The confession of a 24 year old male college student, love, work, and not going well, gave me a reas

There are always times in life when things don't go well, and people grow up in difficult situations. By the time you're gray-haired, you'll be ridiculous at what you're thinking. There is no love, no work, you still have loved ones, you have health, you have knowledge, for the sake of your parents, you should not easily throw away your life, do you want them to endure the pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person?

More people than you are more unfortunate than you are people who have given up? The earth doesn't stop turning because of your sadness, and what you want is self-confidence, and as a man, you have to be able to withstand a certain amount of blows

Survival is a kind of proof of being alive, so how do you prove that you are living a wonderful life? It's up to you to open up on your own I'm also a fresh graduate But I'm not as pessimistic as you Life is not smooth sailing Maybe these unsatisfactory things now are a kind of enriching process of your life experience You will be grateful in the future Look at the world with another eye Maybe you will find the beauty of the world What is the reason not to survive well?

Don't you want to see what the world will look like in 10 years and what you're like?

Will it be worse Since it won't Let's see.

KFC's grandfather only started playing fast food in his 70s.

Your life is not yours alone, and this is enough to make you sober.

By: qbazzi - Thousand total level 4.

Support you.

In fact, it's not for nothing that 24 years old hasn't been in a relationship, I'm a college student, and many boys in our department (on average almost 22 years old this year) have never been in love. So, don't worry too much about this, but it's okay, I feel that you have a good personality, appearance, and height are no problem, as long as you give yourself more information, and then go to socialize with girls more, there will always be a suitable one! However, nowadays girls pay more attention to the abilities of boys, so working hard to improve your work ability and increase your income can also make you more attractive.

It's not good for others to quarrel every day when they get married, so don't envy others, go out more by yourself to meet different people, or get to know the lonely little mm around them from friends and classmates Anyway, you are single and free Your conditions are okay So don't be afraid of loneliness, the boy who accompanies loneliness is the most handsome

There are many people who do a good job first and then fall in love, you can find the kind that is similar to your personality, or the kind that is more quiet, look at the opposite sex around you, communicate more, I think there will be one suitable for you. Bless you.

Go and be a soldier. There are the following benefits:

1。Exercise your physical fitness.

2。Since you have culture. It is possible to enter a military school in the army. In order to.

Inside and back to do the officer's appearance.

3。If the officer exam is too difficult. Then you can take the non-commissioned officer exam. It's simpler. You can get a salary later. But promotion is more difficult.

4。If you don't want to be an officer. After being discharged. Since you have a post-secondary diploma. You can go to a more exclusive hotel. Or a more advanced company to work as a security guard. The treatment is relatively generous. Some can even reach 5000 months.

5。You can learn techniques in the army. Later, I came out and ate by myself with technology.

So it's very wise to go to the army.

Brother, you are over the age of conscription.

It's too big ...

It's too old to mix

Also, you're overage. 。

Dry goods: When should college students go to the army, is it better?

You can go on a blind date, let your classmates and relatives introduce you, and you won't be so introverted with the person you like, just like my object, and others are also very introverted, just talk to me about everything, it's okay, don't worry.

It's normal, but your last sentence probably let everyone know why you are still single at the age of 24.

Your situation is a bit special, your disadvantage is that you have less skills, because you don't have a relationship, no rights, no status And in reality, many, many women look at men who have been or are close to success.

So I suggest that you, first, you have to be motivated first, do some grades, if you want to wait for that girl who likes your type to appear, it's a little difficult, but you can't say no, salted fish and cabbage, everyone has their own love.

Now you should adjust your mentality and don't need to pay attention to others, he has his good, and you also have your good. If you are looking for a girlfriend, it is recommended that you must have something different, otherwise it will be difficult to attract the opposite sex.

Sports, humor, eloquence, strong 、、、 are fine, it's up to you.

It's very rare for you to do this, but it's not abnormal, girls, most of them always have to pursue to have results, and if you're not financially good, then you have to use other highlights in you to pursue.

It's normal, but you have to be a little more extroverted and more proactive.

It's normal, the guy next to my house hasn't been in love in his 30s. Well, be an extrovert and try to communicate with people, especially girls.

Look down on the money, everything is easy to do!

Of course it's normal, what if you haven't been in love at twenty-four! You're not too dirty. If you are a student, you should study hard. Isn't your vision too high?

It's a bit abnormal, you may be homosexual... It must be ...

A little not extroverted, no fetishes, beneficial to attract girls.

