What if you can t adapt to a big city, what are the discomforts of living in a big city?

Maybe it's just that you're too worried, and when you make friends in Guangzhou, maybe your mentality will change, big cities always bring people a sense of loneliness, a person is always lonely, you are in your hometown because people are not very familiar. When you get to Guangzhou, the consumption is high, but there are also a lot of good things, and there are many places to play, isn't it? When you have friends, you will want to know the city, and when you have been in Guangzhou for a long time, you will go shopping with your friends, what if you find a girlfriend?

Isn't it good to have a place to play without worrying? What do you think of what I'm talking about now?

I have this phobia, so now I have found a place to work, restrain yourself, and four years will pass immediately!

Dear, a few years ago, like you, I felt that the working environment in big cities was good, the treatment was good, and it was easy to find a job. But the price of big cities is very high, have you seen the movie of snail dwelling, after watching it, I think you will understand, the key is to find a job and environment that fits your heart, in your hometown, although the environmental treatment is not very good, but the price is relatively low, and you are not used to seeing high-rise buildings, go back to your hometown to find a job that suits you, isn't it better, or, after you graduate from Guangzhou, intern for 1 year, and then refer to your own heart, maybe you will understand better that ** is the most suitable for you.

Don't be a frog at the bottom of a well, the world is big, you have to get used to it slowly, just stay a few more days, don't be afraid.

Your idea is very normal, most college students have, many people feel that they are college students, and then go back to a small place to feel faceless, in fact, it is their own psychological problems, small cities are not necessarily worse than big cities, now many small cities are developing faster than big cities, and there are more development opportunities, rather than staying in big cities, it is better to look at small cities, maybe there are opportunities for themselves!

After living in a big city, my biggest feeling is that I can have a place where I can give full play to my talents.

It is not only fair, but also allows us to better be ourselves, achieve a better self, and also achieve our own life ideals, so that our lives can truly become more meaningful.

Therefore, we must continue to work hard to learn and improve ourselves, without hard work, we can achieve a better self, and only by continuous learning, our life will become better.

Those who use their leisure time to continuously improve their abilities, although they are not shocked, but with the precipitation of time, their competitiveness is constantly increasing, learning allows them to have more choices and more opportunities, so as to better realize their life ideals.

Learning is a habit that should be persistent, only in this way can you face the changing environment of the outside world, in real life everyone is working hard, only if you show more ability others can recognize it, if you just want to get it for nothing, even if you can get a temporary achievement is difficult to last, the final result is bound to be not smooth.

For themselves, what they can do is to broaden their horizons, continue to learn to improve their filial piety, and enhance their overall quality and level, only in this way can they become better in their future lives, so for ordinary people, the way to make themselves better is to eliminate the laziness of thought, and improve their ability to shout their own.

Fragmented time is the most precious, but it is also the easiest to waste, in this era of more and more convenient access to knowledge, we can only make good use of these fragmented time, insist on learning a little something every day, in order to increase personal ability, and finally achieve the direction of excellence.

Some people will ask: how to take time out of your busy work to read? In fact, it is not difficult, we can use fragmented time to study, on the way to and from work, on the journey, fragmented time can be more concentrated learning, to avoid burnout due to long-term study.

After waking up early, commuting to work, waiting for someone, eating, and going to bed, we can use these idle and easy to waste time on our mobile phones to study, and if you stick to it for a while, you will gain unexpected things.

A good mindset is very important, and if you don't have a positive mindset, you can't do things positively, so you should overcome the negative psychological effects and try to have a good mindset. Maintain a broad mind, be tolerant and tolerant of things, be able to deal with them calmly, actively participate in outdoor activities to cultivate a strong will, and be able to not be discouraged or discouraged when encountering difficulties.

No matter what others have done or not done, your only task is to keep growing and increase wisdom, we have to focus on reflection and harvest, real growth is obtained in hard work, so be positive and sunny in life.

The biggest feelings after going to live in a big city may vary from person to person, but here are some of my common feelings:

One is the high cost of living: Living in a big city usually requires paying higher rent, transportation costs, and daily expenses. This can put a certain amount of stress on one's finances.

The second is population density: large cities usually have more people and higher population densities, which means that traffic jams, queues, etc. may be more common. At the same time, branches may also be more likely to feel lonely and lack of connection with others.

Four are. Competitive pressure: In big cities, many people are competing for the same job or position, which means that competitive pressure can be greater. At the same time, there is also a certain class division in society, which can lead to a certain sense of insecurity.

Fifth, the pace of life is fast: Big cities usually operate at a busy pace, and the pace of work and life may also accelerate. This can lead to a certain amount of stress and fatigue that requires adaptation and adjustment.

Sixth, the problem of children's schooling: because of busy work, there is no time to take care of children's study and life, and they get up early and take care of their children to and from school every day, which makes people feel haggard.

In summary, living in a big city can present many challenges and opportunities that individuals need to adapt to and deal with.

1) Lifestyle habits.

Here, we usually go to bed at ten o'clock. At night, there are parks and roads around, and there is a lot of activity everywhere. In the countryside, the village is basically quiet after dinner. Very few people visit the door.

