.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    A lot of people have had this experience with you, but they've all come here, and since you can think so for yourself, I believe you can too!

    Do you often surf the Internet? Or go to a bar, if that's the case, it's easy to get decadent and don't save any money.

    Surround yourself regularly with some of the more successful people, and you'll change.

    If you are often with someone who plays mahjong, you will always become a mahjong player!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and of course you are not happy thinking about your shortcomings every day.

    You write down your strengths, find a book, and read it every morning.

    Don't tell me that there is no advantage, you have to think with your heart, it doesn't mean that you have to be a few heads above others to be superior, I'm kind and it's also an advantage.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Everybody is like that, you're a part of the world, so it's impossible to compare, everybody has their own characteristics, don't envy others, just be yourself.

    For you must have a lot of things that others don't ... It's just that those advantages are like side dishes on rice balls, because they grow on the back, so others can see them, but they can't see them.

    Don't worry about things at home... It's useless to regret or worry about what others think.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You don't have too much self-esteem and try to change yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Actually, if you dare to speak up, you have solved your problem.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Hate yourself, don't like yourself, because you don't know yourself, you don't know what your real needs are?

    The person in your body doesn't belong to you, you don't know him, is it possible that you want him to do a lot of things that you like?

    So, at this time, please calm down and think carefully about why you are doing something that you think is annoying. Why did you become a person you hate, find out the most fundamental reasons, for example, you think that the other person cares, you are afraid to say something like that, you need warmth, and so on, and then find a way to solve these problems, first of all, change a lot of your own contrary behaviors from your own attitude. Do what you like, be authentic, yourself, and many times when you are not real, you hate yourself even more.

    Love yourself! Be lenient with yourself!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you hate yourself, then others won't like you either. You must first love yourself, even if you do something wrong, just correct it, even if some things can't be changed, then try to adapt. If you hate yourself for a long time, you will get sick.

    And make the people around you who care about you unhappy and don't know how to help you. Everything will be fine, come on! tomorrow is another day!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You are a little negative, you know that your shortcomings can be improved, you don't have to change them immediately, you can change them gradually, you know that you can change until you think you can, sometimes give yourself confidence in the point, and put your mentality in a good way, so that you can not take detours.

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