I'm 21 years old, and I haven't yet! Sympathy!

Normal, like you. If you have a girlfriend, it will be a woman for life. Career and family (including girlfriend) are up to you. Don't force it.

Normal, don't be stressed, this thing has to come naturally, there is no happiness in compulsion, and a person is also very good, there are many geniuses who are buried in marriage, such as Lev, Tolstai.

Answer pro! It is normal for a boy to be 24 years old and not have a person to talk to, but for some unexplained reasons, there is a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women in our country. There are 70 million more men than women, and now that people's working environment has changed, girls rarely work in one place for long periods of time, which leads to fewer opportunities to meet the right girls.

Third, you can tell your colleagues and friends half-jokingly that you may be able to make it happen to the person you introduced.

Hehe, men should focus on their careers, and love matters are casual, not in a hurry. For those of us who studied engineering, due to the serious imbalance between men and women, we all graduated at the age of 24. There aren't many boys in the class who have girlfriends, and you're pretty normal.

If you want to break through outside, don't go back, you can find it outside, and you don't have to go home to find it

If I don't go back, it's only 24 after all, it's not very big, let's earn money first, and it's not too late to get married at 30

Let's work hard for 4 years first, have a stable job, and a high income, which is the foundation of a happy family.

After 4 years, you have these, and you can get married. During this year, it is possible to talk about love.

You can find one here without going back.

Falling in love is everyone's right, and it doesn't mean that you can't fall in love because of work, which requires courage and fate.

If you meet the right one and you are excited, then you can try to chase it. Handled well, love and work are not in conflict. Sometimes, love can be a boost to work, good luck!

24 Don't talk about how long it will be?

I just didn't meet the person you were destined for.

You can't just be a close friend of hers, or a brother or sister, understand?

In a word, you have to act like a man, not a good person. Complete.

If you think you are good, it does not mean that others think you are good, you must have a fate to fall in love, and you must have opportunities, not if you want to talk about it. If there is fate, there will be naturally. Can't be in a hurry.

If you don't pay attention to this, of course you don't, now you are 30 years old to talk about it, don't worry too much, men should focus on their careers. Rattle.

Are you sure? Don't you have shortcomings?

Sometimes fate is not enough, and it is difficult to get your true love if you force it.

It is recommended not to be too "narcissistic", or let others judge your own strengths and weaknesses, so as to understand yourself more deeply

Good luck finding your beloved soon.

You're a man, right? Men should take the initiative and be generous!

Don't get too hung up, so do I, have faith in the future, and be confident that there will be a good girl waiting for you not far ahead.

Being brave is a matter of words. It's uncomfortable to hold it like this. It doesn't affect it, there is a kind of confidant, which is different from a lover and a lover, just a pure friend relationship.

I think it would, and if her heart wasn't made of ice, then your silent help, protection, and your kindness to her, she couldn't possibly not feel it. If I can't reciprocate the same feelings, I will feel indebted to you.

No, but it's better to confess, I'm sorry for myself.

If everything is like this, it may be, but since you love her, why don't you confess, maybe she is also waiting for your confession.

If he doesn't love you, it will affect his life, and it will affect his own life.

It won't affect him. will affect you.

No, she won't be able to do without you after a long time!

It won't affect your life.

No, but why don't you confess?

Friend, I'm a newbie who has just been working for ten days. I'm sympathetic to you, it's really hard to find a job right now.

I suggest you find a job that matches the work you did before. You have to believe that you are also a human being, you are not inferior to others, everyone is equal, you are just unlucky for the time being!

That said, you should read more books like interview guides to improve your interview skills. You have to work before you can learn knowledge to succeed!

Salary is really not an issue, you can do what others can do. As long as you work hard, you will succeed, you have to cherish your work, there is a saying: not the job needs you, but you need to work!

Believe in yourself, when others recognize your level, you are an expert, then it will be different, what do you say?

Don't be discouraged, have faith! come on !The world is right in front of you!

You can't even eat this little bit of pain, what else can you do?

Why do you want to promote you when there are more people in the factory?

Do your job well, be conscientious, and be promoted sooner or later.

Apply according to your major. Even if you are a general worker, you must be attentive and give full play to your wisdom.

I specially recommend you to buy a job search guide or something like that, the latter is to spend money to consult teachers, there are teachers who specialize in teaching others how to deal with interviews, you can try it In addition, whatever major you study, you can do whatever professional job as long as you find your professional job, well, congratulations! Half the battle! Don't worry about salary, don't worry about rank!