Accustomed to the quietness of the countryside, they are not accustomed to the bustling life.

For young people, it's a good thing to be lively. For the elderly, being too noisy can upset them. Some elderly people with high blood pressure can't hear the noise the most.

There are toilets in the city, and there are latrines in the countryside. The mother-in-law said that she was not used to the smiling toilets here, and she felt very uncomfortable.

We all eat as much as we do here. My mother-in-law likes to cook a lot of food at home, and she can't finish it in the refrigerator or feed it to the geese.

2) Lifestyle.

There are traffic lights for big cars here, because many places have to scan the code to enter. And my mother-in-law doesn't know how to read, so she thinks it's very troublesome here.

Nowadays, the elderly are still doing farm work at home. They have been farming all their lives. Those who are dexterous are willing to farm, and in the countryside, the old people always have endless work.

My mother-in-law came here and didn't have anything else to do except cook. She'll get bored. People who have been busy all their lives can't be idle.

The filial piety that children think is idle is a pain for them.

In the city, we rarely greet other Hanzhi people except for people we know. But people in the countryside are different, even if they don't know each other, they will greet each other.

3) Cost of living.

My mother-in-law said that things in the city are much more expensive than those at home. They grow wheat all year round, and their income is not particularly high. So they all feel that it is very difficult to make money.

Usually, the mother-in-law will be very economical to herself, and she is very generous to us.

She came home and gave a lot of garlic and green onions that they planted. The mother-in-law said that she would come back to get it after eating. Don't buy it in the city, it's too expensive.

Most of the elderly are like this, they live very frugally and are reluctant to spend money. They don't like to live in the city, they feel that the cost of living here is too high, and there will always be a burden in their hearts.

Live in the countryside, eat your own, live your own. It won't cost too much a month, and they'll feel happier and freer.

In rural areas, most children will go their separate ways after graduating from primary school due to family reasons, some continue to go to school, some go to vocational and technical schools, and some start to work outside the home.

Since then, the respective tracks have never been the same.

The first time I came into contact with a big city, it was because of the summer work, and the sedan chair entered the factory without exception, and it was here that I realized that I still have to study hard, and it is really important to have money.

The second time I came into contact with a big city, it was because of an internship, and the principal said that we should all go outside to see the world, and we didn't want us to be in this big mountain village.

So sent us to the coast and saw a lot of foreigners, but also a lot of quality people, who were really polite.

Broaden your horizons, and let yourself truly realize the power of vision, people are really so different.

Of course, you can also see the explosion of wealth, the world is in a thousand states, and the state is different.

Later, after graduation, I still chose to work in a big city, because I wanted to work my own, and when I learned that the initial application was based on my own ideas, although I didn't know what I wanted to apply for at that time, I still acted according to my own ideas after graduation.

Maybe you don't want to live a step-by-step life by nature, so you're always restless inside.

I thought that I could get together often with my classmates in the same city, but I found that I thought too much, and people are lonely after all.

Later, I traveled to several cities, and I was able to do and love my work in the face of work, but I couldn't find a sense of belonging.

I feel lonely, because I am alone a lot of the time, and the life of 2 o'clock and one line is very ordinary.

Later, I took a lot of courses before I slowly began to know myself, and some of my early experiences made me make such behaviors and choices one after another.

On the premise of protecting yourself, it is not easy to sincerely accept others into your life and work, so that you can truly integrate, so it is more necessary to have a few good friends, not to let yourself have too heavy burdens, and to be considerate of yourself. Take care of yourself.

You should appropriately relax your requirements for yourself, retreat to the next best, and find a place that is truly suitable for your own development.

I think you have to work hard to adapt, you can't wait for society to adapt to you, if you can't do it, you can leave the place you can't adapt to and find a place to start over.

You can go to the second and third tier cities to develop and find a job that suits you better, where the pace of life is slower.

If you don't have any big ambitions, why force yourself to go to a big city to work hard...

Not to mention the hardship, it is difficult to find a job in a big city, the cost of living is high, and it is difficult to get ahead in ordinary jobs, so it is like this. If you don't have some background acquaintances, you generally can't mix it up. Those poor people who can mix together are those who have extraordinary business acumen and opportunities, and are more able to endure hardships than ordinary people.

If college graduates are very unwilling to go home, then why should so many college students in China go to do it? Think about it, in fact, this diploma is not looked down on by others, but we who study for so many years to get a diploma, and in the end it is useless and I feel very unwilling. Everyone has a diploma, and technology is the most important thing.

People are compared to men, compared to dead people, and all of them are compared to each other. There are still many college students in China who are unemployed.

In fact, small cities are not necessarily frogs at the bottom of the well, and now China is developing so fast, and they are speeding up the construction from large cities to small cities.

If you don't have ambition and ambition, you can't bear too much hard work, too much pressure, incomprehension and long-term failure, and you feel okay living in a small place, and if you like comfort, you should go to a place that suits you. What's right for you is the best.

Sharks in the sea, goldfish in the pond, I'm in the bathtub at my house... Haha o ( o haha